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Guys: Do you use viagra (or similar drugs) to assist you in swinging?  

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  1. 1. Guys: Do you use viagra (or similar drugs) to assist you in swinging?

    • I have in the past but don't need it anymore
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    • I use it regularly
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    • I have never used it but have considered it
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    • I have never used it nor have any need to try it.
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While the topic of viagra has come up many times on here and has been discussed in many ways, I don't believe we've ever attempted to do a poll asking the question of just how many guys actually do use Viagra to assist them in swinging... so here it is guys... have you? do you? would you?

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We use it when swinging. What's the point in going swinging and then have to say "Sorry it won't work"! Can we forget about full swap now...sorry?

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I have used Viagra when at a house party. It definitely facilitates multiple performances. I'd describe my use as "occasional" rather than "regular".

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We have friends who gave me a couple of Viagra just for fun shortly after they came on the market. The first time, I had the "blue vision" that is a documented side effect. I don't remember much other effect. The second time, the orgasm wasn't worth having. Absolutely the worst waste of time ever. I could hardly feel it.

 

That was a long time ago. It was probably worth a try just to see what they are like. For me, I wouldn't ever bother again.

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Wow. I know it's only a small sampling so far, but over 50% of those who have responded have at least used it once for swinging (44% use it regularly).

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Wow. I know it's only a small sampling so far, but over 50% of those who have responded have at least used it once for swinging (44% use it regularly).

 

We suspect those stats are right for those who swing regular and haven't got large egos in the way! :cool:

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I started taking Cialis after an embarrassing "cooperation" incident (or lack there of) and now take it regularly as insurance. I like it a lot and my friends seem to agree :).

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I have it and take it when needed, if I haven't had an erection with anticipation of the night then I will take it to make sure the evening is fun for all. The older I get the more I take it.

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Your four ???? should also have the option of occasionally. I'm sure that would generate a more cross section of responses. Regards to all. Tim.

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Yes, I have a prescription.

 

There have been a few times I was very glad I had it.

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I have not yet used it... but I take a supplement that is supposed to increase natural testosterone production. Still tracking my results. So far it seems somewhat effective. I just need to learn to take the full dose before a 'party'.

 

I don't consider it a drug, but maybe you would. I put down no, but I have considered it.

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When I started taking B.P. pills 5 years ago at age 45, I took 25mg of Viagra to insure that I'll perform whenever the opportunity presents itself. Very embarrassing to have the engine fail to start when needed. Last year, I switched over to Cialis since it lasts for up to 48 hours which is just fine for a weekend of play. I pop a pill an hour before the party and am good for abut 2 days. Viagra does take almost an hour to take full effect (I orally satisfy my mate for that time period) and it only lasts for 4 hours - I won't just keep popping another pill, it's probably not a good thing to do. Interestingly, I don't really need ED pills when I'm with my wife. I'm a lot more comfy and relaxed with her than when at a party with lots of on-lookers and potential swap-mates and having the pressure of "putting on a good show" as if I were on stage.

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Beachswinger,

 

I'm the same, when I'm with my wife, my wood appears VERY quickly... when I'm in a room of people I just met, well... deflation issues have happened. :sad:

 

I if I can't find a technique to keep the erection, I may go the Cialis route too.

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I've never taken the stuff, or any other performance drug. It seems that any problems encountered, and there have been occasions, are resolved given some patience then or another time.

 

Not that there is anything wrong about the drug, but I am just on the total opposite side of better living through pharmacy visiting. Both my in-laws are Med Techs, and my father-in-law was a pharmaceutical salesman throughout his professional career. The philosophy: Pop a pill, and your troubles will go away... does not work for me. That said, if popping one of those was the only way Mr. Handy could get hard, then I'd be rethinking that philosophy.

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I have used it, and will again, but it was given to me to try, and I liked the effect, made me last longer, as a man that can usually get it up more then once in an evening, it just made what I have work more efficiently!

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OK...just once I tired it several years ago at the insistence of a friend's wife at a party and I cut the big "blue tab" in half...OMG, GLAD I DID, that is, I took only a half dose! I thought my heart was going to come out of my chest for 10 minutes when my heart rate began to race up! Scared me to death and I would have lost any normal erection I had from fear of heart failure, BUT the "blue tab" was kicking in and gave me a hard-on for two hours that no matter how many times I ejaculated it never lost any rigidity at all until suddenly at 2 hours it just dropped like a wet noodle completely worn out.

 

Not the experience I wanted nor needed...and Viagra is not on my list of things I want to do ever again. It changed my male experience to the point that cumming had little meaning since my penis required NO re-stimulated after each ejaculation. Which was something I missed emotionally and my fuck buddies back then sort of felt cheated by a drug replacing their loving oral attentions that I craved so much to regain that rock hard condition...but if your female lover wants a cock that never loses its rock hard appeal while she is totally self absorbed for +2 hours of cock riding (and she can take that much internal friction w/o pain at some point) and your cock is capable of re-growing its second skin quickly, then the "blue tab" is for you.

 

Personally, Thron & I enjoy the fun of re-stimulating each other after my ejaculation and losing my erection...it gives her time to re-group from each of her climactic waves and allows us as long as we want to continue our play and emotionally respond to each other after each erection which bonds us together so beautifully. She views a penis as well served by her when it cums and falls limp after her giving it all her attentive affections...this means "mission accomplished" for her regardless if it is me or a friend.

 

So if the "blue tab" is a necessary medical application to address other issues, then enjoy it as needed, but Viagra is not for us.

