Hi!!
We haven't been in the lifestyle too long. We went to a comedy club party as our first adventure. It was fun, but not a lot of personal interaction. We decided that a house party would be more low key. We were invited to a house party with 30 or more couples. I really enjoyed it. Although we haven't participated yet, I recommend it. It's much more laid back. You have to put yourself out there which was hard for me, but everyone was nice. There were some groups that wouldn't let you in to their groups. That was fine as I would want those type of people anyhow!! We've been back to the same house twice and will continue.