We attended a house party this weekend that was out of the ordinary for us.
First, a little background.
We were invited to a house party by a single female that we'd never met. The party was to include couples and singles. Something we'd never been to before, but were intrigued. We thought about it and decided we'd go if we could find someone we knew that was going. So, we emailed some of our friends and asked them to join us.
A weekend before the party, we got together with 3 couples and a single male to decide who might want to go. None really had any interest. So, I went on SLS to search some more. A single male that I was interested in contacted us and said he was going to the party. So, I was excited to meet him.
We arrived at the party, and the first thing hubby noticed was the number of single males. This made him a bit uncomfortable, so he kept a close eye on me throughout the night. We always leave a party if the males are too aggressive. This was not the case at this party, and all the guys were respectful and asked before touching.
We sat at a table and started talking to the guy I was interested in "Joe". We continued to have conversations with other couples and singles, and just enjoyed the party and socializing.
A bit later in the night, I saw Joe getting a BJ from a lady, and he motioned me over to join in. I went to find my hubby and asked him to come inside to the bedroom. His fantasy is MFM (absolutely no MM play tho), so I wanted to make sure he was involved.
At that point, the lady giving the BJ said her jaws were tired, and asked me to take over, which I did. From there we proceeded onto the bed, where hubby was behind me (doggy style), while I was giving head to Joe. Then we switched positions, and I finished off hubby in my mouth. He was very pleased. Hubby then lay on his side and watched, while Joe and I continued play.
It was the best MFM encounter we've had to date, and one I hope to repeat with Joe in the future.
What made Joe different was that he and his wife had been in the lifestyle for years until she passed away. He was very respectful and alot of fun.
We also ran into a couple that we had met a few years ago, and are looking forward to getting together with them sometime soon.
What we learned was that even if the party is not exactly to our taste, don't run out right away. Take time to get to know people that you may want to play with at a later date.