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3sumcouple

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About 3sumcouple

  • Rank
    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 12/05/1956

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    couple
  • Location
    Tampa Bay FL
  • Swinging Experience
    We met in the lifestyle over 15 years ago, she was a unicorn and he was a super lucky guy:-)
  • Anniversary
    xx/xx/xxxx
  1. No we get approached by just the hubby on the DL, so many times we cannot count, and quite often we have found out afterwards
  2. Double BJs are "the best" when all involved are into it, no matter what each individual's role is, to say one sex is better than another at a given technique is just an absurd statement, sex is situational and the dynamic of all those involved it what produces the results, kismet just happens and while memories trigger people to try and repeat a "mix" the rarity of an "awesome mix" often cannot be duplicated even with the same participants. Hitting the high notes, just happens when it happens. PS if we had a dollar for every closet bi hubby that has approached us in the lifestyle on the DL, that BMW M4 coupe in Yas Marina Blue might be a possibility for us.
  3. When we have shared oral it has more often than not been covered, the taste of the condom is super easy to get used to, please try to not use spermicide condoms and sometimes you have to actually read the package to see if they have it added, lol. One important word of advice is do not ever let go of the base of the condom while deep throating that is a recipe for disaster. You will find that a lubed will condom make deep throating much much easier and no worries about CIM if that is not your thing. We both prefer "pearl necklaces" and the condom has never been a problem for that. She can pop the condom in her mouth and put it on with the 1st full shaft suck and stroke and many guys are surprised they didnt notice it sooner than they do.
  4. We met in the lifestyle 18 years ago and married 6 months after our 1st date. We are an exhibitionist couple who enjoy soft swap and always thought of ourselves as being picky. We like spontaneity and anon encounters and rarely share penetration at all and never bareback, we have covered oral probably half the time we have played, mostly when it was anon/dogging/GH. Now we have found ourselves to be "gifted" with both HSV2 and HPV. She has HSV2 symptoms and is now on Valtrex and he has HPV symptoms now removed twice in 6 months. Our primary care Dr is an osteopath who tells us that 60-80% of the population have these viral diseases. We have not played since he "broke out" last Nov, her 1st episode was just after New Years and we are like FUK! The Dr said incubation times are completely variable depending on the person, their stress and hormone levels, etc. After her 3rd outbreak she started "suppression therapy" and has not had one since. He has had bumps burned off twice now and the Dermatologist said its unlikely to return again. We miss going to pervy venues to Exib and play and at some point its gonna happen in a vanilla place. Covered oral is fine with both of us, is that enough of a "sign" or does the consensus feel we should disclose. If we did disclose, then what do you do if they think "nothing" of it? lol It is a serious question and this seems like a good venue. Please let us know. Namaste'
  5. No reason not to apply the term "candaulist" to either men or women, even though it is typically used to describe a husband/bf who is not cuckold but prefers to see his spouse/gf exposed and or playing with others.
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