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  • Birthday 07/11/1962

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  1. Swinging: You can have your Kate and Edith too!
  2. Im sure I could come up with some of my own most embarassing moments....however....first thing that came to my mind was an incident where I was the SOURCE of the embarrassment, not the one embarrassed.... Years ago...I am a single mom living with 2 teenagers and 1 son thats over 18. One night very late my daughter comes banging on my bedroom door and wakes me up. She asks me to go tell the adult son to please tell him to make his girlfriend be quiet while they are having sex...seems she can hear them thru the wall and cant sleep due to the noise and she has a big test at school tomorrow. Well hell....now im cranky, kinda pissed cause I got woke up over something so stupid....so I march down the hall...open the son's bedroom door while they are in the middle of things...look right at the girl and ask her to please be quiet while she has sex cause other people in the house have to get up early. Hahahaha....she turned so red! Guess I spoiled the moment, cause she left shortly thereafter. In a few more years she would become my daughter in law. The incident was never mentioned by any of us again, but she doesnt speak to me too often...go figure! On the bright side of life...on future nights when he brought her home, I guess either they quit having sex there, or she learned to be quiet! Funny how, shortly thereafter he ended up moving out of my house and into her mothers house...that ended up working well for all of us!
  3. You are looking in the wrong dictionary Mr. Alura! From the Urban Dictionary : Pronounced "MUHL LET" A hairstyle in which the front is cut trim, but the back is long, left wild and often uncut. Even when the back is cut, it is still longer than the front. It is the sign of the redneck. Alternate names include: Ape Drape. Beaver Paddle. Bi - Level. Camero Cut. Buisness in the front, Party in the back. Canadian passport. Coupe Longveuil. El-camino. Hockey hair. Kentucky waterfall. Missouri comprimise. Mudflap. Neckwarmer. Ranchero. Shlonc (short + long). Achy-breaky-bad-mistakey. Soccer rocker. Squirrel pelt. Tennessee tophat. Yep-nope.
  4. I have 2 major weaknesses when it comes to what i find physically attractive in guys. I like them tall. I like them with long hair. Find me a tall guy with long hair and im in heaven!!!! Yes, ive found one of those to keep on a permanent basis, but always looking for new ones just to have fun with! Laura
  5. I see Sheryl's choice more as having a preference than being racist. To me she knows what she wants from this lifestyle and isnt willing to settle for less. I know many couples/women that will ONLY play with women. Does this make them sexist? I know a man that only likes to play with bbw's. Does this make him prejudiced against the hwp people out there? I have met many black guys that will only play with white women, are they racist? There are those out there that will only play with others that fall within a certain age range. There are those out there that dont want to deal with smokers or drinkers. Those that will only play with bi couples and those that refuse to play with bi couples. What should we classify these people as? We all have things that turn us on and/or turn us off when it comes to choosing our playmates within this lifestyle. Each person in this lifestyle makes their own choices as to what they want and how flexible they are with their own personal choices. I dont think its ever about being prejudiced in any way, just everyone seeking whatever it is that makes them the most satisfied. Laura
  6. My take on this subject for whatever my 2 cents is worth... Cheaters are NOT trying to swing...they just think they are because they are confused! Lets face it...the "vanilla" world has a huge misconception about what swinging is. They see us swingers as a bunch of horny people that will just drop down and do anyone that asks (or even just winks at us etc)! The "cheaters" of this world are people that dont understand the importance of communication with those closest to them (their s/o) Things go wrong in their relationships and because of that their s/o isn't in the mood as often, so the "cheater" looks elsewhere for sex rather than sitting, talking and working out the problem. I can see their point of view (sorta).... if i had this "vanilla" understanding of swinging and the lack of abilities to work out whatever problems in my own personal relationship, i guess I might be silly enuff to look into the lifestyle in an attempt to fix what I felt was wrong with my life. This wont work for these cheaters in the long run...but they seem to only be looking for the quick fix for their immediate wants, so they are looking in the wrong place! If nothing else, feel sorry for these people! They really dont have a clue! Laura
  7. life·style also life-style or life style n. A way of life or style of living that reflects the attitudes and values of a person or group. To me and Lee this is more of a lifestyle than just a hobby...but that's just us. Laura
  8. A few weeks ago I was out at the club and in the middle of playing with a guy... his cell phone rings and he proceeds to answer it and have an extended conversation with whoever was on the other end. He just couldn't understand why I got up and walked away!
  9. From a woman's point of view, I picked two choices: me on top or doggy style. Picked those two not really cause they are the "easiest" (any orgasm seems to be easy for me) but because those two positions produce the best orgasms for me!!! Just something about those two positions that always seems to hit my g-spot the best I guess! Laura
  10. Mine is trimmed but far from being shaved off! I have never once been rejected by a guy cause he preferred totally shaved. As a matter of fact, I've received quite a few complements over the years from guys that hate the totally shaved look! Do whatever works best for you and trust me, people will get over it!
  11. Never ever with kids in the house...ours or someone elses, sleeping or otherwise! The only time we have ever made an exception to this rule...we have friends that host an occasional party. They have an 18 month old baby. The party starts well after the baby has gone to sleep, and they get a friend to stay in the room with the sleeping baby. All baby supplies, bottles, diapers etc are in that room so that should the child wake up all is handled. During the course of the evening no one ever sees the baby or the person there to care for the baby. I would imagine that this plan will not continue to work for them once the child gets older and they will start making alternative plans for child care at that time. Laura
  12. I think you are making this too hard. If your own personal rules and comfort level dictates that you talk to both online and on the phone to a certain extent before meeting then you should stick to your rules. Suggest to him that you put this all on hold until the end of august when MIL leaves and then try again. If this couple is telling the truth about the situation then they will understand and wait, if theres a bit of stretching the story there then they will go away and no one will be wasting each others time. Laura
  13. So far I'm the only one that voted for "either way", but I have to add... One way or the other guys please! The hair is fine, shaved smooth is fine, a trimmed combination of both and that's fine...but the razor stubble from a shave that isn't kept up can be little rough and irritating in delicate areas!!!! Laura
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