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aahours1

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About aahours1

  • Rank
    100 Posts Club
  • Birthday 07/11/1970

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    Couple M-F
  • Location
    Michigan
  • Interests
    Bowling and watching our children in various sports.
  • Occupation
    M-Retired; F-Property Manager
  • Swinging Experience
    10 years

Swinger Info

  • SLS Name
    aahours1
  • SDC Username
    After Hours
  • Favorite Club(s)
    After Hours
  1. You will never know, unless you ask. Your husband had already set the meeting up and you had a great time. Now you want to explore further. He already knows your husband is alright with it. So go ahead and let it fall as it may. You may be surprised.
  2. As a personal trainer, there is NO way to get rid of STRETCH MARKS, The fading creams are all the same, they contain the same med's as PREPORATION H. Honestly they do. All it does is tighten up the skin (TEMPORARILY). Not a long term effect. But on the other end of the spectrum. stop knocking yourself out over something as menial as the stretch marks. Continue to excersise, it does work wonderful on the rest of the body and around the marks, excersise will tighten the skin up (SOMEWHAT). It does wonders for self confidence. Send the LADY a full pic of yourself and explain to her that after having babies and genetically inherited this is YOU. Tell her you are working out and have been for awhile. Then let it go from there. As long as you are confident about yourself and show that, everyone will feel the same as you do. KEEP it positive and look great in whatever you do.
  3. To much is put on about being "Politically Correct" Heck with that. We all have our preferences. Just be honest with yourself andleave it at that. Next times you encounter FLACK. Come up with something like " You would not go to bed with .............. " and leave it at that. Just because other ladies want blks is NO reason you have to..
  4. That is one reason why we DO NOT allow or let single males into our social. They can get to demanding and to disrepsectful of OUR ladies. Lack of respect and lack of control. We ask a donation from all of our cpl/ppl the same amount. If you are a single male you MUST come with a cpl (male-female) to attend and they are responsible for that single male. If you get out of hand WE WILL walk you out and, respectfully, tell you NEVER to come back, without a refund of you donation. "NO MEANS NO" along with being respectfull and if you are not abiding by that rule, you are GONE.
  5. I agree with this. If you are cheating : what is the difference between the two. Other than confessing up to your SO. Or is it that he does not want to have his GF do what he does. Double standards in my belief.
  6. This guy has no class. Even though you are friends with them, You need to tell him enough is enough. Stop the crude jokes and or suggestions. That it is NOT FUNNY. Tell him in no uncertain terms that he needs to stop with the crude remarks or that you and the misses will have to stop seeing them. POINT BLANK AND BLUNT. Some people do not understand till you are.
  7. NO question is stupid. But DO NOT do it cause your husband wants to do it , do it for yourself. That is the best I can tell you. Once you find it you do it for yourself then all the pieces will fall into place. But not till you WANT to do it.
  8. The subject was brought up by YOU and I would presume a number of time. If you push to hard and NAG her about it, you might as well forget it. Take your time, bring her around by showing her what goes on at the socials. Then you do not have to go back to a room with someone. Get horney and take her back to the room by yourselves. Take it slow to her and let her make the decision to swing with another couple. When we 1st started my fiance' told me that if anyone else would touch her, especially a gal, she would put tjem in their place and hit them. Now we own a swingers club and have alot of fun doing the soaicls and going back to the room with others.
  9. Did you profile state, that you wanted to meet couples "WITH NO STRINGS ATTACHED" If so reinnerate, that thought to them. Be nice and tactful, but there may be a time to be forward and blunt. E-mail them back and tell them that as great as it was, that you are not looking for a committed relationship, that you want to play with other females or couples. along with still being able to play with them. Be honnest and upfront with them...They should get the message, if not and you do not feel comfortable with them anymore, tell them so.
  10. "SWINGERSET" is correct. Talk and more talk. Get the rules out in the open, question the rules and explan all the rules and what they detail. Talk some more. Best thing is OPEN COMMUNICATION and keep it open. Then when you have it all set talk to the other couple. You say they are swingers anyways, they will be open about it. Set rules with them, if need be. Just ask and talk about it. Very good advice from "SWINGERSET"
  11. This all just sounds like a big misunderstanding between the two of you. Very easily corrected. If you are going to make rules, make them specific. We (I and my fiance) do not think anything is wrong with topless dancing with another guy. She was not going behind your backseeing that you were still there and coming back from the restroom. No harm done. Relax and let it flow. AND please stay away from the jealousy issue, will hurt you and yours in the long run. If you are that jealous, get out while the getting is good. But I would think it is just a big misunderstanding on YOUR part.....
  12. I AGREE with "THE SWINGERSET". You need to talk it out fully with the wife. Then take a break from swinging. I, as a club owner, know what goes on with having to much to drink ans swinging. It does cause trouble and problems later. You make poor judgements and someone eventually gets hurt. Do as "THE SWINGERSET" said, talk it out and take a break for awhile.
  13. We have and strill do have a set of a couple of rules.... One kissing is allowed but NO tongue(frenching), concoms a MUST. No seperate rooms and by all means no going it alone, by yourself and go out and find someone to bring home.....That is totally out. But we do allow oral, NO swallowing though. Anything else that cums up during the evening we discuss if possible but if we feel uncomfortable with it or a question will arise from it we decide not to do it on our own accord.
  14. I think that you are to imature to realize what you have in your wife. SOMEONE who DOES NOT want to screw anyone else or just play the game of casual sex. You have a champion there and DO NOT realize it. Now YOU being the MAN of the house, live up to your responsiblity, casual sex with other women with her there or not, or KEEPING your wife in tact and the marrage the same way. FORGET the swinging and forget about WHAT "YOU" want. Go to her and say "YES" WE will do it your way. Get out of your MOMMIES house. Then go get counseling and help from a PROFESSIONAL THERIPIST and stop whinning about it. DO WHAT THE HELL IS RIGHT in this situation.
  15. I have not found anyone in the same or longer span of age than myself and my fiancee. I am 56 y/o and she is 36 y/o. Not a problem here, at all. Her ex husband could NEVER bring her to a big "O" he just thought of himself. I get her going, squirting and screaming ALL the time along with her lady friend, with her permission. But 20 years different here and we own a swingers club also in Michigan
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