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MrYaWanna

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About MrYaWanna

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    Has Left the Building
  • Birthday 05/01/1957

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    Couple
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    Ontario
  • Occupation
    Being the Best Husband!
  1. As a man who started out as a single guy and found that elusive single swinging female I was all excited when I started to read this post. I though ah ha! Something I can respond to. lol Now that I have read all the posts I see it's all been said. Buddy (that's a term of affection?? here, not looking to piss you off) relax. You want to swing? Read the posts above. Single gals who do this right don't need a single guy. Forget finding the mystical, magic, rare single gal. Enjoy your life, enjoy the lifestyle and what it has to offer (again, read the above posts!). If it happens it does. If your goal in the lifestyle is to find a wife you'll be disappointed. Easy for me to say eh? She consented to marry me!
  2. When I was a single guy I had fun with couples being the 2nd guy(stunt cock). The best solution to your husband's worries about touching the other man is, as always in swinging, communication. One couple made it very clear they did not want that so I made sure it didn't happen. Other couples wanted something inbetween right up to some MM stuff. Personally once everyone is naked and playing I don't worry about it. Sex is Sex and as long as everyone knows the limits of the others we can all have fun. So in your case just talk about it with the prospective stunt cock. As others have said, swinging is always less complicated if you keep it out of family and friends. Not that it can't be done, just simpler. Have fun!!
  3. Ok, now we've heard from the men as to why they swing. Ladies, why do you swing?
  4. I'll go out on a limb here...Men swing for the same reason we don't get Mad Cow Disease....we're all pigs lol Men love sex. Most of us are raised to think we are perverts because we think about banging every skirt we see. We could never imagine that a woman would think the same thing. I was amazed to discover that some women think the same way we do. OMG...can it be true...so of course we have to watch...smart men listen too. There must be something wrong here. We all know that if it seems too good to be true it must not be true. But there she is, the woman we love, going wild in a sexual way, completely lost in the heat of the moment. No film trickery, no mirrors, ok, maybe some mirrors, but they are not there to fool us. Men love sex, we are raised to assume women "put up" with sex. Poor bastards that are married to those girls Lo and behold, women, at least our women, love sex too and they are secure, free, confident enough to show it. I Love my girl, she loves me. We are more honest with each other then anyone I know. What was the question again? I'm all gushy now. Oh yes, Men swing because we want to and we can. Lucky men swing because they've found that perfect woman!
  5. Some time ago YaWanna and I got invited to an on-premise club here, a rare thing! So we thought Hell Ya!! Gotta go there!! Well! We walk into the place and it was set up with washrooms in the centre, bar on one side and orgy room on the other. So we stroll in, get the layout of the place and have a drink. Then we decide to check out the other side! In we go to the orgy room and we both stopped dead (I'm sure our mouths were wide open and our eyes popped out). We stood still for a few moments, looked around. Then we looked at each other and knew we were both thinking the same thing - Let's get out of here! lol What a surprise to us, we never expected that reaction. We had one more drink and bolted from the place, never been back and it's closed now. I think anytime you try something new there's a mix of excitment and fear. If you over think it beforehand that could doom your experience or as we found out, if you don't think about it you may get a surprise! Now we know if it's something new, have no expectations. Go, check it out and leave. That way we can talk about it later and see what we liked or didn't like. Have fun!!
  6. That's exactly how I think about YaWanna. How lucky can a guy get?? Thanks Ladies
  7. Wow!! Sorry, no raincoat no playing with my spouse!! I would never think to swing without a condom. Can't be done. We all have enough to worry about without adding that to the list. You can quote all the statistics you want, good or bad. They are just numbers. Maybe we are anal. We just don't do it! Creampies? Love em. But only with my Baby
  8. I'm surprised to see all the posts with complications, minor and not so minor. I was fortunate to have a trouble free procedure with minimal pain and absolutely no long term effects at all. The only thing I had to do was go back 4 times before my sperm count went to zero. Apparently I had a lot of the boys hiding out hoping to survive! The Doc could not believe it. Anyhow it finally stopped and away I went. I would definitely recommend it. The ladies have to go through enough grief in this department. I figured it was the least I could do and I already had enough kids for one lifetime
  9. 500 ! Am I having fun or what!! And Mrs got 600, guess I am going to have more fun along the way!!
  10. How does a man know how to use it? It being his sexuality and his body in this response. I've always thought and since learned, that you have to look and listen. A woman will tell you by the way she moves what she wants and whether you are doing the right thing. As other posters have said, think of what you do. If a woman is almost touching you in the right spot what do you do? You move yourself so she is touching the right spot. Women are no different. Some women are vocal, work with that. You'll know when you are doing the right thing. That and variety. Don't just sit there, if she stops moving or making noise move on. Again, would you like it if a woman did the same thing forever? Of course you'll also know when not to move on. There is that magic time when you know she's headed over the top and unless you are teasing and prolonging things stay put. For me it's all about pleasing my partner. If that works I'm a happy boy
  11. Deal busters! I like that term. Thanks wrnakedru. Most ad services offer the categories of likes and dislikes but I like the term "Deal Busters" Perfect! I've never thought of it that way. I think the next time we re-write an ad we'll include that. Given that we are an open and playful couple that are open to most anything with the right couple, I think we'll put in the "Deal Busters" section "Couples who's "Deal Busters" section contains more words then their "Likes" section! Back on topic tho, Male bi-sexuality is such a touchy subject for some narrow minded people I can see why couples don't mention it. As long as they are honest when asked, no harm, no foul.
  12. If I have to choose, Intercourse is it. Given that this is a silly kind of poll I'll assume that if I choose this one we'll be able to do it till I die, no matter how old we get!! Plus it's a team sport!
  13. I hated to pick just one, but I had to so I went with Red!! I love all Lin..Grrr..Eeee...specially when it's coming off. Nothing beats garters, nylons and high heels....mmmm...watch her Strut!!!
  14. Ok, before you ladies take this into some private girls only area I better get my 2 cents in. Sounds to me like you should design and patent a Winky gauge. You could create a society of professionals, make women take training and pass a test to receive the approved gauge, have a secret handshake, perhaps even a ring or charm to signify to the world that you are indeed a qualified Winky measurer. I wonder if you could get it CSA or ASA approved? lol Hell, it could spin off into a maintenance and certification business. I can see it now, painted on the sides of service vans racing about the country. OH, and a Charter, Mission Statement, conferences, news letters, window decals, advertising, the whole nine yards. Years from now there would be a “History of the Winky Gauge” coffee table book, featuring your pictures and biographies. Old grainy pictures of the first gauge, the lovingly hand crafted table model, right up to the new portable laser model!! Who wants to be the founding President? Oh, and Happy New Year Everyone!!
  15. Ok, so there is only one rule commonly agreed to in swinging: Everyone makes up their own rules. In other activities we participate in there are parameters we have to follow otherwise we get fired, black balled, ostracized or asked to turn in our key. In swinging we do whatever we want to anyone anytime. You could have a rule to agree to someone else's rules just to get laid and you can still say you are a swinger. So anyone can call themselves a swinger, as long as they have their own rules. No wonder there is lots of confusion in this lifestyle!
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