Am I really looking in the right circle or should I move on to somewhere else? My situation- I am happily married and have enjoyed a few threesomes f/f/m(hubby gave oral only didn't receive)and would like to meet a lady that likes to have fun in and out of the bedroom. My hubby and I have agreed that we, or should I say I ,would not play alone , he naturally doesn't because he's in this to watch me and another lady. We haven't yet involved another man ,as in a couple, in our play and hubby confuses me . one day he 'll say that he wouldn't have a problem if we were with a couple and only oral was involved . then the next day he'd turn around and say he would only want the other man there for their spouse. Other then lots of communication to really know what he's comfortable with are there really couples out there that would be comfortable with the hubby there for their spouse and just enjoying watching..