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  • Birthday 07/07/1974

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  1. You do not measure from the balls. I would say measure from the side of your penis not from the bottom or top. If you do it from the bottom, then the scrotum can cause a mismeasurement. If you do it from the top as is suggested, then the suspensory ligament that holds your penis up when erect can also cause a mismeasurement. Please note this is not an exact science, as I still can get various measurements depending on just how erect I was.
  2. I remember asking the question from the standpoint of confessed ignorance once. Just how does someone know how to "work it"? What would be a good suggested technique for working it properly? Once again I must feign ignorance in an attempt to gain the real answer to this phrase that I have heard many times over.
  3. Steve, I think you're right. It is the nature of the beast. I think that we can all agree that we men want to be that take charge kind of person, but not want to be too pushy, while at the same time let a woman have her "day" and be as sexy and naughty as she wants to be. Now for whatever reason there are some men,(read players, or playaz', where I come from) who don't have this problem with being aggressive but also leave a trail of broken hearts in their wake, as they aren't swinging, but using women to get what they want. I know what they have as far as what gets them lucky, it's charm. Anyone can have that. But the real question is how do they get past that instinctive reflex that would tell most gentlemen that this is as far as you go without her permission? Ladies what clues would you leave that would tell us that it is time to take it up a notch? Please, for the sake of this discussion, assume that I am ignorant( for I truly am).
  4. TeamSobe, I am sorry for the confusion, as I only initiate with my wife, and even then not very well. I completely understand about the club situation, so it would seem that you are way ahead of me( I haven't been to any clubs yet). Now my wife, her sister, and their friends have no qualms about walking up, grabbing, kissing, etc. But we do, and part of it in my opinion is that we were trained to be classic gentlemen(look but don't touch, treat women with respect, etc.) and when we get to a situation as you have described, we don't have any rules for engagement. Ladies, would you help two kind gentlemen who wants to have fun but does not wish to disrespectful? As far as Socialized anxiety disorder, that can definitley play a part. I have had those types of attacks in the past, and the only thing I can tell you to do if it happens is to hang on for the ride cause once it's over then you should not have another episode(in my case about 5 minutes but can seem like eternity). But Miss Piggy is right only a doctor or psychiatrist can diagnose that. And she is also on target about desensitizing yourself to new situations that can cause anxiety. I wish you the best, just keep at it and I am sure that you will be alright.
  5. Well I'm back after trolling for a while! Hope everybody's been having fun. I just want to say that I feel that way too. I initiate mostly, but don't do that rough take charge kinda of, well I don't know, beast fucking maybe?( I guess that's what it's called) Anyway I would like to know how to get out of that because if we are on target for swinging in clubs I get the idea that I too will be left in the dust. My wife is more than ready. I wonder if I will keep up.
  6. Ok, interracial cpl here. If my avatar is not a dead giveaway . (at least partially) There are interracial couples out there, and many of the people on this board have played with interracial couples. There is an attraction that many people have with someone of a different ethnic group, and the ethnic "spice" just makes for better play. That does not mean that you have to have it all the time, it would seem no different than your relationship if thats the case.
  7. Incommunicado, I can say without a doubt that we are in the exact same boat. I know exactly how bad it hurts to find out that the one you love most in this world has hurt you the greatest. It has always been my opinion that death would be preferrable to betrayal. Having said that, it will not be an easy path to take to get your marriage back to where it should be. But you have already begun the journey. I would echo the advice of others who have replied to say that swinging would be the wrong thing to do right now. And to those who replied that you should only forgive "x" amount of times before calling it quits, remember this is his decision to make. If he forgave one time or a hundred, it will not make him weak for doing so. It only makes him stronger, as his resolve for making this marriage work increases. I can only hope that your wife will see just what she is about to lose before it is too late. I hope for the best and please keep us updated.
  8. Guys, don't give up just yet. I can't say why some of those people that you emailed never responded back. Some of the others might be a litttle intimidated that someone finally found them interesting and strangely enough might not know what to do next.(been there) I was about to say that you guys are finding some decent people, but after careful rereading I see what you have about the same problem that I have. I keep finding those single male "couples" that just want to separate me from my wife because their SO just ain't doing it for them. So I feel your pain in that regard. Good luck in finding some real people, they're out there.
  9. Intercourse orgasms are indeed the exception, but it can be done if the guy has good stamina and can hit the g spot constantly. Now to look for a g spot!
  10. Ok, hope I am on topic with this one. I have a slight curve in my penis (Not Peyronie's disease) and I have measured many times. Sometimes the measurement is 6.5 inches, and sometimes it is 7. I gonna guess that I am doing something wrong and ask the men how to properly measure. I will also ask the ladies to help out on this. My next question is how long does a man have to be to hit "the spot"? I know positions are one thing but I am looking to be able to hit it as if by second nature.
  11. I will definitely remember this rule for the next time. Not only did we not do anything (more sex, talk, etc.) I was so charged from the experience I did not go to sleep until mid morning, and had to be at work at 3p.m. So needless to say I was a walking zombie all day long .
  12. I envy you! We ALL had to get up early the next day, go to work, etc. No debriefing yet, but we keep the comm lines open. I am quickly building to the point of just coming home and taking her right then .
  13. Hey Naughty's! I just saw your post! You're right, he was the stunt cock, and I have to admit she loved being a little slut for both of us. I agree that the fact of him knowing what he was doing and her being naughty about it was enough to do it. I guess in my head I'm plotting how to use that to make it better for us in our personal playtime. But you once said that it was a great turn on to see your wife in ecstasy during these encounters, and now I see why! So to you a very big Texas thank you!
  14. Thanks to all who replied! Let me start off by saying that I wanted her to finish and get the full effect of being ravished. Yes I too believe that it was the "new toy" syndrome but at the same time she knew he was recovered enough and I was still recovering. Also interestingly enough, his technique was very different from mine, now that I remember it all. But I will chalk it up to a trade-off. He is into the bdsm lifestyle, something that she has an interest in. He was there to train both of us, me to Dom/ her to sub. So I knew sex was going to be a part of it, and I wanted to share my wife's fantasy of taking on two men. We had already done as much as two guys could do, and she still wanted more. So I left the room so she could concentrate on her orgasm, and let them go at it again. I will say that I have come a long way from when she first met him(I was devastated, but I had agreed to it) and was completely comfortable with eveything that was going on. It was just that I have only brought her to g spot orgasm during intercourse twice in 7 years and it was during a lengthy session for that matter( clitoral orgasms aplenty! ). After thinking it over, I must conclude that it was all about positions, and having seen the way he did it, I know that I will too. Just had to be awakened from boring, routine-sex and I think this did the trick. And to tnohcpl, you're right . This beautiful creature is at home, with me. And that makes all the difference.
  15. Well to all of you who know of me, I must tell you that the Mrs. and I have finally had our first threesome! I thought I might be a little weirded out by watching another man fuck my wife, but I wasn't. But there is one thing that concerns me. After he and I tagged-team her, she still has not had her orgasm. She suggests that the 2 of them go again because she is so close. Well they did, and she sang like I have never been able to make her do before. Now, this threesome is her b-day present, and the man is one that she has had sex with before during a trial open marriage. So I definitely wanted to her to get off, but feel a little (read: a hell of a lot!) jealous that it was him who got her off in that matter. Other than that one sticking point, I must say that I had good time as well watching her play out her fantasy of D/s, and mfm. Any ideas on how to counter this feeling? I don't want to ruin the memory of last night(5/25/04) for feeling jealous.
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