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    Clinton Twp., MI
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    jazz, reading, swinging and good friends
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  1. Spoomonkey, I was being satirical about your statement concerning preference.
  2. Spoomonkey, Since belief is a firm opinion, the opinion must be based on thought, feelings or other emotions. Since perference is favoring one person over another, in this case, the personal preference must be base on something! A thought? A feeling? Past experience? Custom? Preference must have a basis and the basis is belief. Belief can be a single thought as why someone like or dislike someone. Preference is not thought and thought is not without belief!
  3. I like my wife to be slutty. Though she can only be slutty in comfortable situations. Once at a house party where she was feeling very comfortable and was being slutty with three men who had sex with before. She look so excited. Enjoying the touching, fingering and kissing. During a break in foreplay, she told me, "we going to a bedroom." One of the women came up to be and said "I never seen her act this way," while smiling! Wow! I had only seen her be slutty with me in private. Now we have talked about her letting go, I knew she had the desire, but did not know when she would let go. Here is a PTA mom or the girl-next-door doing what she wanted to do. I was having mixed feelings. Happy my wife was enjoying herself, yet I wondering what was happening. Ah, getting I wanted. Thinking I wanted my wife to open-up, I began to relax. I walked to the doorway and saw my wife fucking and sucking two men. I got turned on thinking this is my wife. They are fucking my wife. Damn this is hot! While my wife was getting fucked, I talked to a couple of wives told me to go in after she is finished and comfort her. I did and she needed to know I did not would hold her actions against her. I told her my feelings, how excited I got and said I love her. So yes I love slutty women in the correct enviornment
  4. I have read posts with the following statements: 1) We or I am are not racist. 2) We or I am not attracted to black's. 3) It is our preference. Yet, never stating their basis for their beliefs. I know it is their right to swing with whom ever and I would never tell any one they had to swing with someone because of their ethnicity. Though, it is interesting that people making the above statements do not go in to detail as to why.
  5. I must say, both my wife and I have had many couples or a spouse of a couple say either, "I never been wth a black man before and now I want to be with you" or "I have always wanted to have sex with a black woman." Most were honest and only expressing their sexual attraction and desires. A few were out of "myth" and "locker room" desires. Now having made the above statement, my wife and I, have never used ethncity as a reason for attraction and swinging. Most of our swinging encounters have been with couples of different ethnicities. The subject of ethnicity does come up in chatting and about ninety-nine percent agree the different of skin-tone somewhat enchance the sexual desire; but when we get down to it, it is the person, respect, desire, passion and having good to great sex.
  6. We met a mature couple who was sexually attracted to my wife. As a foursome we connected sexually and enjoyed talking with each other. Well, the mature gentleman and my wife were extermely hot for each other. Going to dances and returning home, I would tease my wife about her mature beau. She would smile and say, "I never thought I would be so horny for an older man." Some of the people who knew at the dance always commented on sexual intense their "slow" dances were. So, the offer came. The mature couple asked if it was okay with me for them to take may wife out for the evening, because his wife was only into women. We had become comfortable enough to trust them. The date was set and they took my wife out and partied into the next morning. This couple was about fifteen to twenty years older than us. We each since then have swung with couples either approximately fifteen years older or younger than us.
  7. Blondx2for4, I am an African-American amle who is a little less than eight inches and average thickness; so I think I am average too. I do beleive that size does nmatter to a point, a different point for all women. I do know from my experiences grinding a woman clitorial area, moving with the purpose to touch and feel a woman in all the places a man can, while stroking to achieve mutual pleasure, will make the man a good lover as far as penetration. I did all the above when I was younger and in shape, flexiable and aerobic conditioning. Now I am not! LOL. So I must get up and get back in shape so I can go back to my younger days and just not bumpin' n grinding!
  8. Mrs. Sweetdevil loves to recieve anal and I love to give it to her. She always cum hard. It is not something we do alot, when we do, damn we both cum hard.
  9. My score was 620. I knew I was kinky since I was younger. But there were no questions about nipples clamps and hot wax. I know my score whould be higher!
  10. As a Black couple we have met couples whom has accepted and rejected us because of our race. Of the couples that rejected us, they let us know we were not welcome; and of the couples who accepted us, they made us feel welcome. This is a subject which was discussed with the a couple who brought us into swinging so we ready when it happen. I can remember a group outing to bar and the husband of one couple constantly made negitive comments interracial swinging. The other's were looking to me to make a strong statement, but I did not want get into a fight, so I sat silently. Until he made a comment about my wife and not being attractive. Then I told him to stop or we, him and I, would be outside and I find out how much of a man he really is. He gave a look like okay. Then I said, remembering these words clearly, "...get you bitch-ass up and see what you are made of!" Seeing that I was serious he backed off. The mood of the group changed and I could tell my wife may not want to try swinging. But later without this couple at the table, I was asked "... what took me so long?" I said, "I didn't want to spoil the party". Their reply was he was the one spoiling the party and the rest of the group did not feel the wasy he did. This brought a smile to my wife face. As for me I was trying to come down from being angry. Well the other ladies took care of that by flirting with me while sitting my lap. My wife was just flirting with the men. The night got sexier but we did not swing that night. In the van riding to our cars some of the men had my wife more relaxed by kissing and playing with her in the back. I was glad to see she was enjoying herself. Later, as I was driving home, my wife said she knew what I was thinking and had hope I would start a fight. She knows me so well! The following day we got a call from the "sponsor" couple to see how we were doing, that "other's" were concern and how they like us. This is really reassurring. We had decided not to let this one person stop us from swinging and we told them so. We found many couples that accepted us for us and likewise accepting them for themselves. We have had many more positive experinces than negative experinces. But there are always a few who has to let it be known that they do not find black couples attractive. Our standard response is, "we don't find you attractive either!" Which usually caught them off-guard. Whether these couples are racist it depends on the reason(s) why don't particpant in interracial swinging. We do not take time to find out. In most cases you never miss what you never had. And one of the most important aspect of swinging for us has been getting to know couples and establishing a friendship or closeness with similar couples. A post note to this story. Sometime later the husband of that couple said that he really did find my attractive but he had painted himself into a corner, because his wife wanted to have sex with a black man and that upset him and he did not know to handle it. Talk about underlining psychological issues.
  11. Philosophically speaking, size does matter. But we are dealing with reality and most women do not want "Mr. Big Dick" all the time. My wife and other women have constantly stated, "...a big dick is good every now and then, but not all time, nor most of the time. It just good to have a big one every now and then." So, now we have to deal with "what is a big dick?" It is relative to the individual woman preference. Some women like length over girth, some like girth over length, there are some who like both girth and length, and some like medium for all the different type of sex they can have. So philosophically, size does matter but it depends on the woman's sexual desires and needs.
  12. Men will understand what I am about to say and is by no means putting down anyone. We men look for the most attractive woman and let out mind wonder with lustful thoughts, while the girl next door is just that, the girl next door! Generally, people within the swinging lifestyle look at "high" income as being good swinging partners, because of lustful thoughts. While all the time failing to look at the couple next door. We men know some of our best sex has been with the girl next door. So, don't over look the couple next door or down the street with the same or lower income and go for the "higher income." And by the same token do not overlook the "down-to-earth" couple with a high income who are lustful as you!
  13. A general observation of people who have a high income level and are snobbish, are like people who have a low income level and are resentful. Both are projecting their insecurities, rather than being more objective! From experience, most of us are in the middle having some bias and acknowledging our biases, while trying to accept others as they are and not what they or don't have.
  14. Quin, Thanks for your humble opinion. You give great conversation!
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