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bda

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  1. We took dancing lessons. ALL of our friends, family and co-workers know. Now when we're asked by vertical friends, parents, kids, who ever, we can tell them, "We're going dancing" or "We met them dancing" When the two worlds happen to run into each other, we tell our swinging friends to just say we met dancing at some club several months ago and just clicked. The bonus is that everyone thinks I am sooo special to have taken lessons and she is soooo lucky to have found someone that will actually follow through and take her out dancing now and then! Worked for us javascript:smilie('') javascript:smilie('')
  2. Why not "out" yourselves? Let the guy take it at his own pace. If he's interested enough, he'll eventually get around to asking if he can be part of your play. If he's not, he'll ask enough to satisfy his curiousity and stop. In our world of friends, we know who we can trust with certain information. We've "outed" ourselves to quite a few of our "vertical" friends. Some have been curious and asked enough to get involved, some are on their way and the rest (most) are simply aware. Most of the responses we got were, "That figures, you two seem like the type." Even those that don't want to get involved still make comments now and then. We're headed to Playa Del Carmen this Saturday and two couples have mentioned (at separate times) that we're going to love it there, "especially since you guys are into that". None of it has really changed our friendships. We can't really imagine not being open with our real friends, that's what being friends is all about.
  3. When your guests get to the party tell them to split up, men go in one room and women go in another room. Each person is to have their own swim suit in hand. Instruct them not to speak when they go back in to the main (living)room and they are to try to find their date by feel and touch since there will be no lights and all drapes pulled shut. They are to help their date into their bathing suit, then go to the pool/hot tub. If they can't find their date in 30 minutes, take anyone of the opposite sex. This can be done using pajamas (nighties, silk boxers, night gowns, what ever) and can be done an hour or so after everyone has arrived and has had a chance to get comfortable with the surroundings. Hmmmm dark room, not allowed to talk, lots of people in there... could be interesting!
  4. My wife flashed her pussy to the club owner last Saturday night (pajama party) and he said, "Honey, you could make an old man stutter." Ashley - What if anything did you say or do to indicate that you would "eat it up"? What other things does he say? Do you talk dirty back? Thanks
  5. Sounds like fun and something I'd like to hear. My wife will sometimes sound as if she's crying, but when she starts shouting, "Fuck my pussy", "Fuck me hard" or "Gawd I love being fucked like this" anyone can tell she's having a good time. We have had people tease her about it the next morning though. One such couple teased by calling her James Brown, " Good Gawd Huhhh...."
  6. Nope, not pick-up lines necessarily although those can sometimes be fun too. Those responses are exactly why I feel inhibited and hesitant, but it’s important to hear. Maybe I am off base or among the few with this topic, that’s part of what I’m asking too. My wife will sometimes ask what I love most about her, I’ve always told her it’s her mouth. What she says or how she says it, the way she interacts with me and I know it’s a big turn on to the other guys too. Sex is fun, really fun, but it’s not just the physical act. The times I have the most fun is when I’m mentally stimulated. Sure looks are important and can be a huge factor to initial attraction, but personality, sense of humor and interaction are the real turn on .... the mental stimulation. Quiet grunts and soft moans are a turn on too, but when the rest is silence I feel like something is missing.
  7. What do you like to hear or say that really gets results! My wife is great at talking nasty to me and me to her, but I’m hesitant to talk that way to other women. I don’t want to offend, I get inhibited. I’ve asked her many times what was said to her, but after having a good time with one (or more) of the guys at the club, by the end of the night she doesn’t recall. Women seem to be able to get by with more than us guys. Last Halloween she painted her face like a tiger, had the tiger ears and wore a tiger print dress that had a slit up the front that went all the way up (no panties) and showed a lot of cleavage to boot. She went around the club asking, “Do you want to pet my pussy?” She recently walked up to a guy and said, “How about you give me that just fucked look!” Some of the lines she’s used on me were: "This is how I licked Steve's balls last night..." "Come'on, give it to me rough" and the ever popular "May I suck your cock? Pul-eeaze?" My request is simple....Please post what the top words, phrases, questions, commands or statements that really turn you on, push you over the edge or just really stiffen your woody. As foreplay, or at the moment before you explode--I want to hear it all!
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