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Davdia

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Davdia last won the day on November 8 2023

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  1. I think you’re an idiot if you don’t send your ex a copy of this entire thread! Then he’s an idiot for not seeing what he’s letting go. I also think you’re both idiots if you don’t fix your relationship. Everyone makes mistakes………not everyone learns from them, you clearly have. I sincerely hope you two find a way, remember it can be a long path back. Don’t give up
  2. I completely disagree, absolutely men can be sluts and it can be a huge turn off to a woman just the same as it can be a huge turn off to be with a woman who’s been around a little too much. It’s called a preference…..just like some woman won’t have sex with a huge cock or some men won’t be with large woman. I personally don’t want anything to do with a woman if she’s okay with doing more than two guys. It’s my personal choice, yes it eliminates some people but it also just my thing. I find woman who go from guy to guy in one night a huge turn off.
  3. One final thought, if you do decide to go through with this I would suggest you contact a male provider. I’m sure lots of people here won’t agree with me however, if you do use a prostitute, it has some benefits. First, he won’t likely have problems getting it up, so your wife will enjoy herself. Secondly , he’s not likely to have feelings for her, so there’s little chance of an affair. Thirdly, this will be truly a no strings attached situation, and other words if it goes south, you don’t ever have to look back at him again. Then, if you make it through this OK, and you’re both up for another adventure then it’s time to start looking for somebody more repeatable. I personally think one of the biggest mistakes is starting with someone that you both have ties to. Regardless of what some here will tell you, there are a lot of people on this site that are a lot more likely to have STDs than some of the prostitutes out there. If you’re not cheap, you can get a good reputable person with health documentation.
  4. Because you can’t unsee your spouse enjoying another man more than she does you. To her he will be new an exciting and you will see that. If you’re not ready, it can instantly destroy your marriage. You said you’re 25% on board and 75% not sure…………..you need to Run like hell! Would you gamble your wife on an any other wager that you have a 75% chance of losing her. If you can honestly say that you would be able to watch another man take care of your wife while you’re unable to get it up, you might be ok……this can and does happen. Most guys dream best case scenario and never imagine what can happen if it goes down wrong. This isn’t for everyone. Tread lightly
  5. If you haven’t fantasized about watching your wife having better sex than you can give her……..RUN
  6. For sure, completely different universes, you may see this as a strength, I however, sincerely hope that I never become happy with my wife seeing me is as just someone else. I also hope that I never become so complacent in a relationship of mine, that I don’t concern myself with my spouses feelings when deciding what sex act to save for her, or just give away to anybody. Yes we are definitely live differently.
  7. Led Zeppelin…….always good. Kashmir……the beat is incredible, best way to get things started.
  8. We prefer FFM, I’m straight and my wife is very bi and I love watching her play with other women. We are both in our late 50’s and are sexually active every day.
  9. I personally believe that there is a huge difference in not caring what your spouse is doing with others and her specifically saying she doesn’t want to do something sexually with you then doing it with someone else right in front of you without even an explanation? Again I’m not buying into the argument that this wouldn’t hurt your feelings or your relationship, I’m calling bullshit!
  10. Rape is never a positive experience, not reporting it is the very reason guys are not afraid to rape women in this lifestyle. Forget her experience, she has a responsibility to protect others from this kind of abuse. Would you witness a rape anywhere else and just walk away? By this logic women should not report rape, especially if they are planning to have sex and it gets out of hand. Maybe I’m just old fashioned.
  11. So you honestly wouldn’t have a problem with your wife making the decision to give someone else something you really wanted but she denies you?? Congratulations your in the one percentile, ridiculously commenting to the other 99 percent!
  12. Let’s say for the sake of argument your wife didn’t know that she was going to be anally penetrated. That’s way worse. Last I knew in all 50 states rape is illegal. Your wife said in advance anal sex was off the table, he went for it anyway…..I.e. rape. No wiggle room! Swinging doesn’t make rape any less illegal. So instead of doing anything about it, you and your group just kick him out of your play group??? So, curious how your group is going to feel when you find out that he anal rapes someone’s daughter or wife next. If someone rapes your wife you shouldn’t just shrug it off as though it’s expected if you want to swing. I hope this was a fake post.
  13. I hate to be always suspicious, unfortunately I’m usually right. I personally have anal sex occasionally with my wife, always plenty of foreplay and lots of lube. If I were to surprise her by sticking it in her ass unexpectedly, she would jump out of her skin and squeal like a little pig. Her ass not lubed up and ready …….it’s more than painful, it’s like being stabbed! Haven’t you ever seen a “oops wrong hole” video. Letting it happen right in front of you without so much as a noise………screams knew it was coming to me.
  14. I can’t even fathom my wife getting anal raped right in front of me………I would want to kill him and I would be so pissed at her for not speaking up, I’d probably leave her. Certainly I would never trust her in a sexual situation with others again. If your not blaming her for not speaking up then you shouldn’t blame him for doing it.
  15. Although I agree with the premise that going over the rules is crucial, I don’t think something that you refuse to do with your spouse would even be considered. If my wife refuses to do anal with me, I shouldn’t have to even bring up that it’s off the table for others.
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