MIDNIGHTVELVET

There is a clear and present danger here. There should not be any working anything out after the fact. On something that the both of you agreed on doing. It appears you two are not on the same page or let alone the same book for that matter. It seems your not communicating or comparing notes to notice you are no where near each other on this. Did you have a discussion on rules of engagement or bounderies? Or signal a wayout to let one or both know if one is uncomfortable or is having emotional issue? Even in the midst of heavy action. So you two can talk about where one had an issue, with out it becomming a catastrophic one to your relationship. Being “furious” is beyond mad and is an alarming response to things he’s encouraging you and you acting on them. which leads me to believe he is not being totally honest with you whith something and or you didn’t ask what is making him so furious in the first. Also, He may likes the idea of it, but in reality can’t handle it. You two need to actually have a very real conversation on rules, pros and cons of it and not just the idea itself.