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AR1547 last won the day on October 12 2013

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  • Birthday 10/02/1967

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  1. Club Princeton in Columbus Ohio changed their open play room policy because of YOU FUCKING PEOPLE!!!! The group play room used to be wide open, but then the problem of people walking in, fully clothed, and literally standing next to the beds where people were playing, while commenting on them, became such a problem that the club went to the Trapeze policy of only allowing people into the group room if they stripped down to towell or less, enforced by a security guard at the door, again, BECAUSE OF YOU FUCKING TOURIST ZOO WATCHERS!!!! YOIU FUCKING PEOPLE are the reason clubs have gone to that policy. YOU made it a "problem". That's why you have to deal with the Trapeze policy of having to undress to go into the play area. It keeps the riff raff out, and when I say "riff raff", I mean YOU FUCKING PEOPLE!!!
  2. I'm real sorry, but I feel the need to do this. I've been in the lifestyle for over 10 years. I know people. I know that I'm speaking for a lot of swingers when I say this. STAY THE FUCK OUT OF SWINGER CLUBS IF YOU ARENT A SWINGER AND HAVE NO INTENTION OF BECOMING ONE!!! There will be some new people, who want to be swingers, and are checking it out, and going slow. I will always be welcoming to them. Then there's YOU FUCKING PEOPLE!!!! Which is a totally different situation. Honestly, this is directed more toward the lurkers of this forum than the non-swinger people in this thread. My wife and I have been in the lifestyle for over 10 years. We've seen clubs destroyed by YOU FUCKING PEOPLE!!! We aren't monkeys in the fucking zoo! We aren't here for your fucking amusement! If you aren't swingers, and have no intention of becoming swingers, THEN STAY THE FUCK OUT@!!! You have no idea about the discretion required. You have no clue about the real life risks that so many people take to even be at a swinger club! It's great for the club owners, but it's terrible for the real swingers. Our local club has degenerated to the point that we don't even bother to go there on a Saturday night because we know it will be full of you fucking posers. SO, I just wanted to break up the fucking love fest, to let you fucking people know that when you're hanging out at the swinger club, you might run into someone like ME, and if you tell me why you're there, you'll get a fucking earfull on the spot, and there are a few people reading this forum who know me, and know that's how I roll, so it's not an empty threat. So fucking keep that in mind when you go to see the "freak show" of the local swingers for your own personal amusement. And since you obviously don't mind treating us like monkeys at the zoo, don't be surprised if one of us flings a handfull of poop at you. Happy zoo tourist watching, you fucking assholes!
  3. This must be a joke. You never noticed a difference in the general quality of the sex?
  4. I would run screaming from the room.
  5. Yay. More non-swingers taking up space in a swinger club. If you're determined to do this, here's the deal. If other people go out of their way to approach and talk to you, it means they want to do you. please don't be inconsiderate and string them along without telling them QUICKLY that you aren't swingers. If they're hanging around talking to you, it's not because you're just that cool. Tell them the deal so they can move on and maybe find real swingers among the mob of watchers.
  6. But I got one. I know what you put out there for public consumption. If you do that, don't be surprised when someone draws their own conclusion about it. You made broad brush judgements about a large number of people in a geographical area. So, right back at you. At this point, my guess is that seeing pictures of you would clear up most of my questions about why you "threw in the towell". Happy hunting, if you want to.
  7. If you really did all that, and were active enough to draw that many conclusions about that many things, then the only reason you didn't meet anyone along the way is because, deep down, you didn't really WANT TO. Yes, I'm judging.
  8. Emphasis mine. Wait a damn minute.... WTF Seriously?
  9. YES! Especially after my wife gets with a single man. This is a big part of it, though not so much after we swap with a couple.
  10. How do you know that? According to YOU, your wife is "out of control". How do you know it will be a week or two before anything significant happens? According to you, you got into swinging at your wife's request, after problems. I weep for the REAL swingers who you inflicted your fucking drama on. If you spent ANY amount of time around real swingers, you should know that a place like this is the last place to ask your questions. What's happening to you has NOTHING AT ALL to do with SWINGING! It has to do with a bitch who is willing to throw away everything because she's crazy, or a totally fucking sadistic cunt who has no respect for you. IF, and that's a big fucking IF, this story is even real! Was it 6 guys? Or 7 guys? Since you were looking so closely that you knew they weren't wearing condoms, and were going from ass to pussy to mouth, that you would know for sure if it was 6 or 7 guys. I know I'm putting a lot of MY personality into this next comment, but I can't help it. You stayed away, while drugs were being used in YOUR home, in YOUR CHILDREN'S home? You even stayed away when 2 men were RAPING your unconscious wife. You fucking PUSSY! I'm not totally serious about any of this post, because I'm calling BULLSHIT on your entire story. Really, what are you fishing for? Cuckold stories for your post-graduate sociology paper about the cultural phenomenon of swinging? Or are you just a troll? Good luck with that, either way.
