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VirginiaLuv last won the day on May 28 2017

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About VirginiaLuv

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  • Birthday 02/01/1975

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    Married Couple
  • Location
    Seneca SC
  • Swinging Experience
    3 years
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    shemakesthecall

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  1. Good advice! We were told by 1 awesome couple "Do what YOU want to do!".... So simple, but so effective. ....
  2. All good stuff. We laugh about all this stuff now. It's an adventure. ... Lol
  3. I hate that lots are having the same results but feel the same way. We too find humor in some messages we get. We also turned it in to a "game" or fun to see who is real. We are both in a better place mentally from where we were. We laugh going to a date and say "Bet we say the "bail, bail, bail" code word in 1 hour or less. Ha ha. We are back to enjoying this. Thanks for all the replies so far.
  4. Well, we decided to get back in the saddle. Life is good. Thanks for all the good advice!
  5. Thank you for the nice words and encouragement. We did have a rough start but met a very nice couple. We still hang out and chat with them. It just got too consuming and frustrating trying to meet new folks. We actually put 1 pic back on SLS this weekend. We are going to approach replies and conversation differently now. Thanks to everyone for helpful replies.
  6. Yes, we are spending time on the lake and riding motorcycles in the mountains. We will come back with a fresh outlook. Thanks for the nice input.
  7. We did need time and space from the LS. If we turn the SLS, SDC,.or dirty Facebook back on, we will probably not view them as a means to meet new folks but as a means to communicate with folks we have already met. The club, party, bar seems like a better choice and skip all the "messages to get to know each other". We are not "quitters" but we definitely needed to take a step back and evaluate our methods and time spent versus benefits. It was too frustrating to continue on its path. We are going on a date at the end of the month, just us. We have decided to just "go with it". We may just go dancing, or the Topless bar, or even pop in at a party.... But, we are going on a date with each other and anything else is a bonus..... Thank you for the positive reply!
  8. This speaks volume. Maybe we should have found this forum 2 years ago. Very open and honest reply. Thank you. At least we know it wasn't just our experiences.
  9. Adam, thanks for the reply. You pretty much described us. We got tired of going through 100 guys to get 1-2. Ironically we got 10 women out of the same 100, we only played with couples. We have talked about it a good bit. We will be doing exactly what you said..... If we decide to attempt to meet someone, we will go to a LS party or the only LS bar we know of and see how that goes. Taking a break has given us time to decide how we want to move forward. Hope you have a great day.
  10. "towell" ?? Did you mean "towel" ? I reread our entire post. No judgment here. These are our experiences. This is what happened. Curious what you are implying about photos.... Either you are trying to say we are ugly and/or out of shape. Ha ha, you crack me up. You won't be seeing any pics of us. You are correct, we put it out there. You drew a conclusion. You drew the wrong conclusion, but you did draw one nonetheless. We still enjoyed the experience and will probably have a few FWB over our life span. Hope everyone has more good than bad experiences.
  11. You know nothing about us, our experiences, and deserve no reply.
  12. Absolutely! We are so glad we met a few folks and we nurture those relationships. Thank you.
  13. We had no idea. We do now. It has made us better and tougher. No regrets here.
  14. After using SDC, SLS, "Dirty Facebook", Kik, going on dates, and going to a Lifestyle party, we threw in the towel. We have a few friends we play with. After 2 years we are still blown away how difficult it seems to be to chat, meet, click. Hope others have better results than us. The good news is we really like each other and we can say we tried it and liked it. May try again in a few years. What we learned.... 1. Seems lots are looking to fill a void. 2. Lots of males dragging the wife along. 3. Tons of people want to do pic swap but nothing more. 4. Seems the wife intimidated at least half the couples. 5. People have magical cameras when taking pics of themselves or pics are 5 years old. 6. It seems to be a sport for most, which is fine, just tell people that. 7. Lots of couples are not married. That's fine, just tell people that. All in all, we enjoyed our experiences. We will take this knowledge and use it in the future.
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