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CaptainFantasmo

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About CaptainFantasmo

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  • Birthday 04/07/1983

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  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Fort Worth, TX
  • Swinging Experience
    3 years
  • Anniversary
    11/19/2003

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  1. Nevermind the taste, it's the texture for me. It makes me gag, literally. My husband accidentally shot it too far back into my mouth not to swallow, and I gagged several times until my eyes started watering. I would never risk another man cumming in my mouth just because I'd be terrified that it would trigger my gag reflex, and that's just plainly not attractive. I really don't mind the taste when it ends up perfectly in my mouth where I can easily spit it out. I will risk this with my husband, because he will not be offended, but for everyone else, my mouth is off limits.
  2. I love tattoos, and I love getting them. I think the only tattoos that would bother me on someone would be obvious "prison tattoos" or something horribly offensive. If someone is covered in awesome well-done tattoos, then I just see it as more to look at. With that being said, I only have two, but I used to have four. One was removed, and two of them were covered up with a really awesome bigger tattoo. I am definitely getting more. Part of it is loving the way they look, and part of it is that I love the way it feels. Maybe I'm a masochist, but getting tattooed is just a really awesome experience for me. My husband only has one, a kind of big one on his back, and he is not at all interested in getting anything else. That's fine too. Having tattoos is not a requirement for me to be attracted to someone.
  3. In short, my husband either shaves or trims everything except his eyebrows and underarms. Yes, that includes his head, but that's a totally personal choice for him, and no he's not naturally balding or anything. He obviously just uses razors to shave, and a Phillips Norelco trimmer on his legs and butt area. He shaves the small amount of chest hair he has, pubic area, head, and face. Luckily he doesn't have back hair. I am equally disturbed by my own body hair. I use an epilator on my legs, underarms, and my unfortunate "happy trail". I had a complete Brazilian laser hair removal, so although I do have to shave that area every now and then for some stray hairs, it's pretty much hair free down there all the time. My husband and I have waged war on our unwanted body hair. My battle experience has been a lot more painful.
  4. From what I'm reading here, my husband and I would probably be considered young and attractive. I'm 30 and he's 31. We both have jobs that require us to be in good shape physically. I'm thinking maybe this has something to do with why many people, not all, ignore us at the clubs. I really wish people would be more open-minded. I am actually more attracted to average guys, with or without a little flab. The people, guys and girls, I see at work are all ridiculously fit and muscular, and I'm just really not into that at all. We have done full swap before, but my husband is still kind of iffy on me being with other guys as far as full intercourse. It has to be "the right kind of guy", his words. I'm not as picky. Neither one of us is very picky with females, as long as our personalities all seem to mesh well, and there's some kind of attraction, it's on. However, most of the times we've been to an on-premise place, we've just been with each other because we either didn't find anyone we were interested in or no one seemed at all interested in us, even though everyone seemed to really enjoy watching us. Which tells me that they saw something they liked, but for some reason didn't want to see if we were interested in them.
  5. My husband and I are non-smokers. However, I do use an electronic cigarette. There is no smell or smoke or anything with this. I can use it in the same room with my children without any ill effects. The "smoke" is actually just water vapor, and what I inhale is the vapor with some flavoring and nicotine. I quit smoking a long time ago, but that urge to smoke never left me. With that said, we definitely prefer non-smokers, but it's not a deal breaker, as long as they don't reek of cigarettes. There's a big difference between a person who smokes inside the house all the time and a person who only smokes outdoors. It's that nasty stale cigarette smoke smell that we can't deal with.
  6. The first club we went to probably had more black people than white people. I don't care too much or notice, but it seemed like there were only a few white people there. The place we go to now is very diverse. There were plenty of white and black people as well as a few Asian and Hispanic people and quite a few biracial couples. My husband and I are both white, and I don't think we judge attractiveness by skin color.
  7. I was not expecting to see those results. I (female) am an INTJ. Like the very definition of an INTJ, and my husband is an INTP. Those are both pretty rare personality types according to my psychology classes in college. It makes me feel so much better to see that there are so many people kind of like me who are into this. Maybe we're not oddballs after all.
  8. I guess I (female) brought it up, but I'm not really sure. We were just talking about this actually. I just remember telling my husband that I was attracted to women, and I thought that I was bisexual. My best friend from childhood is a lesbian, and we experimented as kids, and I think that kind of brought things out for me, but I never thought more about it until it came up with my husband. At that point we just wanted to have a threesome, but since that is such a rare thing we looked into swinging. Then we found out that we're both OK with it, and he's even comfortable with me doing things with other men, although full swap is not really for us. I don't mind him being with other women, I actually enjoy it, but I don't really want to be with other men, and he doesn't want it either. So for us, I guess swinging just kind of happened, and we went into it blind. It wasn't bad, but we did find out that full swap is not for us.
  9. We are not new to swinging. We started about 3 years ago, but it has been just a few experiences with only 2 couples. One couple was a full swap and the other was a soft swap. We're not very good at the whole socializing aspect of it. However, we just found a place that fits better with us. We went there this weekend, and we didn't do anything with other people, but we had fun with each other with other people around, and that was fun. Unfortunately we're going to be moving soon, so I have no idea what's going to be available at our new location. We don't really have any issues or problems. I just think it's awesome to have a place online to openly talk about this stuff since it's not really an option for us to be open with friends or family.
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