mandjneworleans

As we have said since the Slinger ads started, "Now swingers are main stream.

We have few rules, but one is, "No one takes one for the team". We also have a non-verbal signal between us that means we leave now, no questions asked.

We have a number of women that would say. "I have never been with a woman, but would love to. I could receive but can not return the favor". Sometimes she changes her mind, then or later.

We feel that the person/couple that invites the other(s) should be responsible for booking and paying for the room. The others should pay for any pre dinner/drinks or at least bring drinks to the room for the event. No $ changes hands and it all works.

We have been in the LS long enough to have met Judges, Elected Officials, Law Enforcement Officers, as well as leaders of business & industry. This includes Pastors and their wives that are so prim and proper elsewhere. All keep there swinging separate from their regular life. If you look at any congregation or business, you see many having multiple affairs. I used to date a woman that was fucking the Youth Minister of a major Baptist Church in her city. What we have to remember is that swingers are the only segment of society that do not cheat because we have permission.

Good topic. Wife & I have been together 21 years (married at Hedo in 2007). Although we have many vanilla friends, our closest friends are those we met in the LS. Do we still have sex with them?. Yes, but not as often as you might think. It is now a true friendship (still with benefits). We travel together and enjoy life.

I have gone through "key parties", "wife swapping", "swinging", and now "the lifestyle". Something will come next. They all have one thing in common, having sex with another person with your partner's permission. We prefer same room (we both love to watch), but separate is OK if that is what the other couple likes. It IS swinging.

You are much likely to be in trouble for hiding things rather that being open about legal things you do. I had a high security clearance while in the USAF in the late 60's. Guess where "key parties" started.

Him- Retired automobile dealer Her- Self employed Hairdresser