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About NC_Seniors

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    Swingers Board Addict
  • Birthday 12/20/1950

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    Married couple
  • Location
    Raleigh, NC
  • Interests
    His: sports, acoustic instruments/music. Hers: photography, knitting. Both: Broadway shows, live music, current movies, dining out, travel, wineries, getting together with family and friends, spending a quiet evening at home.
  • Occupation
    NA
  • Swinging Experience
    Since Thanksgiving, 2018. House parties, on-premise club, hotel takeover, soft swap, full swap.
  • Anniversary
    08/22/1998

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  • SLS Name
    NC_Seniors
  • Favorite Club(s)
    You Know Where (Fayetteville, NC)

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  1. I do it all the time … but it’s due to modern pharmaceuticals. I’m on a med named Silodosin to treat BPH (enlarging prostate). One of the possible side effects — and I have it — is called retrograde ejaculation. Rather than being ejaculated out, the semen runs back into the bladder and you just wind up getting rid of it when you pee. So unlike those men who wish they could hold it back, I actually wish I could still “shoot”.
  2. And if you’re not sure they’re clean … wash ‘em! ;-D
  3. *Most* people in the lifestyle use the term “soft swap” to mean exchanging partners for anything up to — but not including — intercourse. In other words, the farthest they go is oral, but they STILL swap. hunterdon’s suggestion is more often referred to as “same room sex”, “same bed sex”, or “parallel play”. It matters because if you hook up with a couple and tell them you’re into soft swap, they’re going to expect to play with you and your hubby … things are liable to get awkward when you *then* tell them — once the clothes have come off — that you just want to watch and be watched. So be absolutely clear on your limits and sure that you’re using the correct terminology. PS We’ve done it too and it IS hot!
  4. Slightly under 6” … maybe a little over 6” if *really* aroused. That said, I’ve never given being average a second thought. I’ve always operated on the basis that by the time a woman finds out what size I am, she’s ALREADY decided to have sex with me! ;-D
  5. We’ve had full swaps with half a dozen couples. We’ve both swapped and had sex with each other in large open playrooms. We’ve done same bed with one other couple. We’ve done a separate rooms swap. We’ve attended what can only be described as an orgy on a Bliss cruise. BUT! We’ve never a 3some of any kind, so now we’re considering trying an MFM. There seems to be (nearly) universal agreement around these parts that MFM is *fantastic* … both the men AND the women seem to love them. So are there any couples who tried MFM just once and decided to NOT do another one? If so, why did you come to that decision? We’ve read the glowing reviews … now we’d like to know the other side if there is one. Our thanks to all who reply.
  6. I’m not sexually attracted to other men even a little bit. I don’t want to make out with one and I *definitely* don’t want to engage in anal sex with one (in either “direction”). But I AM intellectually curious about what it’s like for a woman to give a man a blowjob. My wife has exchanged oral with another female on a couple of occasions, so she now knows what it is for a man to go down on a woman. Sometimes I think I’d like to have similar knowledge.
  7. Yeah, we *thought* there are good ones. Have to be … seen too many stories on here of how much some couples absolutely LOVE their MFMs! We know it’ll be somewhat of a slog, but in the end it’ll be worth the effort. Our swingers site account is on Ess Ell Ess (read it phonetically). We can search on our own there using the criteria you mentioned — plus those who are *paid* — but we’re not quiiiiite ready to do that yet. We unblocked our Profile to singles back in late October and we’ve heard from around 60 males. (NO females … go figure!) 50 or so are rejects for various reasons, but the other 10 are worth considering and 2-3 seem like gems. The absolute best of the lot, judging from his introductory message and profile, lives two hours from here … we likely wouldn’t have searched that far away. But it’s in a NC coastal city that we love to visit anyway, so it wouldn’t be a huge burden to pay him a visit even if we don’t click. We’d still have a nice dinner and drinks, and get to spend another weekend in a place we enjoy … WIN WIN!
  8. Yet more… heard from a single — allegedly — male whose profile is woefully lacking any meaningful content, has no pictures, and says he likes “daytime meetings during the week.” We’re pretty sure this one is a no-go! ;-D
  9. We’ve never done one of these but started talking about it several months ago. At that time, just to see *if* there’d be any interest in us, we unblocked our SLS Profile for single males. We’ve now heard from more than 50! They’ve been weeded down to maybe half a dozen prospects that we’d consider IF we decide to do this at all. (The jury is still out on that.) Today, one of those half dozen, who’s been corresponding with us off and on since a week before Christmas with a single’s Profile, revealed that he’s got a wife who “has no interest in anything sexual anymore”. WTF? Now we don’t know whether to just blow this guy off (figuratively speaking) due to his complete lack of transparency or — if we decide he’s otherwise the first choice — call him out by requiring him to bring her to our first face-to-face. So! If you’ve ever had this happen, how did you deal with it? If you *haven’t* had it happen, how do you think you *would* deal with it? Thank you to all who take the time to reply.
  10. I knew a guy in college who liked to play John Philip Sousa marching music … he said it helped him keep his rhythm! ;-D
  11. bbarnsworth already said it … “Count your blessings”. And understand that some fantasies NEVER get fulfilled.
  12. Rohit — What if your wife *wanted* to fuck other men but you were completely against it … would you want her on this board asking for advice on how to convince you to let her do it anyway? TeamCalgary is right … quit while you’re still ahead!
  13. It’s f***ed up again … this is NOT what we all pay for!!! 🤬
  14. bbarn — MANY thanks … really helpful! 🙂
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