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J & K

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About J & K

  • Rank
    100 Posts Club
  • Birthday 10/16/1963

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Middle GA
  • Interests
    outdoor activities/dancing/flirting
  • Occupation
    Self-music composer
  • Swinging Experience
    7 yrs

Swinger Info

  • SLS Name
    OKC_CPL
  • Favorite Club(s)
    THE CLUB in OKCity
  1. Well, come to find out that 13 yrs ago the wife wanted to "swing", but the hubby wasn't up for it. He pinged it as a trust issue after that and she approach him 2 weeks after they got married. Come to find out she has had many affairs and he puts up with it and still does knowing she has cheated. A few weeks ago the husband told us they are getting a divorce. She was having sex with the next door neighbor. He didn't like that, but does not want a divorce. She pushed the issue with the Big "D" word. So...I guess this topic is closed. LOL J and K
  2. We have made friends with some neighbors down the street. We have played a few drinking TRUTH or DARE games with them and they make it all sexual. His wife loves to show her boobs and make sexual comments to us. Some of her dares have been flashing boobs, getting naked, kissing, etc. So my wife confronts the MR asking if they are swingers. OMG, he freaked out and said they would never do that, but he loves to see my wife's tits, ass, and playing with her body parts with his wife there and she encourages it. Last night we played again (truth or dare) and she wanted me to kiss her sexually and her husband was all for it. Now I am really thinking they show all the signs, but may be just closet swingers even though they know we swing. They are cool with it, but I just feel they are swingers, but don't trust us enough to tell us. We are not sexually attracted to them, but they are fun to hang with. So what do you all think?
  3. We didn't say we stopped, but more of a delay due to moving to a new area and a teenager who has kept us more home bound. It has been 2 yrs since we last got into the LS, but it is always there for us if we want to go back. So...in a nutshell it has to be: Family time.
  4. My wife also don't get turned on by me having fun, but if she is par-taking in that fun with another lady she is turned on because she is part of my fun. We still haven't had our first threesum, but she enjoys turning me on by telling me that another lady is pleasing me when we do it alone by ourselves in bed or she is giving me a handjob. Some ladies enjoy seeing their partner while others don't and want seperate rooms to play. We all have our likes/dislikes indeed.
  5. First it is not the club owners to screen who puts condoms on. We are all adults in this lifestyle and it is everybody's responsibility to make sure safe sex happens. It all falls down to you and your wife to make sure all the right steps are taken. When I saw you didn't stop the event I asked "why"? If I saw some dude doing that with my wife and sneaked off the protection I would of stopped it right there...temper or not. You still let it happen when it all comes down to it. So that guy and you were at fault in a nutshell. Others around you would of understood if you wanted to raise hell about it. At least that would of been a great warning signal for others on that night to beware of this guys behavior. On the other hand he is just stupid himself by not protecting himself. That tells you something about the guy and his lady. WOW!!! We would be scared as hell for a while if this happened to us, but I sure would of decked the guy anyways even if it meant us being thrown out of the club.
  6. Oh...we have been there with this one. Our good friends always invite us over to eat, drink and swim in their pool. They have 3 boys at home around 19 yrs, 17 yrs, and 12 yrs old that are always there. We hang outside and the kids stay inside. When it gets dark they start to flirt and like to get naked----with their kids around. My wife and I don't care to play with kids around, but they have no problem with it. No wonder my dick has a hard time getting hard knowing older boys could walk in and see their mom giving another man a blow job in front of their father. So the wife and I try to prolong excuses to go home. Kids in the same house and swinging don't mix!!!!!!!!!!
  7. This is normal for men to have this dreadfull event happen at the worst times. I too have had it happen. Been at the swing club and the ladies make me hard on the dance floor or a great lap dance and then my dick don't work, but still feel excited. Just the other night, the wife and I went to visit old friends when we came into town and hadn't seen them in a yr. Our female friend sat on my lap and got me hard and turned around to suck me off. It felt good. but the hardness was slowly going away because she said her son would be home in 3 mins. That took the mood away somewhat, but her husband had no problem when my wife was sucking away on him. So, overall the enviroment can do things to a man's body.......what pressures we have on us...lol.
  8. We have come to find out why men don't post their pics.....80% are not worth looking at. Hot looking ladies with unattractive men seems to be the norm. That being said gives most all of us men a chance to play with hot looking ladies!!!! So come on guys....let us post our pics for the ladies because we can't be no worse than what is really out there so we must let the ladies decide if we are worth looking at. Don't be shy now. I have my pic up and don't consider myself a "hunk", so I let the women decide that.....not me or my wife.
