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Minos

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About Minos

  • Rank
    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 06/22/1980

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Woking
  • Swinging Experience
    New, looking for our first experience
  • Anniversary
    xx/xx/xxxx
  1. Hi Judy39 Thanks for the reply. Will look through the photos and see if we can get some new ones taken over Christmas. We do have some on the more erotic but at the moment thats a little bit more for our private collection. We have a profiles on Abfabencounters, Fabswingers, and feeld app.
  2. Hi I apologize now if this turns into a bit of a war and peace, its going to be a little bit of an introduction and asking for advice. I've been with my current partner for 8 months now and we have both expressed an interest in swinging. Up until meeting her I'd never really thought about swinging, yes like most men I'd fantasied about threesomes (MFM & FMF) but generally written it off as that just a fantasy. Before we got together we chatted online for about a month before having our first date, which was great as we really got to know each other really well (including our desires & fantasies) so when we met-up there was no awkwardness. Well during this time we talked about everything and she mentioned that she had had a threesome with one of her friends (and friends partner), and had been to a local sex club with someone she was seeing. I think I'm pretty open minded and this intrigued me so I asked for more details, end result was us both saying we would like to go to some clubs together. During other conversations we talking about threesomes, and group sex which led to swinging, all of which we have said we would like to try. Our only rules are "always same room" and "both have to agree on anything before it happens". Since then we have joined a few message boards looking at advice but never really posting anything. We also joined a few dating apps which appear to be geared for swinging, but have never really had much luck. The few times we have been contacted it seemed all they wanted was some photos or a hook-up there and then. We have both said that for us we need there to be a connection with the person/couple for anything to happen (not just a "wham bam thank you madam"). Here is part of the problem, neither of us are what I would call 'Gym-fit' and carry a few extra pounds around the middle but we aren't obese, but because of this we are both a little self conscious of what we look like in photos. The other problem being she works in a school and could be recognized by her face or a couple of her tattoos. Is there anything you can recommend regarding the photos? Is there something we could say/done in our profiles that will help? Is it better to start out going to a club and are certain nights better for newbies?
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