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Petethefuzzy

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About Petethefuzzy

  • Rank
    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 08/10/1941

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    Married
  • Location
    Corvallis, Oregon
  • Interests
    Writing, camping,
  • Occupation
    Engineer
  • Swinging Experience
    1 year

Swinger Info

  • SLS Name
    petethefuzzy
  • Favorite Club(s)
    Club Eden
  1. It all has to do with what yo were thinking when you made the rule of "soft swinging." Did you think that both of you felt exactly equally about it? You are two different people and will always be two different people. The feelings you have concerning something is always different than your mate, no matter how close you think you are. It's not her fault and it certainly isn't yours. She's just different. It sounds like she was overwhelmed by the intensity of the moment. That means she let herself really feel it! That's a good thing. Lots of people get to a point and cut themselves off, like shutting off a spigot. Whether it was the booze or whatever, she didn't. She is a treasure! Trust her leadership to help you release your inner passion, the same passion she was feeling on that occasion. You have much to learn from her. Don't try to "manage" her. Trust her. Let her lead you, share with you HER passion, and together you can reach heights you never dreamed of! Petethefuzzy
  2. Yes, we have noticed the same thing. Sometimes it's the female who is the lesser but usually it's the guy, sorry to say. But I suppose others look at US just that way. We find it works best for us to swing at private parties where there is a selection of other males and females and we are not expected to swing as a couple. The only problem with the private paties is that once the clothes come off you may not feel as free to say no to someone you really DON't want to play with. There was just such a "Motel party" last night. I wound up with three very fine ladies. My Sig. Other said there was two guys she just didn't want to play with at all so rather than having to say no, she didn't take her clothes off.
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