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  1. MFM was my main reason for giving swinging a try, as MFM obviously requires an extra guy!! I am totally in love with my husband and he is a wonderful lover. We decided to try swinging to add a little spice to our life. We are new to Swinging and have only swung a few times. We haven't "hooked up" with a "single male" yet. It seemed easier to start out with couples. That said, having two men all to myself, both of them happily pleasing me, is so delicious !! When we first got into the lifestyle, I assumed (wrongly of course) that the single men were only out for the sex. It is great to hear that some of you want to feel a connection, be friends, etc. It would be hard for me to enjoy being with someone that I didn't feel a connection for. By the way, JacobSky, I love your pic. I happen to like "Cowboys"!
  2. I think height is relative Jacobsky. Especially when you are in bed!! I have been reading some of your posts and loving your answers. I am proud to be a brunette, have never dyed my hair blond and wouldn't even if someone payed me. I agree that the media overhypes the "blond ideal". We are constantly wondering why every actress thinks they look better blond. We love natural women who are proud of what they look like and are not trying to look like someone else. It is refreshing to hear that women don't have to be blond to be beautiful! I think Brunettes have more fun anyway!
  3. I love it, love it, love it !! Backdoor is always open for my hubby. Nervous about sharing it with others. Have read too many horror stories about men who aren't gentle, and the gal ends up really hurt.
  4. This will be a long story, but here goes. Cowboy and I have been together for21 years in a wonderful, loving, committed relationship. Neither of us had ever been with anyone else. Last year, we started talking about how neither of us had a chance to "sow our wild oats". We would never cheat on each other, but we both thought it would be fun to experiment with others. Swinging seemed like the way to do it. We researched and found the Desire resort in Cancun. We thought Desire sounded like the perfect place to "try out" swinging, in a low pressure, non-threatening environment. To get out feet wet and see if we liked it. Also, being out of the country and away from anyone we might know seemed like a good idea. We live in a VERY conservative area, and we know that we have to be very discreet to keep from hurting our careers. We also live far away from big cities, so getting together with other like minded folks will be hard. We tried to book a trip to Desire in 05, but it didn't work out. We kept talking about swinging, fantasizing about it while making love, both hoping we would find a way to make it happen. In spring 06, I was on a travel board trying to win a trip to Desire. The more posts you put on, the better your chances. One of the people also trying to win a trip was JP51. (more about the contest later) I learned a lot about his personality while reading everyone's posts. I never thought I would meet anyone from this group. I wasn't looking for potential swing partners at all. While other people on the group were busy flaming each other, JP51 was posting about his experiences traveling the world, so we often responded to each other's posts about places we had traveled. He was open-minded, intelligent, polite and funny, just like my SO! He talked about how they swing with only 3 couples that they know well. In one post, he mentioned the nudist resort they attend. I sent him a private email to get more info and we chatted a couple of times about the nudist resort. In June, he forwarded info about a live band the resort was having. I told Cowboy that I wanted to go to the resort for my birthday present. (Even-though we had never been to a nudist resort) We had never met JP51, but we figured it would be fun to hang out at the nudist resort, and meet him and his wife. Our rules ahead of time were "no hanky panky at all". We found a sitter and drove to the resort. We clicked right away with JP51 and his beautiful wife. We had a Great time spending the day nude. The live band was wonderful. It was the first time my SO and I had gone dancing since college. (We don't live anywhere near NightLife!) We both had fun dancing with the other couple. But that is as far as it went. They went home to their house and we went to a hotel. Back home, we started posting back and forth, all of us learning about each other and trying to plan another get together. 3 weeks later, we went to the resort again, and all 4 of us looked in each other's eyes and that was it. Even though my SO and I had NEVER been with anyone else, we jumped in feet first. Wow. I can't believe that we managed to do that the second time we met, but everyone was very happy. It has been full steam ahead since then, with all of us getting together as often as we can fit it into our schedules. Sometimes only 3 of us at a time, when one partner couldn't make it. And it is way more than sex. All 4 of us have feelings for everyone in the group. We all have so much in common, it is almost spooky. We have a level of comfort with each other that normally comes from knowing someone a long time. I don't know how, but I guess it was meant to be. It's been only 4 months since the day of our first face to face meeting. But it seems like we have known each other much longer. We were all a bit freaked about bringing up the word "love" because that is not what Swinging is supposed to be about, but none of us could deny the feelings. So now we are headed to Desire together. My SO and I actually booked the trip before we met JP51 and his wife. Then THEY WON the trip to Desire (How cool is that!!) and quickly booked the same week as us. Did I mention that everything has just fallen into place! Now we will have 5 days with no kids, no schedules and we can all relax and play. It will be so wonderful! I can't believe that we found such an amazing couple the first time we tried swinging. And then, we jumped past swinging and landed in a Poly relationship. Talk about wild. I still can't believe this has all happened and happened so fast. Which is why it is great to find a Poly board where we can talk about this. Can't wait to hear from all of you! Thanks for listening!
  5. This quote really applies to our Poly relationship as well. The term "Whirlwind Romance" comes to mind. All 4 of us are so blown away by how fast we have gotten into this relationship. The "unmistakable instant chemistry" is undeniable and we are all trying to make sense of it. No complaints though! Just trying to figure out how it happened!
  6. Hi, this is my first post, and wanted to make sure I put it in the right thread. My hubby and I are the A and A in JP51's post. I have been lurking on the board for a month, trying to read as much as a can. I have learned a lot during my "research" on this board. I have hesitated posting, because I am not sure where we fit in. But I finally decided to take the plunge and post. We are new to swinging, and have only swung with one couple. Amazingly, it has quickly become way more than swinging. As the feelings we all have for each other have turned into "love". We are all surprised at how quickly this has happened. We are still trying to figure it out. It is good to have a place to discuss it!
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