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Never thought of using drugs until we started swinging as I never needed any help with my wife. After some problems performing with others I decided to try a variety of drugs. I now use ED drugs and natural supplements to enhance performance.

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Never thought of using drugs until we started swinging as I never needed any help with my wife. After some problems performing with others I decided to try a variety of drugs. I now use ED drugs and natural supplements to enhance performance.

 

Which variety?

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I took Lavitra and got a headache, and switched to Cialis. Perfect for me cut a 20mg in half and am good for repeated performances, and noticed a much thicker cock, which is much appreciated, I feel much more confident and think I am a much better partner.

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I wouldn't say I need the drug ,my use has been purely experimental as well as recreational. I find the recoup time for round two or three is less when I use any of the E. D. drugs.

 

An interesting fact is that the dosage of many of them is very often more than one needs. With the price of these drugs being so high, I suggest those who choose to try them should try half the prescribed dose first. As a result one's prescription will last twice as long. :rolleyes:

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I use them as insurance. I don't think I really need them but psychologically it makes me feel better. Since I only "bite off" about half of a 100mg tablet, I have no problem with taking the other half later. Usually when I know where things will be heading I discreetly take half and leave the other half in my pocket.

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I have never used them, but then again i don't really need them. I have had performance issues once or twice, but they were due to nerves and not any medical condition. That being said i am still curious and given the opportunity i would probably try one or half of one as suggested above.

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:lol: Why not use it, it avoids embarrassment and helps with everyone's enjoyment.

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I went on testosterone supplements 3 years ago. I think this has for me delayed the point when stuff like Viagra might become needed.

 

For me, I would rather use a naturally occurring substance a level that some men experience naturally than something that is relatively new and unknown.

The overall effects of T supplementation are controversial. Some docs say it will do things like decrease insulin resistance. There are others that think it increases chance of prostate cancer. Overall, I decided in favor of supplementation.

 

Now, that said, if I really needed viagra or something like it, I would use it. However, I'd explore other routes first.

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Susan here-- We had two couples over and as an experiment all three husbands took a minimum dose of viagra. Well, I would not like it this way all the time, but there was almost no girl-girl play because these guys were fucking us constantly. Why ? Because they could ! :) So, it was a nice 'change of pace' night.

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Can anybody recommend how to go about getting a prescription to try all three to see which is best for me? I'm in Nashville. Thanks.

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Seeing as there are so many people on here using it. Does anyone know where to get it online without a prescription? There seems to be a lot of places but I'm not sure which ones are reputable and which ones are scams.

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Can anybody recommend how to go about getting a prescription to try all three to see which is best for me? I'm in Nashville. Thanks.

 

This might not be too helpful for you, but when I was at Desire in Cabo they sold all three at the gift shop. I had never taken one so I bought all three and tried them. I thought Cialis was the best for enhancing feeling.

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I use them as insurance. I don't think I really need them but psychologically it makes me feel better.

 

This sounds like us. He has never had a problem with just me. He's had a couple of performance issues in the past with women and he takes it now as a precaution. His refractory period is almost nil with the pill. He takes 25mg of a viagra and he's good to go... and go...and go.

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Seeing as there are so many people on here using it. Does anyone know where to get it online without a prescription? There seems to be a lot of places but I'm not sure which ones are reputable and which ones are scams.

 

As a precaution, I don't think I'd get them without a prescription. I believe there is just too much risk because you have no idea what's in those pills or capsules. You will definitely pay more, but, what is your health really worth? Taking these things that come through a disreputable dealer could be (worst case scenario) deadly. Just my 2 cents.

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LFM2 said:
As a precaution, I don't think I'd get them without a prescription. I believe there is just too much risk because you have no idea what's in those pills or capsules. You will definitely pay more, but, what is your health really worth? Taking these things that come through a disreputable dealer could be (worst case scenario) deadly. Just my 2 cents.

 

My problem isn't the money...it's more my Dr. She won't prescribe them to me. She says I shouldn't need it at my age. If only she knew why I wanted them....lol

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Then your Dr. is right. Since you won't explain :lol: The Dr. does have to take a lot of things into consideration. I don't even have to ask because of my health. It's a no.

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I forgot to mention that I have been on anti depressants for a few years and as you know , this affects the sexual drive of a guy. She knows this because she prescribed it to me. Other then that I have no health issues. Typically, I have no issues with my wife although I do find I lose erections after playing for a bit. Add the lifestyle and I've added more pressure to myself to perform. So no, she is wrong. I told her that I've been having troubles and she just expects me to deal with it.

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I forgot to mention that I have been on anti depressants for a few years and as you know , this affects the sexual drive of a guy. She knows this because she prescribed it to me. Other then that I have no health issues. Typically, I have no issues with my wife although I do find I lose erections after playing for a bit. Add the lifestyle and I've added more pressure to myself to perform. So no, she is wrong. I told her that I've been having troubles and she just expects me to deal with it.

 

I still wouldn't fly to an online pharmacy for prescriptionless viagra. In this situation, I'd get a second opinion. If you're not taking nitrates, I see no problem with Viagra. If you do get a second opinion, don't forget to mention other medications that you're taking (like you forgot to mention with us).

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Perhaps you didn't read my post correctly. My Dr. prescribed the anti depressants to me. I am having issues with my libido because of the anti depressants. She knows this. Tell her the truth about what, swinging? It's only a small part of the problem. I am also having issues occasionally with my wife because of the medication and she knows that too.Why am I even Justifying myself to you Biloxi? My original post was asking if anyone knows where to get V or C online without a prescription. If you cannot answer the question or don't want to, move on.

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