  11. Holy crap. I'm not banned. You just had the right experience. There's no secret dungeon. There's no rapists. There's no ax murderers. Yes, those things COULD happen, but highly unlikely. What's more likely is a couple of vaguely dishonest flakes like you encountered. Welcome to the lifestyle.
  12. I have a new unicorn girlfriend. She's a unicorn NOW. 3 weeks ago she was in a new dating couple swinging relationship, which is always bad, but that's life. I gave her my best, honest advice for how to navigate her situation and preserve the couple. It didn't work. I sent her here, because this forum has the basics, and I thought she needed that. So I thought I should check it out myself again, and I find this thread. A tale of 2 clubs: This isn't ancient history. It was last weekend. There's this one club right here in our city, Columbus, Ohio. The morphing of the crowd over the years is just like lovenestduo described. It's a nice club. I know and like the owner. He's built an incredible facility, and he has a talent for hiring great staff. But then there's the people it attracts. My lovely wife and I were there last Friday night with our unicorn date. There were about 150 people in the club. At midnight, the playing hour, there were 2 doors of private rooms that were closed, and one couple, who I know, playing in the group room, with each other, no swapping going on. I also know for a fact that behind one of those closed doors was my wife and a single man. 150 people, and that's all the action that was happening at midnight. My girlfriend and I went to the group room and joined that other couple, because I knew that they were real swingers. A mob formed at the window in the wall which overlooked that room. I felt like a chimp at the zoo. That wall with the huge window was constructed just a few months ago because of all the RUDE newbies who have no concept of basic manners, let alone swinger etiquette. That's how bad it can get with all the watchers, posers, and tourists, who aren't real swingers. You're trying to fuck, and fully clothed people would be standing around RIGHT NEXT TO YOU, talking, making comments like it was Hot Or Not. Thus, the wall, and I thank the club owner for putting it there. Then there's the club we went to Saturday night. A small club out in the sticks of West Virginia, which is about a 2 hour drive for us. We didn't have the unicorn with us that night. For this club, 60 people is a good night, BUT THEY'RE ALL SWINGERS! You have the usual assortment of full swap, soft swap, and unicorn hunters, but at least everyone is some kind of real swinger. We always have a blast there, which makes it worth the drive out to the sticks. If you don't move quick, you can't get a room after 11pm. We met one couple who are friends, and another couple who are local friends of theirs. Awesome night. 2 very different clubs. The one with all the posers and bullshitters is the more "upscale" of the two. It provides the "classy" nightclub atmosphere, which is the kind of club all the posers seem to be drawn to. I don't have a problem with welcoming new swingers. We've been the first couple for several newbies. I understand that new people often want to move slowly at first, and I have no problem with welcoming them. But are we really at the point where we welcome people who state up front that they have no intention at all of ever becoming any type of swinger? FUCK THAT! We don't need any more posers clogging up the works at what's supposed to be a SWINGER club. Words mean things. "Swinger" has a meaning. If you aren't one, stay the hell out of those clubs!
  13. Really? It's not that complicated, if you have some concept of the broad scope of history. You don't even have to go that far back. In a more primal, less technologically advanced society, women NEED men to care for both themselves, and their children. It's more economic than emotional. Men have no problem supporting THEIR OWN children, for the most part. Men who don't have been scorned by society in the past just as much as a promiscuous woman. It's all different now. It's a common human flaw to not account for different historical perspectives. The birth control pill was only invented back in the 1960s. That changed everything! It was a cataclysmic shift in the relationship between the genders. Before that, consequence free sex WAS NOT POSSIBLE! We're still grappling with the changes that were caused by that. Then people forget that DNA tests have only been around since the 1990s. Again, men have no problem supporting THEIR OWN children. Before these wondrous inventions that happened within the lifetimes of many, if not most, of the people reading this, the only way for men to ensure that the children they were supporting were their own was to impose societal rules on the behavior of women, which have also historically been supported by the very same women. Societal shifts of that magnitude take a LOOOOOOOONG time to work through. We're still dealing with it.
  14. Best posts in this thread are from lovenestduo and sunbuckus. To the OP, seriously, don't become one more of the couples we have to pick through to find our way to the real swingers. It's just irritating. How do you expect people to react? When a real swinger couple arranges the babysitter, pays for the babysitter, (maybe)books a hotel room, pays the door fee at the club, and buys their booze, do you really think that couple wants to sit around and yak with you about how great it is to be in such an open, sex-positive place? No, they came to fuck. Their time is valuable, and you're just wasting it.
  15. Why the hell would you continue to invite people to a house party who you already know don't play? Were you that hard up for willing guests? You can't control who shows up at a club, but when it's a private house party?!?!? Why have them taking up space in your house that could be filled with players?
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