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  1. Does this fit? Cuckolding as a Dominant Voyeuristic Act While word origin and most historic accounts define the "cuckold husband" or party as being submissive, powerless and/or in need of humiliation to receive stimulation, contemporary practice suggests the possibility of something altogether different. Rather than passively acceeding to the infidelity and desires of an errant wife, this "cuckold" is more in keeping with the male partners defined in polyamorous, open, or swinging relationships. In this manifestation, the cuckold is a consummate voyeur... who derives great pleasure from seeing his "hot wife" or partner being pleasured and serviced by another male (or males...or a female). Although he assumes a submissive role and will often assist during the course of the sex act, the "cuckhold husband" may actually be the controlling, dominant party in the relationship. He may invite, encourage, and initiate consideration of the practice with his partner, and may be the one to make arrangements and approve how, when and with whom his wife may have the intended encounter. In street parlance, he may "pimp" his wife for the encounters he wishes.
  2. Pardon my ignorance but me being a mechanical engineer and applying engineering principles while observing the act they look the same to me. Be it man on man or woman with strap-on on woman. Guess I wasted a lot of money on that M.E. degree?
  3. Spoon, I never implied you were a villain so I'm not sure where that came from. I've seen this as constructive debate nothing more. We all bring our take on life to the table and each view is valid.
  4. How is the act different? Mechanically it is the same. Someone is being penetrated in both cases. Be it vaginal or anal. Are you implying that women look better having sex with each other because they're feminine looking? What of the women who are more masculine in build? From your posts you've mentioned you have gay friends are all of them burly type men? Aren't some of them feminine in build? There are many men in the lifestyle who shave everything off like women and some of them are of slight build and look more androgynous than masculine. I think Chicup hit it on the nail with his "icky factor" and it's true for many two men making out is not sexually appealing. I personally don't find it appealing however I don't find two women making out appealing either. But I'm honest enough with myself to concede the act is the same...same sex is same sex no matter how you slice it. I will also concede there’s a double standard when it comes to bisexuality be it right or wrong. IMHO
  5. Guess you've never witness strap-on action then? Touching, kissing, licking, eating, inserting are actions I've seen both sexes do. They look the same to me.
  6. I would agree with Tribble's view the act of bisexuality is the same act for both sexes. The general definition is defined as individuals having sex with the same sex as well as sex with the opposite sex. How this is different between the sexes eludes me. I would also agree there is a double standard in the Lifestyle concerning bisexuality.
  7. Not sure how it is where y'all are but GOG play is the prevalent form of play in the Houston area. We've added this line to our profile to ward off these types. "If you are looking to kiss, lick or taste Candy and you're female pass us by." We're a straight couple and have been disappointed with how few men actually play. The irony is it doesn’t matter if it’s a vanilla club or LS club . . . GOG play is going on at both venues. But heaven forbid two men get up and play with each other. The double standard leaves us wondering what happen to fair play or better yet all play?
  8. We're not in this for the friends, we have enough of those in the vanilla world. We are here for the sex with benefits. Honesty is our approach it helps weed out the drama.
  9. Welcome to our world. Be prepared for more situations like this to arise. More of the story please.
  10. Closely trimmed can still look natural it's the shaved look that looks unnatural for an adult.
  11. Will we have to go with the prefer some hair down there look on men/women too. Not into the pre-teen look. But our preference is no pics of gentalia at all. We love the surprise of not knowing.
  12. This is from our profile on CT "Our thoughts on validations - we don't expect them. If you know us, you know they are not necessary." We've discovered validations to be nothing more than a who knows who contest. Many people who are validated on CT dont play with others but they make all the events and parties. Being a social butterfly doesn't make a couple real. When we first started we received and gave many validations but after being in lifestyle for a while we discovered the sad reality of validations. Also many people come and go in the lifestyle and because of this attrition we went from over 10 validations down to our current 2.
  13. Shelly we need more women with your attitude in the Lifestyle.
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