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  • Birthday 11/20/1946

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  1. Right, couples carry around their own reenforcements and defenses by being together, so they can give each other little nudges and permissions, each knowing that the other is nearby and involved, making the circumstances both safe and exciting. Of course, this also posits the opposite - a couple not mutually supportive, entering simultaneously into new sexual opportunities that ease further estrangement. 'Been there, a long time ago. Ouch. LFM2 had it right: "...the other two were just looking for trouble." Swinging won't stop a shipwreck. (But, to extend the metaphor a bit), it can sure make for some nice open water sailing.
  2. (Chicup) "My feeling is the more people talk about swingers the more they wish they were." You figure that's why the subject can be difficult to begin in a non-swinger social situation, but, once started, just keeps going freely on its own? (Chicup again) "Indignation is jealousy with a halo." How is it I missed that one up til now! OK, socolais, fess up. Where'd you come up with the perverts?
  3. We've found a couple about 3 hrs away, with compatability all around. We 4 would love to find others within weekend driving distance, but, even with both couples working at it, potential further matches are relatively few. We're in the upper tier of swinger ages, but still, you'd think, with peoples' kids launched on their own, they'd be thinking about new friends? But so many contacts just don't work out. Thanks, Fuse, for the account of seeking. 'Makes us realize that we have to soldier on.
  4. "congratulations on the anniversary of your successful and apparently rewarding sexual promiscuity". As all here know, this is (pardon) "no easy trick." There might be a market for the cards though, at least with a little paraphrasing and some art (: It's not the kind of greeting card to place on the front of the fridge, at least if you have kids, community functions, "vanilla" dinner parties, etc. Maybe on the bureau in the bedroom? Especially the guest bedroom!
  5. In a single, valiant, bloggish stroke you've unwrapped the core of the thing for us also. Kudos, and hats (etc.) off to you!
  6. XXXBoxy, I'm with The Fuse throughout, esp. the last line. One couple who contacted us, and whose profile and initial correspondence didn't seem to fit, turned out to be terrific after we wrote a little more, talked on the phone, and met. We've gotten together several times, and call one another in between. Their profile, in our view, hardly does them justice.
  7. Red96, Beautiful, first time! Your communication as a couple reflects years together - time well spent. Kudos indeed...
  8. Alexander Institute offers a couple of DVDs promoting massage for relaxation, focus, and, above all, sharing. Titles are Lover's Massage and Ultimate Sexual Massage. (BTW, there's Swinging also.) What better company for intimate play! We should all have learned this when we were teenagers. (Well, maybe... )
  9. Rackir, MUCH appreciated. Back to this thread presently. Things around here are a bit tied up here this morning. Others have caught kindly the ambiguity involving friendship and play (see earlier) and it does warrant further work. We're all "works in progress" , I guess. A few hours later... OK, back to it. I think that you've made us. We love dalliance where a sexual a encounter can enhance us as a couple. Intertwined with this is fascination with people - their lives and views. As a couple, we're not seeking friendship in the sense of implied obligation or (worse) exclusivity. But we're at a point in life where (a friend puts it thus) "we don't want to fuck anyone we don't know." This is not the same way that either of us felt (and acted ) when we were young. We still just want to have fun. It's just that getting to know others, especially couples, seems like more complete fun.
  10. Chicup, wouldn't it shrink your world, to just close and latch the door? The sweetness can go out of something if the context doesn't change along with other views and preoccupations. It does seem as though you have some of each. Things that we like to do, after circumstances bring an end to them, sooner or later sprout back, looking a little different, but satisfying just the same. Strongest wishes for you two, especially with your kids just hitting their fastest growing time. We're a few years from the other end of that era of life (also, our remaining parents are near their full time on Earth) and we seem to be freshening our thinking about vitality and lusty engagement with life (Mrs.' words.) It's all seasons, those times for every purpose. They go round and round.
  11. I can just imagine her competent instruction in this!
  12. Oh Lordy, dodge the mountains and gain some altitude quick. Then start back at your little piece of heaven, meander off a few degrees to the west, then paddle straight north until your bottom rubs Plan on allotta strokes , and take some sun screen. (It might have been the notation that I used - degrees minutes seconds N-S and E-W. It's old fashioned. Try +30° 18' 15.00", -89° 19' 58.00", which uses the same notation yours?)
  13. Again, thanks. We haven't thought about making flattering pictures since our wedding (when someone else was doing it, of course), and are looking forward to trying out our hand. The anonymous ones will be fun . We have travel coming up pronto and will get on it right after. Meanwhile on to some edits in the verbage... Later... 'Just had another go at the write up - mostly to shorten and clarify, esp. that last section. 'Appreciate the time. Always interested in thoughts from SB folk.
  14. Y'all just make my day, and our evening here at the homestead. PS - a little more of heaven: 30° 18' 15'' N 89° 19' 58'' W (right across the lake)
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