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NotnewNotpros

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About NotnewNotpros

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  • Birthday 01/13/1972

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  • Relationship Status
    Couple m/f
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    Wisconsin
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  1. We were really clicking with a couple. It was going great. Taking our time. Really getting to know them. Taking the sex part slowly. We decide to have an over night away. We didn’t care if it didn’t go fully to sex...and the wife freaked out. Can’t do. Can’t be open etc..:so had a decent rest of the weekend and such and of course we respect that but I’m getting so tired of putting in time and effort. We had a wonderful poly thing for two years two years ago and we’d love to find it again and I understand you can’t force anything and such but to keep meeting people and putting in time and effort for it to end is getting defeating.
  2. Exactly. We aren’t wanting quick hooks ups. So it’s a harder thing to find as a couple so I appreciate the advice on how to seek like minded people.
  3. Like minded people tend to seek out other like minded people. Hence this forum. New moms seek out moms groups. Adoptive parents seek out diversity groups. Soccer players seek out soccer groups. Yes all these people exsist in the world but forums and other social groups are a great way to meet and connect with like minded people. I don’t see it as an odd request.
  4. Curious how you find swinger couples more open to poly? What sites? Pages? Etc?? Thank you!
  5. I would like that. I’m not sure if they are comfy meeting alone yet. Just looking to talk or connect more... The flow of chatting just isn’t there for me.
  6. The other couple at this time doesn’t want to “date” unless it’s at least 3 of us. I hopeful it will open up more in the future. That would be really helpful on the connection.
  7. As a couple we are somewhere in between swinging and poly. I don’t need full on love but enjoy the playfulness of the “crush” and boyfriend/girlfriend crush feelings. We are slowly proceeding with this with a new couple. Who is also new to the LS. We’ve been there in the past and really enjoyed this type of thing. My “issue” is that the female is very playful and chatty. But her and my husband talk more sexy and more often than she and I do. It doesn’t make me jealous at all, I just would love it too!! The male half is great in person but the chatting and flirting has really slowed down since we’ve played a few times. He seems to be cautious when it comes to sexting. So much fun for my husband and I feel like a little blah...bland. I just want a little more fun and excitement (chat wise) considering we aren’t able to see each other often. She and I can hang out but they want to stick to the “rule of 3” for now. So it’s hard to get to know him more without having some alone time and minimal (slightly bland) chat. We really like them and it’s been a long time since we’ve found such good 4 way chemistry. Any advice? And how often do you chat and what is your expectations?
  8. I am so sorry. I don’t have any advice! Just sorry for you. We had a couple for two years and it was devastating for me when it ended so I can only imagine what 17yrs feels like. I hope you find some peace...
  9. I would say I could be poly. I think husband would say poly-ish. He likes the connections and crush type feelings but doesn’t want it to be any further than that. I think with the right couple I could take it to the next level.
  10. I guess so...not in a gossipy way but I enjoy knowing what people are in it for, what are you looking for... example. Married/single, looking for long term fwb or just play for tonight etc... Just easier to proceed maybe?
  11. My husband and I are ok with the crushy type feelings. We just don’t want to cross over into full blown let’s all live togther or leave people for people love. We have our family and kids. We are secure and happy. Our preference is a couple and it’s what we had for few years. We all had crush and genuine caring feelings but not full true love. We welcome the crushy feelings. It’s so fun!
  12. We are open to it. I think it would have to be with a couple. Not one of us finding a person and then the other finding a person. I don’t know that I need or want full Poly. But a caring loving friendship with a couple is very desired.
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