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marvelousmarv

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About marvelousmarv

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  • Birthday 12/12/1943

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    single male
  • Location
    portland,oregon
  • Interests
    aviation-shotgun sports- hunting and fishing
  • Occupation
    realestate=retired-md

Swinger Info

  • Favorite Club(s)
    none
  1. I am laughing about what is well hung. Of course, some ego's are battered by this conversation. There are not many that would consider any male penis to small if used correctly. Just think: If all of us were "Hung like greek gods" how boring! The spice of life. Size doesn't matter-your attitude with your partner does. A good looking partner can become a real ugly person without proper decorum or attitude and respect for the other.
  2. About Time!! How come we get this crap every time a single tries to get involved? As a single male that lost the only woman that I ever wanted to be married to because of her untimely death, I can only agree. The other comments that I have been reading sure do try to explain the vast majority of opinions about us guys that are not married. To be honest, at my age I don't want to be restricted or sadled with a woman that has screwball priorities other then Mine! At my income level and age, it no longer matters what others think. It sometimes makes me wonder how any of you ever held a meaningful relationship period.
  3. Not a problem. The details of what happened are as I have stated. Others have said go to another club. In this town there are not many other clubs. Others laugh all they like, I said what I was told by the club owners about the single male problem from them-not by my own observation. I have been talking with other single males in the lifestyle and they have the same conclusions that I have. WHY BOTHER? It is easier to get a lady in a bar or cafe in this town then to go to a swinger club and play all you want to get laid. Have I ever scored off the web or at the club? No!! I have had better luck by using the local swinger paper. As far as I can see, the club owners have to let people know what is being planned. I was not informed before hand of what was expected for the evening. I know, this is just one gripe. It may be that it's me. I have to go internal with this and make my own mind up. So far, this is not what I expected or was told by the clubs owner in his indoctrination of what to expect. Surprise is not a spice in my life. I respect your comments as well as Spoomonkey's. Who knows, it may all be just a single males gripe. Have a good laugh at my rant.
  4. As a single male, last night I had my first swing clup experience. It was a GANGBANGER SPECIAL. If I had known that this was the norm for male singles, I personaly would not have attended. I was there for a couple of hours and walked out. The club owner was upset as he said he needed every single male there. I told him to keep the 50.00 I gave him to attend as this was not or ever will be MY Thing. After spending three hours at the club before it opened for orientation on the does and don'ts, I was not prepared for the behaviour or the way these women were treated. In fact, every don't was practised! The way the couples treated the single males told me that a single male is only there for them to be a cuckoled idiot. Again, not me. There was absolutely no respect shown to anyone except the club owner and his wife. I hope the rest of you have had a better experience then I have in this. No wonder the single males are becoming an endangered species in the lifestyle. WE are not wanted. Marv
  5. I can't call swinging a hobby. Hell No! I, like everyone else likes to brag to the world what we do as a hobby. I don't tell my business associates that I swing. I don't tell my family members either. Even though I suspect that there in here somewhere. Probably all of the above. The truth be known, who do you tell except those in this lifestyle? No one. None. So it has to be our secret lifestyle. Marv
  6. My kind of lady!!! As a single I have found that this is the technique that has always worked for me. Funny though, I never in my wildest dreams thought that I would be in a dating situation at my age again. Shit happens! I was married for forty years and was wondering if things had changed in dating styles. Looks as if it still is the same. After all, swinging is just dating with getting down and dirty on the first date. This should be mandatory for all under the age of thirty. Less chance of divorce. LOL Like trying on the good shoes.
  7. I can only agree with you. I find that in everyday life as a single male that's widowed, being a former spouse has made it easier to talk with the ladies and be comfortable with my flirting. Another thing: I talked with a club owner in this town and was informed that the single males that participate at his club have fallen off in the last year dramatically. Why? Perhaps the treatment they have been getting at the clubs. I was told that he has done a survey and that 97% don't come back. Again WHY? Something wrong? I have read that the single male should possibly not even consider being in the lifestyle as it is much easier to get laid by going to the local singles bars. Tonight I am making my first trip to a swing club. As this is my first time, I don't expect to get laid. From what I have seen by taking the clubs orientation yesterday, most of these guys couldn't get laid in a singles bar if they had to. I think, to be honest that you get what you pay for.
  8. Like I said in a previous post, most of the ladies are really trying to confuse us poor single guys with what they like. I think Prince has stated it correctly, it's a play it by ear thing. Go with the flow is the thing. Seems the tough way to find this out. At least, a fellow finds out to be a real politician in the clubs. I prefer to be a lot more laid back. Type of person you are seems to me to get the most out of any situation. I think I will stay honest with myself and not try to be something I am not. Marv
  9. I have read with great interest that maybe I should become the aggressive type. The ladies seem to prefer this, if this shoestring pol is any indication. I do have to have a laugh though as some say one thing and in another thread say something else. I love it. Keeps us single guys really confused. Is this part of the plan ladies? Thanks-Marv
  10. I was wondering if there were any older couples and singles that were in the lifestyle. It looks as if I found the information I was looking for. This would to me at least be a great idea to start an off-shoot for us that are older and mature in the lifestyle.
  11. I think that you and your wife's attitude shows to the men that you try to be with. From what I have read that you both have said, I can only assume that this is just a quicky. As a single male, not speaking for anyone else, I think that if this was conveyed to me I would not have responded either. I look for something that I hope is long term as friends also.
  12. If most don't mind, I prefer to be a gentelman with the ladies. Maybe like some others I should be more aggresive at times, but I would still more likely be reserved in my approach. One thing I would like is to be welcomed back after the initial evening. Marv
  13. I read with great interest about being circumcised. As a doctor that specializes in male health issues, I find the practice totally useless. Teach your sons to clean themselves and never have a problem. I am not circumcised and at one time considered having it done. I found that the practice has fallen out of favour with the medical community because of sensitivity problems etc. I found for a male my size to use a condom and lubricant is best with sexual problems.
  14. I was reading comments about being cut. I have a doctor that refuses unless medically needed to do the procedure. He says that you lose sensitivity when this procedure is done and that if you are experiencing problems in the sex act to use both a condom and lube. I understand your concerns about it, I myself am large and uncut. I have a lot of pain without both being used. Talk to your doctor, his advice is a valid point. I have a friend that had the procedure done a couple of years ago and he claims he has a problem being too sensitive. I really don't know more than that.
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