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  1. thanks. my debate at moment isn't about what it being gross or not. I get that there are certain things that people just aren't turned on by and sometimes think it is just gross. not a problem. my question for anybody is do you think that one would go from one extreme to the other on an sexual act? I understand that one may say I like or would try something but when not in heat of moment or drunk, typically i have seen people certainly back off from what they said. but rarely, if ever, have I seen somebody go total opposite to saying it is totally gross, and no way in hell they would do something. just a philosophical debate really.
  2. thanks it wasn't my attempt to nudge closer really at that time. I was just 'testing' what she had said earlier. I kind of think that like everything it a sliding scale. while drunk/horny you are probably more willing to try and think about things you might not while sober and not in heat of the moment. I am not sure one can go from a 0 to a 10 on something really. You can't tell me that it would be disgusting, gross and NO WAY in HELL would you do that but when in heat you say yes? to me that seems to much extreme. just my humble opinion that is not worth much. I get that when in heat of moment or drunk you are more adventurous but when sober might not be so excited about it.
  3. Wife and I were discussing fantasy other day and had a disagreement on something that I will throw out there to get opinion. While discussing fantasies can one say while 'fantasizing' would consider doing something but after the moment say 'gross, i could never do that'. I certainly understand that fantasies are exactly that and don't usually become reality. The specific was that she fantasized about kissing another woman but later when I reminded her about that she responded no way that is gross, i could never do that. I would have expected something more along the response of 'i don't think so' or 'not sure I could do that' or something that kind of leaves the door open but certainly isn't agreeing to doing it. I said that when he response later was 'gross no way', it kind does not compute. thanks
  4. I had the big V many years ago and it was really no big deal at all. I am very surprised that more do not do it. As for women having a procedure, it is more complicated and the reality is that it is the woman who gets pregnant not the man. What is it for somebody to lie or be wrong about be sperm free? Granted i would hope that anybody we play with we have determined we trust to play with bareback. I personally believe most men will not do it because of the 'macho' attitude. i will do anything i can to make playing with others easier and more stress free.
  5. for my better half she has a hard time to discuss her 'fantasy' also. I believe part is that it is in her mind just 'wrong' to be having sex with others even though she does enjoy it alot. Part of it is Mars and Venus issues, men love the visualizations and all, while women seem to prefer 'romance'. She also has a hard time admiting that she is enjoying playing with another guy. Something engrained in her that says husband and wife should meet each others needs exclusively. I have to go along with ViSexual, you just have to accept as long as she is enjoying it.
  6. my definition would be Open Marriage - seeking 'relationships' outside marriage beyond that of sex. Swinging/other - seeking sexual encounters outside marriage w/ or w/o partner for fun. granted there is some sort of relationship w/ those you might swing with but there is a line you do not cross.
  7. We have recently been going to bars at hotels. She goes down to the bar alone and usually gets picked up. Depending on the hotel and what is going on the bar can be pretty full. She will text me to let me know that she is being hit on and I will usually go down to the bar but not sit with her. It has been pretty hot to watch whoever hit on her. She enjoys the attention and i enjoy watching. She will give me more details later about the things i could not see, i.e. touching under table. She has yet to leave the bar with anybody but maybe one day if she finds the right one. We usually go to nicer hotels near convention center and depending on convention in town she has a lot of fun.
  8. As for dictionary, who cares do what works for you.. Absolutely like comment about her going off for quickie and coming back.. Wife recently met with our ongoing MFM friend without me knowing. She came home with a big grin and told me about it. We had discussed the possibility of doing this so it was 'preapproved' just did not know when or if would happen. To have her give the details was great and provided for some great sex. It had not been more than 30 minutes since she was with him that we were in bed together. For us it was hot, she said that it was such a thrill to do it with other guy knowing that she was going to tell me later.
  9. Like many things in life it is not black and white. Cuckold has different meaning to different people There is certainly a general consensus of what it is though. I absolutely understand your comment about seeing her go off to have a quickie and returning to you. That is what I really enjoyed the time she met the guy without me and had a quickie then came home smelling and flushed also not more than 20 minutes after being with him. She had a grin that I will remember when she walked in.
  10. We play on a variation of cuckold/hotwife. This is all agreed on between the two of us. We have had another male that joined us for some MFM fun. Sometimes I participated and sometimes not. He didn't seem to do so well when I was watching or participating so I suggested to my wife that she hook up with him alone some time. She was very hesitant at first but eventually did it and surprised me one day. I had no idea that she was with him but she met up with him and then came home to tell me about it. That was always our rule, she can do whatever but she MUST tell me about it after. For her it was a rush to 'sneak' and meet with him for a quickie knowing that I had no idea. We had some of best sex when she got home and told me. Also, the guy was probably at his best because he knew that she was sneaking and he probably viewed her as a 'naughty' woman. He knew from previous discussions that i approved and would know about it in the end. So what one calls it does not matter, what matters is that all parties are in agreement and no true cheating/deception. We all define that line differently.
  11. I can only relate to you what happened in our limited experiences. I the husband started it and then encouraged the other male to join in. This in my opinion makes it easier for the other male being told to start. Also, she can feel free and not having to make a choice.
  12. MrsVan i can respect your respect for MrVan and not having others cum in your mouth. However, i disagree with MrVan, i would not deny my better half the enjoyment of swallowing and she enjoys as you do. I believe that we all here have a unique and special relationship with our significant others that we are comfortable in watching them enjoy sex with others. This to me is the 'special' thing that is only between the two of us.
  13. We agree with TNT. We can deal with playing separately on rare occasions due to circumstances but would not seek it out continually. We have had several MFM and on many occasions she has started play w/o me but i was very close by and would be joining shortly. If we were both at a party and it happened that would be ok but again we are both close by and will enjoy hearing about the others fun.
  14. agreed, the anticipation and imagine runs wild while her and lover are in next room in the throws of passion
  15. We have done this a few times with a regular male after many previous times where we all three played together. I, the male half, find it exciting knowing that she is in other room playing and to hear them occassionally is also exciting. Every one has to decide for themselves what works.
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