funcoupledayton 2,707 Posted February 20, 2017 Have you tried wax play? Do you enjoy it? Tell me about your experiences. I have done it as part of a fmf threesome and it was really fun. I am currently writing a story that features wax play and would love to hear other people's impressions. Quote Share this post Link to post
GoldCoCouple 4,006 Posted February 21, 2017 We haven't tried it yet (although it is in the plan). I do know you can't use just regular 'hard' candles and you want to stay away from colored candles as well. Parafin, bees wax or soy wax candles are what you are supposed to use due to the lower melting point of the wax. Things like dye, oils, and scents usually increase the melting point and can cause a burn if used. Quote Share this post Link to post
funcoupledayton 2,707 Posted February 21, 2017 We haven't tried it yet (although it is in the plan). I do know you can't use just regular 'hard' candles and you want to stay away from colored candles as well. Parafin, bees wax or soy wax candles are what you are supposed to use due to the lower melting point of the wax. Things like dye, oils, and scents usually increase the melting point and can cause a burn if used. Your best bet is to buy candles for the purpose of pouring on people. Soy is lowest temp, then parrafin. Bees wax gets really hot, I would not recommend it. Colors are fine, and a big part of the fun. We even have some blacklight reactive ones. These are the candles we've used: https://www.etsy.com/shop/BearThings 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
VegasNudeCouple 167 Posted April 2, 2017 I found that I love candle wax since seeing the movie Summer Lovers, where hot wax was used in a sexual moment. Since then, I love to drip hot wax on my lovers (both men and women), but find using it on my husband even more exciting as he has large nipples. We love to have candle wax a part of our regular repetoire. Laura Dave and Laura Quote Share this post Link to post
couplers 4,136 Posted April 4, 2017 Your best bet is to buy candles for the purpose of pouring on people. Soy is lowest temp, then parrafin. Bees wax gets really hot, I would not recommend it. Colors are fine, and a big part of the fun. We even have some blacklight reactive ones. These are the candles we've used: https://www.etsy.com/shop/BearThings Thanks for the advice. I haven't done this but it sounds interesting. Candles generally are nice, but I worry about burning down the house. Quote Share this post Link to post
SW_PA_Couple 4,019 Posted April 5, 2017 . . . burning down the house.Talking Heads 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
Guest Posted April 5, 2017 This was a good topic. I always thought that hot wax was something I would enjoy; I enjoy other forms of light pain such as spankings, nipple clips, etc. so I tried using handle wax on the back of my hand once and it blistered, and hurt like hell. Nice to know that there are special candles that might better foot the bill. Quote Share this post Link to post
VegasNudeCouple 167 Posted April 8, 2017 Dave and I like to use parafin, especially if it is on sensitive spots like my clit or his cock. We first got into wax on nipples, and now have expanded to other areas. The key is that your partner must be tied up and submissive (with a safe word of course) Being an ex dominatrix, I like to be the one to pour the wax, but also like to be blindfolded and suprised where the pain will be. Laura and Dave Quote Share this post Link to post