  9. My wife had a full tummy tuck and the line goes hip to hip corners and damn....it is so sexy. We all have a cut in our lifetime and some are bigger than others. It is only skin and scars can be sexy. If somebody is turned off by a scar then more than likely they have personal issues they can't cope with.
  10. The person who started this thread contacted us by Yahoo IM and the chat was very interesting. The majority of the chat from this person was about kids and having sex in front of children. This person claimed how much of a turn on it was to get caught by kids when swinging. This person wanted to trade pics. When I sent pics of me and the mrs all this person wanted was family pics with our kids. The person keep insisting on pics of our kids more than me and the mrs. I wasn't going to send any. In the back of my mind I felt I was chatting with a pediphile or child molester. After telling this person I wasn't going to send more pics with kids she/he got bored chatting. I asked for pics and got 2 pics of a girl, but they claimed they had tame pics. I said send anyways...she/he cut the chat off fast. So this person could be a pediphile, molester, or cop. BEWARE if contacted!!!
  11. Being a male things don't always work when you want them to. Also, there are times when you don't want to get a hard on and it happens. When reading about this the thought of your husband having to stop was interesting. You have your rules and it is ok to follow them. I kept thinking there is going to be a time that you are hot into the sex with another man/woman and your husband has had too much to drink or a bit nervous with a hot chic and comes up to you and says, "Stop honey...I am having erection problems". LOL Those men who say they never have problems getting an erection....well....there will be a time it will happen. First time meetings naked and with booze in the system try soft swap all together and once it heats up more MAYBE a full swap. Being with your own S/O first to warm up with make it easier to move onto another person. In my book if erection problem happens all night I might as well use my other functions to please a lady. You say you aren't oral? Well then have him masterbate you and use toys if you have them. A limp dick don't mean the whole night is over. It is only over if you make it and if you make the other men feel bad for being limp with you it will happen again because you concentrated that flaw into the open for them. I remember a few times a certain lady expected me hard once my clothes came off and she mentioned it very boldly. The pressure to be hard was on now and it didn't want to go up at all no matter how much she touched it. After that everytime I see her that night plays out in my mind and when we all get naked I don't care to get hard sub-mentally because she down graded the event that ALL MEN SHOULD BE HARD seeing her naked. So if you meet these guys again and they fail to perform it might be what you said to them to prevent it from happening....hopefully it don't happen at all. BTW--start early in the night to play and keep the drinking to a min. That might help...who knows if the booze and late hours were dragging the men's bodies into the "ZZZZZZ's" mode.
  12. We have and I "J" didn't like it. Matter of fact I even hate to party or drink with kids around. Seems like a lot of folks we know it is ok when their kids are around and the adults drink and flirt. One cpl we know is so lame with sending their teenagers off their excuse is nobody can watch them. Duh...what about the 5 straight cpls you know that have kids to babysit? We send ours off for overnight stays with grandma, but we know Grandma isn't in every city. If you have swinging friends with kids take turns asking to watch eachother's kids, but set aside for a private meeting to make up for it. Now-a-days babysitters are hard to find and trust. Make the best of it folks!!!
  13. Hot tubs are great for ice-breakers to take the clothes off, but I (male) get to relaxed in them. After sitting in a hot tub for more than ten min I just want to chill out and relax. When that happens my unit wants to be relaxed also. So I rather get some sex first then do the hot tub to relax. Women...I think can go either way, but "K" feels a pain in her crotch the next day after sitting in a hot tub for a while. Wouldn't hot showers be as fun?
  14. LMAO...we put up a thread like this a long time ago with pics, but more toward pics men take of themselves. If you were to look at our pics on sls one would see that we want to present ourself in good taste. Folks ought to post pics wearing nice clothes, sexy outfits, comb hair, trimmed facial hair for men, etc. My goodness....pics are a form of advertisment. Want to make the sale then one has to make a good presentation. First impressions count for all of us we think. K and I look at profiles every day and we know some of these folks look better in person so why do they look like crap on the profile. Women and men who looked like they just got out of bed with a bad hair day and no make-up. Pics of just their legs....come on, where is the rest of the body? We have to remember that most of the pics that go on the sites are posted by the men. Men want to see X-rated stuff so they feel they have to also post them kind too. What is more sexy? A man in nice clothes/suit or a pic of his hairy dong? A woman in a nice sexy outfit or a pic of her boobs or her pussy? Are we swingers attracted to sex appeal? We wish to think so. Classy, not trashy is our motto. We think about 80% of all swingers need to get on that . Just our opinion folks.
  15. A vas? Well tell him and then have him go to the doc for a sperm count test.
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