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Isidore

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About Isidore

  • Rank
    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 09/08/1986

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  • Relationship Status
    Single Female
  • Location
    Boston
  • Anniversary
    xx/xx/xxxx
  1. I find I have no preference as to women's hair. I do, however, find people who are repulsed by pubic hair unattractive. There is something intensely off-putting about those who prefer to sterilize sex. Maybe it's my European origins, but I like things more real. As for men, it is a HUGE turn-off when anything (chest, legs, and certainly pubes) is shaved. Light trimming is OK, but anything more than that, and I feel like I am fucking a woman.
  2. Hi everyone. I am a happily married woman in my early 30s. I have always been sexually adventuress, very kinky, and open to various forms of non-monogamy. Over the past year, I have been thinking of swinging, and have finally decided to take the next step. My husband is supportive, but has no interest in participating for now, so I'll be broaching the lifestyle on my own. That brings me to my question - what are some strategies to navigating safety/comfort in this environment? I have started a profile on SLS, and found myself somewhat put-off by the response. Many people are very aggressive, won't take no for an answer (I have to refuse an average of 2 times per person), and want to meet immediately. As a single female, I don't feel comfortable meeting with a complete stranger (especially single men) right away. Is that expected/ normal for this community? I need to get somewhat of a feel for the person before I know whether I want to meet with them, not to mention whether I feel comfortable doing so. It feels like there is a lot of pressure to act quickly. I have considered swinging clubs as a possible starting point (I am in the Boston area), but I fear that I will not feel comfortable on my own with everyone else being coupled. How common are single females in such settings? Do any of you single females out there have any advice/perspective on what it is like to visit clubs on your own? Is brining another female friend (as a non-partner) common?
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