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Manwhore1985

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About Manwhore1985

  • Rank
    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 07/23/1985

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    Couple male/female
  • Location
    West Virginia
  • Anniversary
    xx/xx/xxxx

Swinger Info

  • SLS Name
    Bbwanbbcstud
  • Favorite Club(s)
    Scouts
  1. As for finding unicorns... The best way I've found is the wife's friends and acquaintances. Our "pet" is the same girl that she had her first lesbian experience with right b4 we met. I was my wife's first (male) lover. So it's kind of cool we share her firsts. If you start hanging at clubs, you can find cuckold types, but they are usually 50+ or the occasional older woman-young man couple. If you are exotic(handsome,beefy, hung, black, latin, young, etc), you may get a not-so-voluntary cuckold's wife(A wife who bullied her less attractive husband into swinging without a full swap only rule). These wives tend to be the ones between 30-45 and very attractive. But i wouldn't advise you to play with a couple who is like that. It's kind of taking advantage of a bad situation/relationship. And it takes advanced skills to navigate without stirring drama. As for sharing husband or sharing wife... You don't know how you'll respond until you do it. As the man, the first time we full swapped... I couldn't get it up, was embarrassing..while he banged the shit out of my wife. He told me it was normal and i thought he was just being polite. We popped a couple's cherry over a year later, and he had a hard time keeping it up. So it's actually pretty common. The husband sharing... There will be sounds and actions she may find too intimate(like kissing with some) she will not know upsets her until she sees it. Same the opposite on that too. Also if you seem to be enjoying it wayyy more than your last few rumps with her. Alot of women don't get the extra excitement of strange for a guy. You may have to police your expressiveness as to not set off your wife. But you won't know these things until you do them.
  2. Well, FIT is honestly some muscle tone, i think... As in works out regularly and it shows. HWP means in literal terms... You waist should be around half your height or less. That is what is considered ideal, regardless of size/muscles/weight. And all girls(unless they have a weird type like emo or bear shaped) like muscle... The amount varies and the style varies. Some like country boy big(mix of fat and big muscles), some like sinewy/sleak, some like athlete style. When i got a little hefty, I've been blatantly groped a few times, one time with the her husband right there at a parade. She hit my arm laughing, felt a hint through my jacket, and reached blatantly back for a squeeze. Don't let any woman tell you otherwise. Its like saying most men prefer bbw over sports illustrated swimsuits model... People say things to be polite. Sometimes ppl may be okay with the fat girl, stick figure or fat guy, but doesn't mean they wouldn't like find some muscle tone more exciting. I've never seen a girl swoon over a actor that wasn't at least a little tone or on the cover of a magazine as, hottest man alive. As a man you may have luck being fat or a stick figure, but a nice body type will multiply your success. Plus who a person sticks it out with is more about compatibility and feelings than looks, but not necessarily physical preferences as much.
  3. That bad encounter sounds like a cuck/hotwife type possibly... And you had bad luck to have them as your first. Or could also be the guy feels awkward and too distracted while his wife is having sex with someone else to get it up. It's quite common, and it happened to me the first time we swapped. I never got up. And when we had a virgin swing couple later, it happened to him. Just like your concerns he might like someone else better, guys have the same concerns. Depending on the emotional security of those involved... I've met some couples that usually only do separate rooms bc she can't handle seeing him so enthusiastic about strange, or he can't handle her enjoying someone else that much. I also wonder if your hubby gives off strong possessive vibes when you are chatting. Guys pick up on that, and they could be being just cordial because he gives off that vibe he doesn't really want to share you, and is just allowing to be fair. Or... You have what they jokingly call "resting bitch face" which means smile more to break it when someone makes eye contact. This makes you seem more approachable. This advice also applies if you are so shy and unconfident you never make eye contact... And if you are a floor stare type. Make eye contact. Check them out blatantly... Look at them like you would when they aren't looking at you without hiding it. Or you are coming off more interested in what your husband is doing than your partner... Huge turn off.
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