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  1. you see, that's why we almost never get together with novices. Too much of a hassle! Here's the deal: It's about having sex with other adults and that must be understood (period). If you're not sure you can handle it, perhaps the fantasy is the way it must remain. He was ok with his wife putting another man's dick in her mouth, another woman sucking his dick and touching strange pussy and what else?? And what not? It's too much to remember while exercising your must primitive instinct. Here's my advise, know that if you dabble into the "Lifestyles" you will end up having sexual intercourse with someone else and you both must accept this fact. If you can handle that, search for an experience couple and have a great time and if, by the way, you realize you can not handle it, be a man or woman and let the others have fun and when you get home tell your partner that, that was not for you. suck it up and toss it to the experiences of life.
  2. The wife is the cleanest person on earth, but when she had a bush, at the end of the day well... let's just say that I by-passed the oral. Hairy women have a gym-like smell, it's not bad but... I vote for hairless
  3. It’s not the actual physical penetration or the size, shape or whatever. It’s a fantasy that she has. Would you trade her for a girl with a tighter pussy? NO! but being there in that situation sharing such exiting delight with your wife participating would be the biggest turn-on not the physical characteristics of your boy/girl toy. relax and enjoy S&M
  4. I think the label "swinging" refers to a couple doing the deed together. You will not be swinging, you'll be having sex with strangers by yourself behind your husbands back. Not a moral lesson just a matter of semantics. My advice is: go for it! be careful and enjoy the experience! maybe you'll enjoy it so much that you'll want to turn your hubby on to the lifestyle but never mention the experience you had in Indy to him. You'll lose his trust. Write back and share .
  5. It is much easier to give the right answer to this question while sitting in front of your pc. We've been "swinging" for a while and under many different circumstances. We started out with my best friend joining in and he never wore a condom while doing my wife and it was never an issue or talked about. We were all in such a state of ecstasy that, though, safety should have been an issue the moment was overwhelming. When we're out at clubs it is a must, but if my wife really likes the guy, she’ll sometimes finish him off with her mouth without a condom and she is very bi she loves giving and receiving oral from women, of course nothing in between lips and lips. When we meet with couples and feel comfortable with them it becomes more like a mutual thing, but I must say that 8 out of 10 times we’ll go bareback. Yes, yes.... we know is reckless behavior but the way we rationalize it; most of the couples in this lifestyle are successful, educated, honest with each other and the male is hetero, at least in our circle. Also, due to the fact of the arrangement, it is very unlikely that he’ll stray and engage in a more risky behavior i.e. prostitution and such. And, perhaps it is true what Julie said, some parts of the country are different. South Florida (Miami/Ft. Lauderdale) is very open and easy going. Just my real answer. thanks,
  6. Thanks for asking that question. We have had so much fun with our lifestyle that at times we have felt compelled to share it with our regular friend but held back. I'm glad we did. It is something we do in private. I don't think we would like it if one of our regular friends shared with us their passion for whips, electrodes, or golden showers just because they thought it was a blast. So, we'll keep our private life private!
  7. Funny, we've been in the lifestyles for about 8 years. Most of our fun takes place in clubs. We have had many, many encouters with many different couples and a few repeats, I have never kissed another women while playing and the mrs has never kissed another man yet she has kissed every one of the women that she has played with. We never talked about that is just what we do.
  8. My wife and I have been in the "lifestyles" for about 8 years , more as a hobby then as a lifestyle. There has always been total trust and understanding between us. We started out with a good friend of mine for mfm fun and we did this about a dozen times in about 5 yrs. other than that we are exclusive to on-premises clubs, we like the anonymity that they provide. Our rules are: we go as wild as each of us feels on any particular night . My wife enjoys women more than men, that's not to say that she hasn't had plenty of guy encounters. I love to watch her play with woman and she loves to see me with other women. We usually stay within touching distance of each other and had had very much fun, exiting experiences and not a single bad one. We usually meet couples in the bar/dance area but we rarely end up with them. More often we walk into the play areas just her and I, look around, find something that we both like and approach them in the limited lighting. Fortunately we're an attractive couple so we haven't experienced rejection, also, the fact that we live in South Florida makes it more relaxing. Many of the people that we talked ( after we played) with are out-of-towner with vacationers attitude; get wild. . We sometimes talk of meeting a couple that we can form some kind of friendship in and out of bed but never acted upon . Like I said, it's not our lifestyle is just something we do on weekend and we're happy to leave it there.
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