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Xx2

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    Married Couple
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    Kentucky
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    awhile

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    Xx2

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  1. Okay, I am going against the grain, here, but I think size does matter. I never realized this until we started swinging. First, I learned that I had been taking my husband for granted. Through swinging, I realized that I had forgotten how big Mr. Xx2 is-how I forgot, who knows, but when the other guys were easier to give blowjobs, I remembered. Now, Mr. Xx2 isn't a monster (I've been with THAT GUY, and he hurt! ), but he is definitely larger than most. Mr. Xx2 has taught me that girth, along with a decent length, is fabulous. The other guys I have met through swinging have not given me the sexual gratification through penetration that Mr. Xx2 always achieves. Therefore, to say that size doesn't matter is a fallacy for me. Maybe I am spoiled, but, for sex, I prefer a larger-than-average cock-not more than 7-8 inches, but heavy on the girth. Now, on the B-side, I have also learned that many smaller gentlemen have perfected the art of cunnilingus. Not all guys have this talent-you can't just keep licking up and down to get me off. (Of course, Mr. Xx2 is aware of this, too, and has no problems there, either. I know, folks, how did I ever get so lucky to have a man like the Mr? I'll never figure it out.) In my experience, most smaller guys are poignantly aware of themselves, and make up for it in many other ways. Frankly, I will overlook any small penis if the guy can get me off with his mouth or fingers. I am not trying to be rude, but a small penis has never brought me to orgasm; even before Mr. Xx2. However, there have been smaller guys who have brought me to pinnacles of delight during oral sex and foreplay that Mr. Xx2 actually spoke to them about improving his own abilities. (That's one thing I adore about that man-he believes everyone can improve, especially himself! !) I hope that y'all don't put me up on the firing block for this! I am not trying to dog smaller guys. Do I play with small guys? Definitely YES! They have many things to offer, and I always want to make any male (or female) that I play with feel as special as they make me feel. Please don't shoot! I'm just being honest about myself.
  2. If you decide that an open marriage is going to work positively for both of you, then you have every right to do that. However, remember one thing-jealousy is a monster that can pop its head up at any time. Are you prepared for dealing with jealousy on either side of your marriage? You may have no jealousy over her having sex with other men while you are away. But, will there be jealousy when you have sex with someone else when she is not there? Even with open communication, jealousies can still occur. Case in point-our first couple of swinging experiences were separate rooms. We were both too interested in what the other was doing to fully enjoy ourselves. It wasn't until we were home, afterwards, and discussing the experiences that we realized we were both jealous of the other. This is when we determined that we should play together to see if it was better. It infinitely was! Not only do we both feel safer, we are more comfortable with the things we want to happen. The key here is not whether you can handle the jealousy, but if y'all can openly deal with the honest communication that will follow. Jealousy is a natural human emotion that is bound to happen eventually. If you can accept it, then deal with it, you will be successful in whatever you and your wife decide. Not trying to preach, just help. Its always good to try to be prepared for anything that could possibly happen. This way you can plan for your solution. Mrs. Xx2
  3. I don't know about y'all, but if threesomes count as swinging, then wouldn't many people first experience this in college? I know that is when I did! Once I was away from my parents, and far away, of course I went a bit wild. For me, college was a chance to experience all those things I could never have done back home. (Yeah, it was also time to get edju-mah-cated, but who really paid attention to that?) Anyhow, this is where I began to discover not only my desire for other women, but also my penchant for threesomes. Although my fmf experience during this time was limited to only a few times, I learned a lot about my own budding bi-sexuality. Now, many years later, after finding my wonderful husband, and discovering our mutual desire to investigate the swinging lifestyle, I have again had the opportunity to explore my and our sexuality together. It has only been through this journey with Mr. Xx2 that I have learned that my previous experiences were just a precursor to who I am. If it is a swinger, so be it. It may not be a term everyone in the lifestyle prefers, but it is what it is, as am I.
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