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NotsoNew

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About NotsoNew

  • Rank
    Swingers Board Addict
  • Birthday April 27

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    MD
  • Interests
    Travel, Wine, Meeting new people

Swinger Info

  • SLS Name
    newbies123
  1. This just happened to us during a swinging session. Condom slipped off and did not notice. After the fact, it was time to play "find the condom". Well, we found it however I was sore the next day.
  2. We enjoy being nude. We go to nude resorts and nude beaches as much as we can. Many who have not tried this think that you have to have the perfect body to enjoy the experience. Not so. Look around your food store or local Wal-Mart - that is what you will see in a nude resort/beach environment. One thing that I really like is that nude is nude - it is equalling. No judgement.
  3. We seem to look for select few couples. We haven't seemed to have seen more than 3 couples during a period of time (usually for a year or so) before we find new couples - if that makes sense.
  4. NJ Dixie - Hopefully, they just have not responded to you yet and are not blowing you off. But if they are, you could be better off without them. I know that it is tough - we had a couple that we had been seeing for some time. All of a sudden, they stopped replying to our emails. We wondered for a time if it was something that we did and then we just let it go. Then we did get an email from them a few weeks ago. Chalking it up to they were looking for new experiences but now don't think they meant it the way it felt to us. Let us know what happens.
  5. Hi Firedan - Your profile looks good. Like the "update" - to me that shows that interested in trying new things.
  6. Thanks for feedback Julie. Made the change to make more specific for time out. We will work on getting a picture of us both that is not identifying. I just recently put that one up as public as we have always only had private pictures.
  7. I have to say that I am very impressed with the ads posted. I wish that more folks would take the time to put as much effort into their ads as it appears that you all do. I did not see anything on any of the ads that was not previously listed. And I do love the smiling face picture by smileytattoo!! Here is ours if you want to take a look. Usually we are not taking a break, and do change our tag line from time to time. newbies123 on swinglifestyle.com Another thing that I noticed, we lost some of our earlier certifications - not sure why. Anyone else had this problem? PS - Our link most likely won't work because we do not have a public profile.
  8. When we got married we were not swingers. But we did have kind of an unusual wedding - we got married in a bar. Guests were standing around with drinks in hand while we exchanged our 5 minute of vows. I found the minister in the yellow pages. What I loved about our wedding is that it was so low key. My dress cost $50.00 that I found on a sales rack in a regular store, my brother cooked our food and we had a cheesecake wedding cake, everyone was very relaxed and a good time was had by all. We are planning on renewing our vows in Dec 05 at Hedo II with a bunch of great friends.
  9. I agree with Vespertine. This is not swinging, it is Rape. What happened after the fact?
  10. We don't have children but our best friends do. I asked my friend her stance on her kids seeing nudity since we both sleep in the nude and her children have a habit of coming in and waking us up when we stay over. She didn't have a problem with it - they don't have a problem with nudity themselves with their children. So we just don't make a big deal of it. The children don't seem to be inpacted at all and nudity seems very natural in their home. Once the kids go to bed, the adults all drop their clothes anyway as we are most comfortable that way.
  11. We were married for about 6 years before we got into swinging. We got married when we were 30. His first, my second.
  12. I agree with Brad and Janet on this one. If you want to indulge in this kind of fantasy, than all parties should know what to expect. And I can understand your concerns - I can imagine that once things get too familiar (with one person in the couple) it can be a bit threatening to the other person. But the question also comes down to if you two are ready for this. Swinging that is. You indicated that at first she was not interested in being with another man, but now it seems that once she got into the intial fantasy, she is. What do YOU want? Have you changed your mind about swinging because of this incident? You really need to talk with her to get your feelings out in the open. This would also be a good time to discuss where you are both going to go from here. If you both decide to give swinging a try, you must do so together. And set your rules together. Perhaps you should consider a club for your first time. This way, you have an easy way out if unsure. As stated in posts above, honesty is key to swinging along with great communication with your partner. Talk to her and find out how she feels. Make sure she knows how you feel. Good luck and let us know how you make out.
  13. Great post!! While we had a great relationship before swinging, it is more intense now. And we really seem to be more in tune with each other - this is kind of hard to explain. We really go into this together as a team and as we have gotten more into the Lifestyle, a glance between us can speak volumes. We have always been pretty open about talking about sex, but now it is even more so. And while our sex life has always been good, it is now on a different level and hard to believe but even better than it was before. We are more secure about who we are (although there will always be the times of self doubt by me [she] ) but come less often now. Not obsessed with it any more. Also, many things do not phase me anymore (never phased hubby lol) - previous post examples are good ones. But as I stated in another post, I do find myself having to be careful with what I say recognizing that much of the world is not as open as we now are.
  14. Chemistry - The only thing that I can think of is that while they thought they were ready to try being with another couple, they (he) may not have been. If I had to guess, the wife was probably taking cues from his facial expressions. I only say that because she tensed up then relaxed when you rubbed her shoulders. Ms. Chemistry happened to catch the look he gave you when you kissed her neck. She must have seen it too and it freaked her out. So they went upstairs and regrouped. Could be way off base here, but that is my guess. Is their profile still on the site? Any feedback attached if it is?
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