MrandMrsA

Our friend is an infectious disease control nurse working for a large government agency. Last weekend we celebrated her birthday with dinner at a restaurant, dancing in a crowded club and to finish up - an orgy. When asked if she was concerned about Corona virus - she laughed and said that other than those with compromised immune systems, we should worry more about the regular flu and that this is just media hype. We are signed up for a house party in mid April, we won't pay until the day before as to make a decision to attend pending spread of CV. We are not curtailing an other activities, LS or vanilla.

An easy variation on the '70's key lock parties I've heard so much about.

Go in with rules AND boundaries. Rules are non-negotiable during play. If you have a rule to not fuck another woman, then you don't change that no matter how much you both want it that night. Boundaries can be renegotiated during play and give flexibility to push comfort levels. Maybe a boundary is no kissing, but if you click with someone you both like you can renegotiate. This will help her feel safe knowing what you won't do, but leaving some flexibility and excitement for what is possible! "Never leave regretting what you did, leave regretting what you did not do!" It's easier to fix the later than it is to fix the former.

We were monogamous for 30 years. Then stumbled across the show "Playboy Swing." It was a simultaneous interest after that.

Thought I would circle back around to this one. Through a trusted, but indirect source, someone that endorses this event publicly refers to George as an "asshole." And, claims that the filtering is largely done based on income/wealth. $600/couple for dinner only $1200 dinner and a room $1900 dinner and a suite.

Actually, unicorns, like anything else are easy to find - you just have to know where to look. We found three in the first month of our LS journey. Unfortunately, if I give up our secret, I give up our identity.

I wouldn't sell it, but I'd certainly take an IOU!

It's not so much about quantity of a single type of love as it is about a wider spectrum of type of love.

An ill fitting condom. Speaking from experience.

@SjBlueBirds Come back!!! Or, maybe we should go back there as one of us is from a metro great lakes City and the other rural.

We are early 50's. Males youngest - just turned 30, females youngest _ 40. Makes oldest - about 50'ish, females oldest - 62. We'll both agree that the youngest was not the best!

What does it mean for a marriage to "fail". One year, 5, 10, 25? What if both parties find greater happiness through what they learned in their first marriages? I need a definition! :lol:

There have been times when we are at parties, saw a couple and thought, "no way"! But, since we're at a party we get to spend considerable time talking to them and getting to know them. Then, they become attractive to us and we play. For this reason, we don't turn down offers online to meet up. If things work out great - if not, oh well - move on. Also, my personal definition of sexy and attractive has changed since entering the LS. I've now had sex with women I would not have looked at pre LS. Same for the wife.

I whole heartedly disagree! A lot of info can be gleaned from a phone number. We have only given out our number twice. Once, on a second play date when the guy lost his phone with our pictures on it. Second, to our now dear friends, only after we had been to each other's home, and met each other's families. A VERY high level of trust.

I'm truly curious why people (especially those with such wisdom like you padoc) Feel the need to engage with those you deem trolls. Is there some inate need for confrontation? If threads like this ended at post #1, trolls would rapidly become extinct.