WOW! Touchy subject and lots of great chat about it. For me/us, weight isn't a critical issue as long as the people are clean, considerate, attractive and not obese. A sexy charming personality makes 20 or 30 pounds disappear real quickly! I think it also helps us to relax a bit as we're not poster children for LA Weigh loss! FT is 5'2 135-140 and I'm 6' 205. I find a little extra is much more appealing than a very thin build on a person (just personal preference). The way a person (female I guess) dresses can also enhance and subdue some of the extra weight and it is also very sexy to look at often times. Gret thread, great responses and what a great site! Thanks Julie!