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LnM7677

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LnM7677 last won the day on May 21 2018

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About LnM7677

  • Rank
    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 11/03/1977

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Northwest Suburbs, IL
  • Anniversary
    08/2010

Swinger Info

  • SLS Name
    LnM7677
  1. Thank you for your responses, they are very helpful. We should have said something about same room but didn't. So yes, our first swap was separate but the good thing is that it did not damage my husband's and my relationship. From now on we are only same room until we feel comfortable enough with a couple. Mistakes are made in life and you learn from them whenever you can.
  2. So my husband and I met a couple which we ended up playing with. First time was just a soft swap same room, second time was separate rooms and my husband ended up having intercourse but the man I was with wasn't able to perform. There were things that did turn me off that the other man was doing and saying. I didn't want to hurt his feelings so I didn't tell him that it was a turn off during or after. We are extremely new to the LS and they were the second couple that we soft played with but the first swap we have had. (Since this was our first time swapping, separate should not have happened.) How do we respectfully decline anymore play time?
  3. My husband and I newbies to the lifestyle in which we have came across the same scenario. One of the couples we have met I'm not really attracted to the male but he is a great conversationalist which has changed my outlook on him. Different people, different sex styles, different body styles, different experiences and possibly new friends; in my opinion is what the LS is all about. Not comparing someone's physical appearance to my partner/spouse, that is sending a red flag that you may be looking for a replacement of your boyfriend and not just a sex partner. The other red flag is that you have NOT talked with your boyfriend about your thoughts and feelings - this is the worst thing to do in any relationship - complete honesty and communication are the key in ALL relationships, need it be friends, lovers or family. My advice is: yes you may be picky but it seems that you need to look within your current relationship before you decide to move forward with the LS.
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