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DjRayder

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About DjRayder

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    Active Contributor
  • Birthday 09/19/1975

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    Single Male
  • Location
    Rio Grande Valley
  • Interests
    Reading mostly and weight lifting
  • Swinging Experience
    over 2 years
  • Anniversary
    xx/xx/xxxx

Swinger Info

  • SLS Name
    DjRayder
  • Favorite Club(s)
    I have been to The Studios in Vegas.

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  1. Yes as a courtesy especially those that are sincere and have read what you two wrote.There's many reasons why some couples don't reply being they found a couple already,change of mind or just plain ignorance.Remember there are many flakes in this lifestyle too.Those that are afraid to take the leap.
  2. From my two cents some people give hints to potential partners. If they get the joke or hint then they know a little bit of the lifestyle which shows interest and press a little more. And also some people give off that vibe as you stated.
  3. Yeah, just be prepared for the attention your wife is going to get. As kikonkrome stated if you want to have a long life in this lifestyle you need to also live a healthy lifestyle. Best bet is to contact other couples who are bbw if you really fear rejection. meet at a club and take it from there. But if your wife is thin as you say just be mindful that she might want to play with other men who are tens. So just keep that in the back of your mind. Someone just posted something about a similar subject not to long ago where she just played with tens and he would only get to play with girls that are bbw. Good luck man hope everything works out for you.
  4. @sassysassy on the main board there are plenty of links to people new to the lifestyle. Clubs, private parties and etiquette. If you have any other type of question please do a new post. Good luck.
  5. @couplers congratulations! What you guys have is what I consider the epitome of a poly relationship. You guys make it work with what I could tell is little to no hangups. I believe this is going to be more accepted in modern society having seen how when couples divorce they still live together.
  6. To be honest tell her but downplay it a bit so you get a chance to pair up again if you two had a great time with the person/couple.
  7. I've been to a hotel party and a house party which I had a great time but I guess due to my personality I have a great time anywhere. But a friend went to one and had a bad experience in a remote location. So, if you do plan on going let someone know that your good friends with where you are headed. Also if they have any contact info on any of the other couples just to see what their experience was like. Just my two cents man good luck and would like to hear any updates. Best of luck!
  8. Wow, Having been in the military myself I've seen this happen even with not open relationships. But, you really need to talk with him and give swinging/open relationship a break. You have a right to be angry since he kept breaking rules you two set already. Marriage counseling, couples retreat etc. whatever you need to repair the things you feel is broken. In open relationships there needs to be trust and right now you can't trust him. Good luck and I hope you find the answers what you're looking for.
  9. As a single male and going up in age I try to stay as healthy as possible. I don't drink or smoke and exercise regularly. So that doesn't happen to me. A woman I played with told me before that I was one of the few who actually got hard. I chuckled and thought this woman is hot how can any straight male not get hard,so its not just you and she is your wife and you want her to get pleased so it was in your right to call her over.
  10. I love this part! @Funinthesnow I'm glad you put this up.
  11. as njbm has said do what turns you on. Since you're a unicorn you can pretty much find anyone to give you the sex you crave. Again congrats!
  12. Yeah was thinking of the dehydration, thanks for the advice.
  13. I've tried Viagra and Cialis. I don't have ED but during swinging parties or sex in general I use them. Viagra I use for impromptu situations where you know you are going to have sex within an hour or so, after I came I recovered in five minutes. Draw backs are the headaches which I don't mind. Cialis works better but have to take it like a day before for the full affect. It works great had above average thickness, recovered quickly.
  14. well check out the unicorn hehe just teasing. Everyone is probably going to approach you so you are lucky enough to be picky. You'll probably be approached by the female of the couple. If you are going to play with the male too I suggest putting on the condom yourself or watch him put it on. Make sure you know the couple's rules before hand. Everyone has them even though some say they don't. Some women won't get involved and just like to see the husband enjoy another woman so make sure the wife is going to play too if that is what you want. And remember no means no so if something isn't right or not what you expected you can stop anytime. Best of luck and enjoy. And please give details on how it went.
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