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cqwest

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About cqwest

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  • Birthday 09/22/1971

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    M. Male
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    Az
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    Arts, cycling, tennis, mountain bikeing, music, movies
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    Artist

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    cqwest
  1. What a great response there has been to this thread! Last night I finally got my wife to really ejaculate for the first time. It was awesome! I was kind of shocked though so I didn't keep it going like I think could have happened. I have talked to her about it quite a few times, but I think what made her believe it can happen is something that happened about three weeks ago. She was getting ready for bed so she relieved herself and then showered. When she got out of the shower she was just so sexy I pushed her back onto the bed and began to lick and suck her pussy. She was getting very hot and seemed ready to me so I inserted one of my fingers and stimulated her G-spot. It wasn't long and she began to orgasm. When she did she snapped her legs shut (squeezing my head in the process). When I asked her why she had done that she said she had to pee real bad. I said "no you don't", but off to the restroom she went. At her return I said " you didn't need to did you" more of a statement than a question. She of coarse said no she didn't have to after all. I explained to her that if she would have just let herself go that she would have had a really incredible orgasm. She said that she didn't want to pee like that. So I explained again to her it wasn't urine it was ejaculate. Anyway we have talked about a few times since then and last night she really did it, and really enjoyed it. So now that she has relaxed once enough to do it I think she will be able to again, and I'm hoping that she will cum even harder. So thanks for all the comments. The hope it instilled in me kept me trying, and it has paid off.
  2. I understand that you need to stimulate the "G" spot by stroking it from the inside or back towards the outside or front, also clitoral stimulation helps. It may also help if you where the g-spot is located only on the outside of her body. I also understand that the first time the woman may feel as though she may need to urinate so it is good for them to do so before hand. That way when it happens they will be more comfortable with knowing that it is not urine. My wife is still afraid that she is going to pee and won't let herself relax enough to do it. Although like I said before I did get her to do it once but she stopped herself and made me quit stimulating her. This concept is a huge turn on for me I would like to find a way to get her to relax and just enjoy the orgasm. Thanks
  3. I have seen clips of women who "ejaculate" when they are really turned on and stimulated. The idea has really intrigued me since I had heard of it years ago. I have read about it, seen it on the internet. I have talked to women who say that they have indeed squirted when they cum. My wife has squirted when I have tried the techniques I have been told to try, not much of it though. She feels that she is peeing not cumming, and does not want to do that. I have read literature that says the ejaculate has been tested and is not urine, and some that say women do not ejaculate that it is urine. I don't know what to think but I do know the idea that my wife can ejaculate like that is a real turn on for me. I guess it is that I know that she is real worked up to the point that she will squirt. Does anyone have any insight on this? Are there others here who get turned on by females being able to ejaculate? I know the clips that I have seen where a woman ejaculates sure seem like they squirt out of orgasm, not urinating. I have seen some you could tell they were urinating and trying to make it look like they were ejaculating, but some do look real. Any comments?
  4. I've really enjoyed following this thread. I'm glad to see that it's not just me that has a fasination with this particular fetish. It is hard for me to go down on my wife after I have cum inside her (i think it is that the sexual excitement has calmed down). Watching her being so turned on fucking another man would highten the sexual attraction. Obviously the other man would have to be someone would would feel safe allowing to fill your wife up with his cum. After they finished and he has gone. To have her want me to eat her pussy as she tells me how much she enjoyed having him slide his cock into her would send me over the edge. The smell of their sex, the flush of her skin, most of all enjoying her excitement of rubbing her just filled pussy on my face until she cums adding more of her juices to the mix. I think It would make me cum without even touching myself. Well anyway thanks to everyone for responding to this thread.
  5. I have gotten more good advice here than I thought I would thank you all! It's hard to get some one to understand the complete problem when you need to do it in such few words, and your only hearing one side. It is nice to know that there are so many of you who care enough to try to understand and help. I have gotten counseling a couple of times in my life and it helped a lot. once was after my first wife and I split up, and once because I felt like I needed it. A new environment is always helpful but we usually need to bring our 6yr old with us. We have few people we are comfortable leaving him with and so don't get out alone often. Which is one of the things I would like to change. more later...
