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About 1st3way4fun

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  • Birthday 04/27/1971

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    Morton, IL n
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  1. I'm only 48, so I haven't had any issues with libido or stamina yet. My wife is 47 and premenopausal, so her raging hormones are quite a joy to deal with.
  2. Plan b only works if you know there's been an accident. Condoms aren't always effective. Two of our kids are condom babies. When we were using condoms, we never had any indication of a malfunction. Removed them immediately after ejaculation....no evidence of leaking, breaking, etc. Unless my wife was fixed, or on secondary birth control, I wouldn't trust condoms only. Unless by plan b you mean abortion after the discovery of pregnancy.
  3. While I've never tried this with another couple, I love to edge my wife. Being a person who loves foreplay, I like to spend 45 minutes to an hour just teasing the crap out of her. Erotic massage is definitely my preferred choice. I like to bring her to the edge at least five times. Seven is about her limit before she gets to frustrated. I alternate between a slow, sensual massage and lightly trailing fingertips across her body...getting as close to her sensitive areas (nipples, clit, opening) as possible without actually touching them. That drives her crazy. After 25 minutes or so of that, I'll progress to full contact with those areas.. caressing, stroking, tugging... then slowly insert a finger halfway...curling my finger upwards, applying pressure to her g-spot and just holding it there, while continuing to caress, massage, kiss her breasts. You really have to know your partner and be able to read their body. I have occasionally pushed her over the edge before I was ready. Oops...oh well...guess we have to start over...lol
  4. I haven't, but I knew a couple of guys that did with a local girl. She, by the way, actually preferred the term midget. She said her best friend was 4'10" and therefore a little person, but not a midget. Guess the terminology depends on the person. Anyway, the two guys that had a 3way with her said the sex was pretty much the same as anyone else as far as intercourse was concerned. They did say that being a compact person made her extremely heavy and harder to maneuver. They also had some issues with positions other than missionary.
  5. I've been mulling over a similar question. Our 28th anniversary is coming up in February, and I'm planning a trip to Nashville for the wifey. I'd like to visit the club they have, but I'm not sure an anniversary weekend would be appropriate? She hasn't no, but sometimes she won't if she thinks I really want to do something. I kinda feel like an anniversary should just be a special time for two, but then again, it would be our first club visit, so what's more intimately charging than that?
  6. From what I've read, anal sex will not cause hemorrhoids, but can aggravate them if you have a history of problems with them.
  7. My wife named him Mr. Happy, so that's what I've been stuck with for the last 27yrs. Lol
  8. Mfm is my only attraction. I honestly don't think I could do full swap, because I would be too distracted the entire time. That wouldn't be fair to the other lady. My wife is the absolute center of my attention. I absolutely love to pleasure my wife. Watching her body move, hearing her breathing quicken...slow...quicken again. Her little gasps...moans...drive me absolutely wild. Being able to double that pleasure for her is beyond any description I could write.
  9. The very 1st thing I notice about a woman is her eyes. Not the color, but whether or not they shine, or sparkle, or whatever the proper word would be. Do they light up? The 2nd thing, oddly enough, would be her hair. I find long hair very attractive. Soft, curly, and long.
  10. Thank you for the replies! The wife and I are planning a long weekend in Nashville next February. Just looking for some place to check out. The dancing sounds great, but the limitations on single guys sounds even better. I'm not put off by the thought of singles, but I've heard others complain they can be a bit overwhelming to the wives in certain clubs. Of course, I've also heard complaints the other way, that they just sit there as if they don't understand why they're there. Lol I suppose it depends on the venue. Seeing as how it would be my wife's first visit to a club, I want it to be a clean, comfortable experience. I would really like to experience Trapeze, but Atlanta is a bit of a drive for just the weekend.
  11. My first reaction was "wow!", but that's not a decisive response at all. Upon a 2nd, closer look, I'd vote Velma.
  12. This is one of my wife's (a Baptist preacher's daughter) biggest hangups on bringing a 3rd into the bedroom for a MFM. I'm okay with it based on the following. I read a post from a Focus on the Family leader in which questions had been asked regarding what's scripturally acceptable between a husband and wife in the bedroom. The counselor laid out the following guidelines for Christians. If it's done out of love for the pleasure of the wife/couple then it's really nobody else's business. Toys, oral, maturation, etc. are all okay, as long as everything is mutually consensual and within the boundaries of a marriage between a husband and wife. Where I disagree with them, and my wife's concern, comes from the adultery aspect. BUT...in the same thread they scripturally define adultery as sexual immortality, which they define as any activity OUTSIDE the boundaries of the marriage. By that logic, as long as it's within the boundaries of your marriage, is it still adultery/sexual immorality? I argue that it's not, because it's within the boundaries of a marriage. They're okay with your wife having sex with the molded likeness of a real man, but not the actual penis of the very same man? That's not a logical thought...at all. So, I don't, maybe I'm right...maybe I'm wrong. All I know is that I absolutely love pleasuring my wife, and would love to attempt to double that pleasure for her. If I'm wrong, then I'm willing to answer for that. It's already a pretty long list, so what's one more? Lol
  13. Pretty much in the same place. We've explored the idea through the use of toys, and have found that she really, really enjoys the physical feeling of two at once, which is obviously different than an actual human being. That leaves her with the mental hurdle, which can be quite a hurdle for the woman who has been the "good girl" her entire life. Thank you for the reply!
  14. My wife is curious and excited, yet apprehensive about another man joining us. We're high school sweethearts, who have been married for 27yrs. As such, I'm the only man she's been with. Does anyone have any advice for her as to how to break the ice, so to speak. Visiting a swingers club is the most common advice we've heard so far. Anything would be greatly appreciated.
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