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About eyesonus

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  • Birthday 07/19/1957

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    Couple
  • Location
    TN
  • Interests
    A vigorous life, and TV
  • Occupation
    Financial crisis management
  • Swinging Experience
    5 years

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    eyesonus
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  1. Have a Happy Birthday

  2. Oh, I wouldn't tell. There are so many ways your records could be revealed to those who you would not want to see them. Apply for life insurance (and sign waivers so they can get all medical records), sign up to receive payments under Social Security Disability or any private insurance long or short term disability program, (and sign waivers so they can get all medical records), get hurt on the job and make a claim for workers compensation, (and sign waivers so they can get all medical records), be the victim in an auto accident or receive some other personal injury and file a lawsuit to recover damages (and sign waivers so they can get all medical records), file for divorce and wait for your spouses attorney to subpoena medical records to prove unfitness as a parent (Oh boy!), maybe go to a doctor with a less than professional staff (a big juicy Oh boy! b/c some nurses & Docs & staff do gossip), enlist in the armed services (and sign waivers so they can get all medical records), apply for a position in a government department where you would have access to sensitive information (and sign waivers so they can get all medical records), all the other situations listed above in the responses, and more! And this is just authorized releases! (except for gossiping nurses.) What about hacking? How secure are your Doctors' computer systems? There are so many ways your medical records could be obtained it makes one question whether you really have any privacy in this world. Only discretion will protect you.....otherwise, if you leave a paper trail it may get discovered. Of course, this only applies to those of us who desire privacy & discretion, which is probably about, well, maybe, I'm not for sure, but I think it is about ALMOST ALL OF US. I humbly suggest that no mention ever be made to a doctor unless absolutely necessary, and when that would be I can't imagine. There are ways of implying things, or changing the facts a little, that still gives Doc the information he/she needs but without giving them the "Big Picture." We plan to keep our mouths shut about our lifestyle to all but trusted lifestylers. Now, like was said above, if Doc was a lifestyler, well, that's a horse of a different color! How cool would that be? Eyesonus
  3. The following is not my opinion. I am against any restrictions, legal or religious, that shame or punish people for having fun that doesn't harm anyone. But, the Bible is clear on the issue of both adultery and homosexuality, both are condemned and forbidden, no if's and's or but's. I have a friend who is a Methodist Minister who has studied these things. A huge controversy in that denomination recently was whether to allow actively practicing gay clergy to preach. The issue was not about hating gays, the Methodists, like others, adopt a "hate the sin, love the sinner" approach, but having openly practicing gay clergy was too much for the institution. At a big meeting recently the whole denomination voted to keep the prohibition. Why? Only because it is forbidden by the Bible in no uncertain terms. Since the Bible is clear, it is a matter of free will as to whether or not you choose to follow it. Myself? I am a self described "apatheticist," I don't care which religion is right, I think they are all myth, but I don't profess to know the "truth." I'm not an atheist because I do not claim to have special knowledge that allows me to assert that God DOESN'T exist any more than I have special knowledge that he does. I chose not to be bound by any religion, they all proclaim to know the truth by divine revelation but they all conflict in their basic creeds. Some religions have even died out, despite at one time having many adherents; remember, those Egyptians, Greeks, and Romans really believed in all those Gods! But for those who do believe, in the end, you will have to reconcile yourself to it, or change yourself, because a 2000 year old institutionalized organization isn't about to change centuries of teaching in order to accommodate the changing fashions of popular culture. The leaders of every major religion are in a constant battle with modern western popular culture; swinging, divorce, extra marital sex, and what they see as "moral decline." This is what the Pope and Osama have in common, a desire to turn back the clock and reinstate religious dogma over skeptical secularism as the political order. I personally see the western popular culture as freedom oriented, authority bucking, inquisitive, and as a BETTER alternative to dogma! For too many thousands of years religious dogma has been used to shame, shutter, and stamp out human activities that hurt no one but violate the "rules." I wish there was a "Christianity Lite" that would allow people to swing and do other "banned" things, but that is not going to happen. Unfortunately, if you really believe, and if you are honest with yourself, then you must decide whether to practice your religion or go against it, but the authorities won't let you have it both ways.
  4. Mrs. E & me limit ourselves to MFM. This was always my fantasy and she is with me fully. We like "full MFM" i.e., everyone is in contact with her all the time, not taking turns. When he is busy in one place I just head to another. During play the action is constant, she is the meat in our manwich, which she loves. I don't mind the occasional MM contact, it's inevitable in such a close situation. I've not tried anything as intimate as a DP (but we get crazy thinking about it and have done it with toys): we have had both our cocks in her mouth at one time. I guess the head of mine was touching his, but it wasn't a problem for me or him. If the attitude is "if she is happy then this is a success" then the occasional rub or bump should barely be noticable.
  5. Our form of swinging is exclusively MFM. I get jazzed by the whole experience. We don't live close to a good club so we meet people on SLS. We answer mail together, discuss potential playmates, everything. I enjoy the preparation....the bathing and grooming. She selects her clothes, both for the "date" and for later, a negligee. The atmosphere is romantic...soft music, candlelight. We usually begin by ourself with passionate kissing and touching. In a minute or so we are joined by our friend. We will stand up, with Mrs. E between us for over an hour, just kissing, touching, rubbing, fondeling...she will turn around every so often to give us each full attention. Eventually we will make it to the bed where we both kiss, stroke, suck, lick, and rub her everywhere, taking frequent turns about. I get turned on by watching her touch his chest, kiss him, open her legs and receive his touch, when she hold his dick, sucks it, and takes it in. I like feeling her clitoris while he strokes her. It is so sexy when she is paying attention to me to see him pleasing her somewhere else. She makes the most incredibly sexy sounds: sighs, moans, giggles, crys of pleasure... etc. I love to listen to her orgasm, she is very vocal. She is very passionate and enjoys the stroking and touching and we get to hear how much it turns her on. The power of vocalized sexual passion is overwhelming to me. It's a huge turn on to watch her make him come and to see his jizz on her. My wife is very sexy all the time, but when we play she is incredible.
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