  6. Thank you for all the replies. There is some very good advice here. I have asked her if we could go to get some counseling together and her response is that she doesn't like or trust counselors. She does have some medical problems that she is working on, and I understand that right now sex probably is a little uncomfortable for her. That isn't the problem though. I can and have gone without sex with her for a long periods of time. It's just I see no hope of any change in her attitude about it. She has been on hormone therapy for a while and it seemed like she could think more clearly, but it really didn't help with her sex drive. I have tried being romantic. I have tried not putting any sexual stress on her at all. I've tried being spontaneous. Sometimes if she thinks I'm at my wits end she will put a little effort into it for a week or so, but as soon as I start to feel like maybe there is some hope she stops trying. I get to where I avoid having sex with her because I'm bored, and I try not to make it seem that way. The thing is she knows that I always want to make love to her. I am not only in love with her but also in lust with her. I don't feel I need to swing with her to have a good sex life. I just want her to take some some initiative. She will snuggle close to me but her actions are like a high school girl who has never been with a man before. She is in her early 50's and I just feel like she should be able to express herself better than that sexually. She is a very loving person, and it is obvious that she loves me dearly. I just feel that I have tried everything I can think of to stimulate her into something other "missionary sex ". I do have a high sex drive, but I have never imposed that on her. The straw that broke the camels back for me was... over the weekend she saw a dress in an ad and pointed it out to me and I said that yes I thought it was very nice but I would love her to but something a little more revealing sometime. She looked at me and said "oh grow up". I feel like there is nothing else I can do. Maybe it would help if I got some counseling, but I feel that my only option if I want a sex life is to tell her I need to get it somewhere else because she just isn't interested.
  7. I love my wife. We've been married for 13 years. When we were dating and then lived together she was excited about sex. She would be somewhat adventurous. Then we got married and all that stopped. I have been patient now for 13 yrs. My ex and I were into swinging and I have always wanted to get back into it. I knew that I couldn't push Deb my (my wife now ) into it and have never pushed or really even brought it up for fear of completely offending her. The thing is she doesn't want to do anything to spice up our sex life at all. I am bored to tears. I would rather masturbate than to have sex with her because it's more exciting. I have tried to have honest conversations a number of times over the years about things we could do to add some life to our sexual activities. There is nothing that interests her but kissing. That is the only answer I get from her when I ask her what would get her more excited about it. When we have talked about sex it has always got to be very clinical terminology or it offends. I have tried to romance her. I have tried to get her drunk. I've even tried doing all the work around the house, like dishes, cooking, laundry, taking care of our child so she can go out and have fun. I spent $600 for a day at a very exclusive spa, then took her to San Francisco for dinner and to spend the night in a beautiful hotel suite. Nothing works. I don't expect her to swing (although that would be nice) I just want her to act like she actually wants to make love with me instead of it being a chore, or "her wifely duty". I never had a woman be unhappy with my lovemaking before. I have an 8" cock that is fairly thick. I love romance and oral sex. I love to take my time. I just don't understand what the problem is. She has given up wearing anything sexy at all saying "that isn't me". I went out and bought her some sex toys thinking maybe it might start a fantasy for her. She wouldn't even touch them saying again "that isn't me". She told me a long time ago that if I were going to fool around on her to please tell her first. Well I think that's what I going to do. I don't want a divorce because I love her and we have worked hard to build a life together. We are happy in just about every other way. I would like to hear comments or suggestions. Please, I am desperate at this point to bring some excitement into my, or our, sex life. Thanks for listening.
  8. I'm 380..... about what I would have thought. I knew I was a little kinky. Wife thinks I'm very kinky.
  9. Deeptuoch a creampie is when a man cums inside a woman. It could be vaginal or anal, but it must be inside. I think we all know how sexy it is to see a woman who has just had sex with a man. She is swollen with excitement, then the mixture of their cum slowly leaks from her. Very arousing!
  10. My ex had sex with a few different men bareback. The feeling of having her afterward was priceless. But alas this was years ago before the HIV problem. I loved it, but would not do it now unless I knew the other male well enough and knew he was std free. The Idea of the possibility of having "sloppy seconds" still excites me though.
  11. I love to look at a pussy that has just been filled with cum. I love the feel of sliding my cock in a pussy that is full of cum. I'm not sure why but I would love to have my wife fuck my face after her pussy has been filled. I'm not gay or even bi, but the thought of another man sliding his cock in and out of my wife until they both cum then her wanting me to clean her up drives me wild. Any one else feel this way? Ladies are there any of you who would love to have your husband lick your pussy clean after another man has filled you with his spunk?
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