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M and K

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About M and K

  • Rank
    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 03/08/1969

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Oregon
  • Interests
    Swinging, outdoor rec, collecting
  • Occupation
    Design & Marketing
  1. We pretty much look for couples, although we've swung--once--with a "swingle" male. In the past, when we've opened our ad up to single males, we've been overwhelmed (especially after we added photos to our ad). Then again, there are way too many males who ignore the fact that your ad specifies couples only. They write anyway or represent themselves as couples. In truth, we welcome the idea of a single male, but they always seem to blow it, leaving us with no choice but to say "NO SINGLE MALES." We've even shown up somewhere to meet a couple, and had a cheating husband show up to meet us! Our complaints are nothing new, but there are a lot of cheaters or pushy guys: "I'm in town for one night, so I'll be ready to play." There is often a desperate vanity at work too: "I'm such a stud, I'll fuck you like you've never had, baby." Another complaint is that single males totally ignore our male half--it's kind of like they expect to ditch the husband or have Kristen meet them in a hotel room. We've also had some "single" males ask to play with us first, to "check out the goods" so to speak. After that, the cheating husband would ask Kristen to talk his wife into the swinging hobby. To compound our aversion to swingles, they often won't take "no" for an eMailed answer. They'll forget they've written and write again in another month; or worse, they'll write back to argue with our "we don't think it would work out" eMail. The one single male we played with couldn't get it up. It was a relaxing evening after dinner, a little wine, some hot tubbing, and lots of conversation and massage. We put on a show for him and the Mrs. tried repeatedly to suck him to hardness. We knew from past 4-ways that the Mrs. loves to be with two guys. We'd also known this 30's swingle for a while (who's in excellent shape). He also thought the Mrs. is totally hot, so I don't think we're picking on someone with a health problem. The problem is that after the frustrating close to his evening, he later blamed it on Kristen. He said he'd had no problems getting it on with another couple, but he thought Kristen wasn't excited so it turned him off. The whole evening was her idea! The Mrs. tried everything to kick-start him (and really loves having a couple cocks to play with), so his blame game really pissed us off. We are sensitive to men's sometimes-shy physiology, so we weren't being pushy or hurried. Oh well. We suppose if a healthy young male comes along, who respects us as a couple and isn't cheating, then we'll open our bedroom to him. Then again (to any single guys who are reading this), don't take this as encouragement to write.
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