I had sex unwillingly at the tender age of 10 - sexually molested by a 30 year old man, who subsequently spent 15 years in prison for his actions. (not nearly enough time behind bars for him)
Willingly, I had my first consensual sexual act at the age of 15. He was 19 and it was quite a pleasant experience for me. After the traumatic events when I was 10 and 4 years of intense therapy to attempt to deal with what happened, I met this wonderful, sensitive young man and spend many happy months with him. After I told him what had happened to me he asked me if I would like to know what sex is really supposed to be like and I said I would. He proceeded to spend an entire weekend showing me how soft, caring, sensual and sensuous sex can be between 2 consenting individuals. Yes, thinking back, I probably was too young at 15 to let him teach me the wonderful things he did. But then, at age 10 I was too young to have gone through what I did. That young man helped change my entire attitude toward sex and men in general, God bless him! Unfortunately, he is still listed MIA by the United States Army....I'll never forget him and I'll always be grateful for his patience and caring.