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  1. We started swinging when we were 23 and the main reason for it was because my partner was bi and wanted a chance to explore her bi side while still in our committed relationship. The swinging scene was a great place for that... the only problem was that it was hard to find young couples. Way too often we'd go to a club and be the only ones under 40! Thank god for the internet... we started a little group for young swingers in our area and it just kept growing and growing. Now, 4 years later, there is a nice sized community of young swinger we play with of all lifestages (kids/no kids, married/dating, and partiers/homebodies). My advice is to all young swingers is to do the same. It makes a world of difference.
  2. I have to say that I was very impressed with 2 things: 1) The swinging party was an sub sub-plot that did not get over exposed and dominate the show. 2) Swingers were not protrayed as total scum or perverts. In fact, even the guy who wants to get plastic surge surgery so he can be more attractive to other swingers (a character who we are supposed to ndislike) is complex and not a total walking stereotype. Julie, I would say that their portrayal of those "beautiful people" parties in SoBe is pretty dead on. House parties like that are all about sport sex and showing off... and the girlfriend from the show experience is all too common.
  3. Wow... who would have thought this thread had legs? Quin your post resonate with us, particularly since one of us works in the fitness industry. As we have posted before, we understand where the bitterness comes from- society puts such a stigma of being over weight especially when it comes to our conception of beauty. What we don't understand is the double standard being applied. Specifically, why it is wrong to choose partners by physical attributes and then claim that people with certain physical attributes are better lovers? If you are an overweight individual participating in this lifestyle that some people will not want to swing with you because that is their preference- just like they may not want to swing with people who are too tall or too small, big breasted or not, too well endowed or not, are nice or are mean, ect. In the end "personality" is about the most subjective of all measures since one person's idea of loveable is another's idea of annoying. While we generally avoid the need to justify our attraction to fit people, for the purpose of this thread we'll do it. To us fitness implies a common interest in how we look and feel. Furthermore, it demonstrates a common displine and physicall awareness that comes with persuit of a health lifestyle. That being said, we're not perfect by any means and how people "click" with us goes a long way. Ultimately it is attraction that leads us to play or not- something that is as unique to us.
  4. We firmly agree with Quin here. As young swingers we encounter lots of newbies... the couples that are obviously there because one of them wants to swing and the other one wants to please that person tend to annoy most people around them. Those couples not around for very long. If you guys are both equally into swinging check out the internet. There are a lot of younger people out there looking for couples. In most cases, people tend to be aged by the youngest person in the couple.
  5. Exactly. People of large age disparities can mix, but for a large portion of the population there are a bunch of reasons why they don't. There are a lot of young swingers out there looking for playmates. The vast majority use the internet. Put together your own group of young swingers. We highly recommend it!
  6. OhioCouple, we've seen this kinda thing before and as much as it sucks for Gene cutting ties is best. But contrary to the great advise you've received from fine people on this board, we would suggest hearing the lady out. She obviously is looking for a confident, and while you guys may not be the best one, you could be good stepping stones. Her husband is clearly who she should be talking to but she needs to gain some confidence first.
  7. Here one for the "wildest": On the Amazon River under a full moon. Pretty amazing!
  8. Has it occurred to anybody that our beloved TommyBoy is a troll (someone who posts outrageous comments on forums to to work people into a frensy for his own amusement). It certainly has worked! But as insensitive as his comments are, Maggie, please do not give up on trying to lose weight! We love the fact that you love yourself as you are but remember that you have a family that would like to have you around a long time. Medically, staying at your current weight puts you at considerable risk for heart disease, the number one killer of women, not to mention adult onset diabetes. I had a professor once who said "There is a fine line between content with where you are in life and resignation." Of course, this is hardly the place for a lecture in health.
  9. Right Dan, but there are numerous victim's advocacy that have set the tone for what is and is not acceptable. Additionally, celebrities have privacy rights advocates to ensure that the legal climate is in favor of keeping their nude beach pictures out of magazines. The reason why things are not entirely out of hand is because these lobby groups are working behind the scene to pass laws and assert pressure. That is how our system works. I just wanted to know if there was some organization doing that kind of work... at least for swing clubs.
  10. whoa killer... Swinging is very rarely a matter of black and white. There is always gray areas when you are dealing with the most subjective decision there is: Who you choose to have sex with. Now, we are HWP swingers because, by and large, we are attracted to people who value fitness like we do. But that is not to say that you have to be the uber-athlete to swing with us. Likewise, there are people who won't swing with us because we're not blond, too young, too short, ect...
  11. Hi all, After hearing defense lawyers blame parents for the death of their child because they are swingers, and reading posts about intrusive newspapers (and abusive police departments) there has got to be some organization looking out for swingers. A Lobby group would go a large way in improving our stake in the larger community. Don't you think that the NASC would benefit from having a political/public relations arm?
  12. Wow... talk about a lesson in semantics! To your larger point fellow young swingers, we would recommend avoiding the club scene and sticking to private parties and meet-greets at other locations (such as all ages clubs and 18andup clubs). We, at 25, are both still a little young in the club scene. The key to our happiness in the scene is that we rarely go to clubs on our own. Even if you arrange a meeting with people you've met over the internet so it is a group of people rather than just one person/couple you'll find these situation a lot better than clubs. It is kinda rough, we know. But the cool thing is it only gets easier!
  13. You guys might want to consider going to one of the many fabulous off-premises clubs located in Texas. Many of them are reviewed on this very site. We are bery confident you will find many great women there who will be more than willing to supply your better half with the attention she desires. From there it is up to you!
  14. Can anybody tell us what the NASCA does? Honestly, some national organization has got to get out their and start spinning on our behalf. I don't understand how a special interest group as large as ours has no Public Relations arm.
  15. Getting a chance to kiss girls is what J got into this lifestyle for in the first place!
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