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    Northern Indiana; 20 min. away from Notre Dame!
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  1. O.k., here's my .02... We've started our swinger lifestyle this way. My husband met a woman online and went, met her and they had sex together. This was always one of my biggest fantasies...IT WAS AWESOME!!!! Before it took place he made sure to keep me in the loop with everything that was happening. Before they even broached the subject with each other I was broaching it with him. Whenever he talked to her, he talked to me, I KNOW EVERYTHING that happened and that continues to happen. Next weekend he's going to see her again, two weeks after that she's coming here while the kids and I go see my best friend. Our sex life was great before this started...but it's even better now. We both talk to her every night on line, and we all know, this is JUST SEX and not anything else. All I can tell you is that if you want this to happen, make sure that you are on the same page with each other through every step of the way. Tell each other everything that you are thinking and feeling and be completely honest. This can be one of the ultimate turn on's but it's one of those things that you really do have to 'think to death'. You really have to think of everything that's going to take place and be sure that you're o.k. with it. I suggest doing a visualization separately and together...this way if any niggling 'what if's' or 'I don't likes' come up while your're imagining it apart you can address together and know where each other's comfort zones lie. Otherwise you're opening a can of worms and that's not what you want. If you've got any other questions for me, feel free to PM me with them. Good luck!
  2. I voted for the better. It took our already good communication with each other and brought it to a new level. We've always been very open with each other in all aspects of our lives but this has brought us a new awareness of each other and why we think the other is so special to us. Andy being with another woman was great! But it also made us both appreciate each other more in so many ways, and not all of them sexually. Over all even though we've only had one experience, it's been better all around.
  3. Our ultimate fantasy right now is a FFM. My ultimate fantasy's are so great in number, I'm not sure there's enough time right now to list it...but I'll try. 1) Me alone with another woman, no holds barred. 2) MFM with full hubby participation. (I can dream right?) 3) FFF...need I say more? 4) What Julie said...(that I would have to find to outside participants for as hubby would want to be dead and burried before he ever even gave it one iota of thought) 5) That cabin in TN sounds mighty good! 6) Being in a big city down town, in an old building on the second floor at night (think Rush Street in Chicago). In the room is an old copper tub filled with hot, bubbley water, several buckets filled with ice and chilling champagne, red rose petals strewn across the wooden floor, two beds (pushed together) with black silk sheets an a brass head board, sheer billowy curtains that blow and give glimpses to the world outside, and a fire place with a crackling fire, champagne flutes wainting to be filled sit on the mantle, a swing in the center of the room and every silk scarf, dildo, vibrator, cream, body powder and lube imaginable. Six women, four men and a whole lot of fun. Oh, and vanilla voyuers down below wondering if what they hear going on is really going one and then catching only glimpses between the curtains to leave them rivited in their spot as they stare at the carnal images revealed by the curtains...
  4. I'm really kinda shocked to find a comment like this on this board... I'm wondering, are you in this for the pleasure principle for everyone or just for yourself? You say that you don't know how the men feel...You sure about that? My perception of this is that you're getting these guys hard, taking a peek and then passing judgement on whether or not they are big enough or good enough to be with you, and if you find them lacking, denying them even the chance to even try to pleasure you. How can you say that you don't know how they feel?! Did you ever think that it's not them that has a problem, but you? Before I got married I was with one guy who was 91/2 inches, and one guy who was 11 and almost as big around as a pop can...but I was also with guys who were no where near those sizes. But did I say oh no, I'm sorry, "Don't want no short dick man", hell no! I found ways to move and things to do while they were inside me to compensate for both of us and let me tell you I learned how to have a damn good time! Just how would you feel if you were with a man and he said to you, 'I'm sorry, but your pussy just isn't gonna be big enough to satisfy me, I've seen women built like you before and I just know this isn't gonna work. But hey babe, as a consolation, you can blow me. So how would you feel? And another thing, yes, I do think you're jinxed, you need to learn to appreciate people despite their 'short comings'. :rollseyes You know, if you like big dick, great! But maybe you should ask about the goods before you get down to handling them. Now if you've been lied to, then yes, you definately have a right to be totally peeved and I appologize for the above and I'll write a rant on men, lying and getting over their insecurities...but there isn't really anyone on this board that it would apply to anyone specific since most seem quite secure with who and what they are.
  5. I was 15 the first time. Didn't intend to lose my virginity that night, it just happened. It was with my best friend, both of your mom's were out of town...I wasn't supposed to be at his house while they were gone, but well, they weren't there and we were, who was to know??? heehee One thing led to another and the next thing I know, we're makin' out and he was showing me things about my body that I'dve never knew were true! Fact is it felt sooo good I just didn't want to stop, and of course he didn't...so on we went. We stayed fuck buddies for a few years, but kept it on the down low as much as possible, our mom's were best friends and did not want us to date. If they only knew...(who am I kidding, they probably do, it's not easy to hide something like that from a mom! lol) Andy was 19, it was not a good experience for him. The woman he was with preyed on his senses of guilt much like an older guy does with a teenage girl...'if you loved me you'd sleep with me' type shit and a lot of other seriously uncool stuff. In the end it was his choice to do what he did, but I still say she took every advantage of him possible, including his religious beliefs. I still say if I ever get the chance I'll kick her ass. So there's your answers.
  6. As someone who does not want to make a similar mistake... We've not had our first experience yet and as I stated in another thread, we are going to our first club this coming Saturday. Now we've said that we're just going to go and meet people, check things out, etc. But we've also said that we won't 'do' anything unless we really, really want to...but we are both so turned on by just the concept of all of this. I know being turned on and fantasy is completely different that actually doing these things though. So why is it bad to 'jump right in' and why is separate rooms bad? And what is 'soft sing'? Thanks!
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