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curious24

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About curious24

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  • Birthday 07/14/1977

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    Single Male
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    austin, tx
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    art, dancing, out doors
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    Web guy
  1. I guess if I were to try it I would want to know what all the top/bottom/vers-whatever really means cause I would hate to say something and then have something other than what I'm thinking happen! EEK!
  2. I've never been in either one. Quite honestly if I had two women for my first experience I would be so excited that I seriously wouldn't know what to do. lol Therefore, I'd probably go for the mfm. lol
  3. To add on to what Julie had to say... There are plenty of guys out there that are just as hot or even hotter than her X. I would say let him go and find on of those other 'hot' guys.
  4. Believe me still do tests to make sure b/c I know it's rare but happens that woman are still regular but pregnant. So just make sure.
  5. It just seems odd to me that she was against abortion because of religious beliefs but yet she was swinging. Just odd to me. But this whole issue with the condom breaking. Yep I'm living through it all right now. I can totally relate.
  6. You know I think you are hitting the nail on the head here. With that in mind I think the best way to get guys to show up is to invite guys you have been with and already know. That way you'll know they will be honest with you and if they say they will show then they will. However, asking a bunch of guys that you don't know probably won't get what you are looking for.
  7. I'll admit I didn't take the time to read all the replies but I did want to say that $300 is a bit much. Maybe it will work better if you talk to the couple you are going to meet about this before you meet? Maybe they have the same concerns as you do about cost? Also, maybe you could look at it from a different point of view and say that you are having a weekend away to do other things. I know there has to be things to do other than to meet up for sex. Like shop, sight see, and other things to do where ever you might go to meet people. This way even if you don't play on the first meeting at let you had a nice weekend away and I'm sure you and your partner will have some fun. So in the end not all is lost. Just my .02
  8. Kind of off topic but what kind of art do you collect? I'm constantly going to art openings around here. I try to hit two to three openings a month or as many as my schedule will allow. One of these days I'll be a collector as well. back on topic. Why can you couples be anywhere near me? lol
  9. So are these rules different for single ladies?
  10. I remembered about this thread and read it once again. It's amazing to reread it and know what all I have forgotten about it. I did remember this though and it really does work. I hated my job and I think that's part of the reason why I wasn't fun to be around and kind of a downer for many years. Well I started to apply for everything just like you suggested and went on a TON of interviews. During that time I really polished up on my skills and got so sick of my job I decided I was at a point in my life where I could support myself without the crappy job I had. Therefore, I took a risk and quit! Quitting was the best thing I ever did! My family and friends all said they could tell and see a great change in my personality. It amazed me how much my horrible job affected my whole life. At any rate, I was out of a job less than two months. When that awesome job I wanted came around I had been on many interviews and just about everyone one I went too I was getting offers. I turned down many I got so good at it. However, I finally caught a break and got an interview with a company I REALLY wanted to be with. Low and behold I went in a little nervous but after the first 5 minutes I calmed down and went to town. One thing I found is that being honest and telling the potential empolyer exactly what you want to do and not to do, what you are expecting from them, what your career goals are, and just laying it all out there is the best way to get their attention. Then combine that with real experience and stories from previous jobs to back it up really comes off great. One story I told when they asked me what my biggest professional disappointment was I think I shocked them with how honest I was at least my parents couldn't believe the story I told them. Anyway, one thing this experience has taught me is that being very honest and forth coming about what you are looking for and being agressive (not too agressive though) will get you what you want. Now I'm meeting a ton of new people! Something that I haven't been in a place to do since college. In fact in my first 5 days at my new job I met a cool woman and asked her out. She had a b/f but seemed to be flattered that I even asked. I'm going to keep churning away at both "dating" and the lifestyle and see what happens. I'm just really excited that I'm really happy with what's going on and my confidance in myself has really shot through the roof lately and I think that's going to help me in all aspects of my life. So I wanted to thank you all for taking the time to reply to my original message. I am taking the advice that you all have given me to heart and it's really paying off. So thank you all!
  11. So following this train of thought do you ride in your car without a seat belt on? In my opinion you might as well. The reason I say this is that it seems to me that you trust everyone's driving skills enough that there are no crazy drivers out there that are going to drive you off the road and aren't going to cause any type of accident. For me it's the same way with sex. Put your seat belt on and you'll have a better chance if there is an accident than without one on. just my .02.
  12. I've noticed something on some sites that I just don't understand. It seems to me that on this site the majority of people practice safe sex and use condoms. However, I have seen images from several single guys and even couples that have them in the act and I have not once seen any guys using condoms. Is the use of condoms in the lifestyle not really used much? Do these images give the wrong impression of the lifestyle and it's safty?
  13. Just a suggestion because I haven't read in this thread anything about it, but have you thought about possibly talking to your son about your daughter's attitude towards discussing the lifestyle with you? Maybe he knows something that might help you approach your daughter about this. I think I would ask him if he's comfortable talking about it with you since he let it slip he might not be willing or want to talk about it. However, if you express your concern to him I think he'll open up and let you know what she is thinking. Maybe he can be the middle man between you two until you and your daughter feel comfortable enough to talk about it. I think that's the direction I would go if I were in your shoes. Just my .02
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