Adventure_Cutie

I used to wear them all the time! Commuting in NYC changed all that. It first was knee pain then sciatic nerve pain. I got really into yoga, and the more in shape I am the less I am whiling to wear heels, let alone ANY shoe with support. However... I do wear them out when going into large group social settings, as I am VERY short and get a sore neck talking up to everyone all night. And in crowds wherever I'm standing becomes the main thoroughfare because I look like a gap in the crowd. Heels seem to solve that. Besides they make my calves look fabulous.

My radar is really strong, as in I can read people really well. Often I can see a huge chunk of a persons insecurities within talking to them for five mins. Often even just observing their behavior. Certain environments of course bring out different facets of the same inner diamond. My observations are coming from two areas of my life. I am currently a waitress at a really high end restaurant, and I get to interact with so many people, on their best behavior in the beginning, and then really intimate as the evening goes on and they sink into the romantic/private mood that the restaurant creates. And from being a former NYC club kid. ,y swinging experience is a bit limited, but after attending one house party, all of the same still stands up. "party-bi" girls, approach situations enthusiastically, only after the environment has been set with a sexual charge. They are bouncy curious cheerleaders with innocence behind their eyes, always aware of the Males reacting to their behavior. Real bi girls have a feisty naughty look behind their eyes. Often prowling like lionesses, reveling in their sensual power that they can take anyone in the room. They can turn this off and on depending on the scene. But a true bi girl cannot hide the flash in their eyes when ever they are attracted to another lady, no matter where they are. Just like how it's obvious when a guy has just scoped another girl's ass or cleavage, no matter how discrete... I saw you Fresh lesbians, just breaking out in the world, tend to be rebellious, with a "take that world" vibe. While mature lesbians have a developed peace behind their eyes. They have a auto of comfort, relaxed and wise. All of these ladies have a sensual under current around them, that I think comes from sexual enlightenment. Similarly a straight lady whom has a fulfilling sex life full of orgasms, carries herself with confidence and assuredness. As for myself, I started exploring very young, out of innocence, exploring with girls before I did boys. Now later in life I find I prefer to live in a hetero-relationship. There is just something missing in my life if I don't have the taste of a woman from time to time. I crave them, like a hungry jungle cat. Not sure how this pertains to the whole mate for procreation animal drive. On that note we cannot forget that very few species have sex for fun! Dolphins do, and they often have orgies, masturbate, same sex, and hetero sex with ejaculations outside the body. So I think sex for fun is just as ancient and ingrained in us as sex for procreation. Also, I do believe that sexual orientation is a sliding scale, full of shades of gray, for men and women. It is just socially more acceptable for women to branch out then for men. I think if men were raised in a more accepting culture free of shame for their curiosities, studies would find their sexuality more fluid as well. GO Hedonism!

I am bisexual. I have erotic dreams about women as much as I do men. I prefer lesbian porn opposed to heterosexual. I have felt attraction to both boys and girls since early childhood, before I even knew what sex was. The more I read about sexuality classifications the more I come to realize that between hetero and gay, there are worlds of gray all of which are classified as bisexual. Heteroflexible and Homoflexible narrow down which side of Ambisexual that you swing. Ambisexual, being the rarest, a person truly attracted equally to both sexes, often accepting of transsexuals and hermaphrodites. I truly believe that I fall into this category. Despite never dating those of the miscellaneous sexual identities, I fall lustily for the person, their body as a piece of art, and have had passionate relationships in hot straight and lesbian worlds. With my own experiences, and finding a lack of place, and pressure to claim straight or gay, I rejoice in being able to shout BI!! And don't judge anyone who identifies with that title. If they find power in it, but are just "party bi" girls, more power to em. I'll go only as far as they want me to, and then play with the men, because I like them too . And yes I too can spot a lesbian from a full bi from a party bi, and I'll make out with them all.

Everytime we go out for wings I take home the whole pile of hand sanitizer wipes! They would be perfect for this.

I'm so glad this topic is here! We are about to have our first swinging evening and I have been very curious to the ettiquete. I don't squirt every time, and I usually only make a moderate wet spot. But every once in a while, my boyfriend paralyzes me with "rolling black outs" multiple orgasms resulting in the "lake effect". He gives me explosive rolling orgasms that won't quit, and I ejaculate like they do in porn. I've gotten myself in the face more then once, he gets blasted up the chest, and once over his shoulder. And I make it a point to empty my bladder before hand, because I am pretty sure then when I've lost it and going that hard, my muscles contract so much, that I think I'm peeing too. But it Never Smells like it is, just the amount of liquid is astonishing. My squirting and overall wetness got bigger and better once I started doing kaegle Excersizes, and learning to isolate the different muscles in my vagina. The first few squirts happened when I had a compound clit, and G Spot orgasm. So should we warn future couples and bring a towel? What if I'm too nervous and can't relax to make it happen? Will they be disappointed?