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  1. We've been to two here in Ohio. DSSC was our home club for years, but the clientel has really dropped in quality so we tried another. I enjoy the other one's facility, but no one seems to really be hooking up except with who they came with. I'm hoping the place will grow. I feel safe in a club setting where everyone there is a swinger of one type or another.
  2. I want the caveman with the great sense of humor. Make me laugh while doing some heavy flirting to let me know you want me is for me a sure sign. But also give me a gentlemanly way out if I'm not interested.
  3. I agree that this may be a sort of parlor trick. Have we reached such boredom that we must constantly look for the next thrill?
  4. Hubby is interested in this and the most I've ever been able to take is three fingers after much trying and much lube and discomfort. I too am worried that I wouldn't snap back. Hubby is average and I've never had sex with a large man or had children vaginally so I don't want to be stretched too far. But hubby has heard that fisting can be the most intense orgasm and that I may be missing something great.
  5. I wasn't suggesting you were insulting on purpose. I just thought it suggested he had some kind of bowel problems which he didn't state. I apologize if I came off as insulting because I didn't mean to.
  6. We've tried twice and were unsuccessful both times. I've heard you can have awesome orgasms, but it was too painful for me even though he took his time, used plenty of lube and I tried to relax.
  7. I thought Oprah did a very nice job on the swinging lifestyle show. She had attractive people, not just toothless, uneducated people like some shows tend to show. And Oprah seemed to have a very open mind. I loved her comment about there being a new definition of marriage. Also loved the woman swingers comment about men get their women to try the lifestyle and women keep them in. Ever so true!! I would have liked to hear them talk about the difference between soft swinging vs full swing and about on site vs off site.
  8. I thought about this for a day or so, and I think you suggesting he eat more fiber is kind of insulting whether it is meant to be or not. Fiber or not, the anus serves the same purpose and there will be times that your bowels will not be emptied. This can create a mess unless you take the steps to perform an enema or two. They had an interview with a porn star on a news show a year or so ago and she explained that before she performed anal sex, she would not eat past noon the day before, give herself an enema that night and again the next day before the shoot. All in order to not be messy.
  9. We have met for dinner, couples that we have really hit it off with in clubs and where there was plenty of chemistry. But the restaurant, fully clothed situation makes for uncomfortable flirting. You may want to try meeting a couple for dinner and then moving to a swingers club situation where the sparks might just fly.
  10. Saw a man once at a swingers club that had a sharp left turn to it. Funny the man was bragging about having taken a viagra and it was rock hard. He was so obnoxious anyway, that I asked if he turned his left turn signal on before hard ons.
  11. Plenty of times and always love it. The thrill of danger and the wind on your privates....
  12. After spending a wonderful week with swinging friends, and dabbling in BDSM during that week, we headed home to a traveling day full of sex in the car. Hubby knows I have this fantasy about being pimped out and during play, said he was going to stop at a truck stop and pimp me out. While this was a total turn on, when we actually stopped in a rest stop and he acted like he might actually do it, I freaked out! This might work if you were at a club where you knew everyone would be into it. But in real life, NO WAY!
  13. This is a fantasy I too have had. But I think it will remain just a fantasy. We did go to a swingers club and leave the door open to whoever. I was blowing my husband and waiting to see what happened (with hubby guard as condom enforcer). Having all those hands on me was very erotic, but then I opened my eyes and freaked because the room was full of men and most would NOT have been my pick. I got out of there in a hurry. I haven't had the nerve to try it again.
  14. I really think for many people, this is a fantasy that is better in your mind then in reality.
  15. The local clubs we attend say that male on male sex is not allowed for several reasons. One is they think while watching two women is a turn on, many would find watching two men a turn off and they wouldn't want to attend a club that allows it. Then they state that they would be afraid the club would become a gay hangout and they would take over the club. This is just what I've heard when the question is asked. I personally think it's because of homophobia. Two women aren't thought to be homophobic.
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