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  1. We stay trimmed...sometimes we shave... I love hairy chest men....and it's normally a requirement!
  2. Hi - I'm trying to understand this whole Cuckold thing too....my husband enjoys watching me with another man, which is why we typically have threesomes....although he likes hearing about me meeting someone during the day without him there...or watching it on video tape. I checked on the internet and I'm not sure if I like the definition of what they say a cuckold is .... some websites define it as a man who likes to be dominated and enjoys the thought of his wife with another man, but somehow the wife degrades him for one reason or another - and another thing I've noticed is a lot of interrational cuckold's.....now neither one of these fall in the category of what we like to do ...so I call it swinging....because it's what we are both enjoying it sexually...
  3. Education Intimidation .... never gave that a lot of thought before, but i can clearly see that this could be an issue for some. I think its important to remember that education comes in all forms. For example, I have a rather high IQ and advanced degree and my best friend in the world didn't even finish grammar school! We both think it is interesting ... How do we make it work? While he's not school educated, he has the most common sense of any person i know. Plus he's a mechanical genius (can fix anything) -- while I have five thumbs. I guess you could say that we each admire the other's strengths and that admiration overshadows any focus on our respective weakness. So next time you start to feel intimidated by someone with higher education, think about the things YOU are best at...and then challenge their competency and knowledge on that!!! Who knows, you might start intimidating them Mr. S.H.
  4. Money is not part of our selection criteria. But we are in the higher income bracket and from time to time we find that some couples of lesser financial means are intimidated. It is not that we talk about our money. But once you develop a relationship with a couple, you let them on the 'inside' of your life. They see the home you live in. They know what you do for a living. All these things establish an income 'expectation' in the minds of the other couple. Some can deal with it -- no problem Others can't deal with it -- bye bye. Mr. S.H.
  5. Hi fellow Minnesotan! My opinion would be not to push whether his husband is attracted to your wife, or his wife is attracted to you -- you've already established that you're friends...that's a great beginning. You don't necessarily want to freak this other couple out by bringing up swapping right away...unless your wife has had a conversation with his wife first, like Julie suggested. My suggestion would be that when you have an occasion to be alone with them (just the 4 of you) you and your wife maybe start kissing and possibly showing some cleavage, go as far as you feel comfortable with at the time... get some sensual atmosphere going. There is nothing wrong with starting out as "soft swinging" - they might also take your lead and start kissing...and just watching each other can be very erotic...and if nothing more than that happens the first night -- then maybe another time something will...but I would move slowly...don't want to loose good friends through all of this!
  6. Lately I've been hearing lots of people talking about female 'squirting'. by squirting I mean significant vaginal flow during intercourse and at orgasm. Some have said it's so significant that they have to use towels or they will soil/spoil the bed linens! I'm no Don Juan, but I have fortunately had my fair share of sex. My experience with female partners? Cum, YES! Squirt, NO! Ladies??? Whats the scoop? Please enlighten me!
  7. Honey, your problem is VERY SIMPLE. THIS MAN IS SPOILED!!!! You have given him everything he wants, and he wants MORE. And the more you give, the more he will want. Pretend this is one of your children that you've spoiled and now you want to fix it. What would you do? TAKE CONTROL! Try the REWARD and PUNISHMENT system. You need to set the ground rules. And then tell him that he has to "earn" an evening out swinging. That when he's a good boy, he will be rewarded. When he's a shitass, he gets PUNISHED [no sex from you or anyone else] I promise that if you stick to it, this system will work for you. He MUST KNOW YOU ARE SERIOUS or it won't work. If he realizes that you are serious, my bet is that he comes around and you can get control over your marriage and 'sextraciricular' activities as well Good Luck.
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