We enjoy MFM and have had several positive experiences all of them at clubs.My wife does sometimes find it a little intimidating during the first few minutes and thinks she would like to try starting out in the room alone with the second guy.She finds it a little intimidating initially. Her thought is she would be more relaxed if she could start out one on one with him and then have me walk in while she is already into it. I don't disagree with her there is always a little stress initially for all participants. My question is has anyone tried this if so what was your experience was it the same better or did it kill the mood?