Hey all! i live on the jersey shore and my wife and i used to post here under a different name. so i'm not exactly a newbie.
anyway, my wife and i used to go to swing clubs but she lost interest bout 4 years ago and we haven't been back since. we never swapped but we liked to watch and be watched. along with some innocent rubbing with whatever other couples were next to us. i loved it, but like i said, she lost interest.
i miss it and i can't seem to talk her back into it. we never had a bad experience or anything, she's just stubborn like that. our sex life is still fine but i have always been wilder and more open-minded than her when it comes to things like this.
she is not bi at all! i experimented a little way back in college. i always hoped to keep my sex life fun and interesting and open to new ideas. but my wife really doesn't go for it and would probably lead to major trouble if she knew my fantasies.
i'd still like to have 3-somes or 4-somes with my wife, but that doesn't seem like it's ever gonna happen again.
so, i don't know what to do. i'm not gay by any means, just very sexual. i pretty much figure that if it feels good, do it!
my wife and i have a happy marriage, besides my sexual frustration. and i hate the thought of cheating on her. but at this point, if she doesn't want to go further and i want to keep trying new things...see, i don't know what to do.
i thought about maybe looking for another couple close by me in NJ who may be into a discreet relationship with a bi guy, but i think the guilt would probably bother me. like i said, i'm still interested in fulfilling my fantasies and exploring new thinga and it's awful to think that it's all over already at age 37! i thoght it would be interseting if i could find a married couple and even just be with the husband while the wife watches. that idea really turns me on as much as anything else.
ah, well. there it is. am i alone in this situation or what? feel free to give me your ideas, opinions and brandishments. i can take it!